The friend zone is a myth

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This is the original version. Was made 2 years ago back when SOHH still had forums and people were still migrating here. This isn't a gem for dealing with women either. It's a fact of life. There is no friend zone. There never was. Yet to this very day people still talk about such a bullshyt concept and keep the myth alive. I still hear the term used on the regular.

i know what you're saying...

some of these nikkas forget that theres a few chicks who want to get to know you before they throw the p*ssy at you... then theres the chicks down to fukk but its all on you... then there are the ones who wint feeling you...
 

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This is the original version. Was made 2 years ago back when SOHH still had forums and people were still migrating here. This isn't a gem for dealing with women either. It's a fact of life. There is no friend zone. There never was. Yet to this very day people still talk about such a bullshyt concept and keep the myth alive. I still hear the term used on the regular.



Get some help before you shoot up a school.
 

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Its as real as you allow it to be

This is pretty much it; the friendzone is voluntary.

You can only be friendzoned if you try to be friends with a chick that has rejected you. If you don't want to be in the friendzone, then if a chick rejects you, stop calling/contacting her and move the fukk on.
 

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to this day people still talk about this thing called the friend zone. its really an imaginary thing people created to help them deal with rejection. the woman rejected you and you're still hanging around calling yourself in some type of zone. women are usually nice so if you're a decent guy but not what she wants she'll let you hang around but you're not in a zone you're just a guy in denial about the L you took.

its not a friendship either you're a vulture circling overhead waiting for a moment of weakness to strike. the worst part is you don't even want this chick anymore deep down. you just wanna conqueror her to reverse the rejection you experienced. you're just obsessed with "getting out of the friend zone" cause your ego got bruised. an ego that shouldn't have been brought to the game in the first place.

we all get rejected. these women don't know your value so don't take it personal. they're making split second decisions based on little to no info or superficial bullshyt. lots of times they come back around. you get a random call years later cause she kept your number and she wants to talk again. she realizes what she let go. she knows she fukked up.
ummmmmm what are you saying that any nikka doesn't already know??

you think nikkas actually think they are REAL friends with this girl?? you think nikkas think this girl is REAL friends with you???

it's mutual, save dikk/p*ssy for later. if i wanted to fukk when we met, and you said no you got a man, but gave me the number anyway... then you know what i'm here for... and i know, you know what i'm here for, and you still gave me the number

so yea.. i'll pop jokes on fb and comment your shyt and say hi when you're out.... but we ain't calling each other to talk about our days and plan friendly dates... i'm waiting for him to fukk up so i can come get that p*ssy.. just like she wants me to obviously or she wouldn't be giving a nikka who is hollering, any time of day, let alone her personal number

make obvious statements and pass them off as some sort of enlightenment brehs
 

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Good thread, I met this girl and she always respond to my texts but when I wanted to go out with her the 4th time, she like just keep it friends :heh: And I knew exactly what that means. So I told her if aint nothing more to come out of it, then don't waist my time :birdman: #HOH. And she said she respected that. :ehh:

Done bytch :win:





























But I still want her though :sadcam: Is there a way? :lupe:
 

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Good thread, I met this girl and she always respond to my texts but when I wanted to go out with her the 4th time, she like just keep it friends :heh: And I knew exactly what that means. So I told her if aint nothing more to come out of it, then don't waist my time :birdman: #HOH. And she said she respected that. :ehh:

Done bytch :win:





























But I still want her though :sadcam: Is there a way? :lupe:
Being in the friendzone is equal to being a 3rd string qb

You're in the nfl technically, like you're in her life

You get to practice with the stars, you get to talk and holla and say more than friends type shyt

Most likely you will never get an nfl start, and you'll most likely never get to fukk her

But eeeeeeevery once in a while, you become Tim tebow. The first string gets hurt, the 2nd string sucks, coach gives you a shot and you take over


Women might never let you fukk. But every so often. And every guy alive has smashed a female friend before. But every so often, her girls will put it in her head how good you are to her. She'll remember how you're always there in her bad times. And she might just call you up to give you a shot

Then again you may never amount to shyt and retire never have taken a sniff of playing time
 

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Being in the friendzone is equal to being a 3rd string qb

You're in the nfl technically, like you're in her life

You get to practice with the stars, you get to talk and holla and say more than friends type shyt

Most likely you will never get an nfl start, and you'll most likely never get to fukk her

But eeeeeeevery once in a while, you become Tim tebow. The first string gets hurt, the 2nd string sucks, coach gives you a shot and you take over


Women might never let you fukk. But every so often. And every guy alive has smashed a female friend before. But every so often, her girls will put it in her head how good you are to her. She'll remember how you're always there in her bad times. And she might just call you up to give you a shot

Then again you may never amount to shyt and retire never have taken a sniff of playing time
I really thought about playing along to see if I still had a chance, but when she said "just as friends" I was really pissed about it.

But I kept it cordial and gave her a choice of wanting more, but she said ok, gave a nice goodbye and that was that.

And these are the same women that be complaining about the lack of a good black man and having a "strong" nikka to be with. I think shes been with so many broke dusty nikkas, when the right one shows up, she dont know what to do with him, or thinks she isn't good enough for me. I gotta keep myself positive for me, since they're arent that many successful black men around our age that is single and looking in the first place. :manny:
 

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I really thought about playing along to see if I still had a chance, but when she said "just as friends" I was really pissed about it.

But I kept it cordial and gave her a choice of wanting more, but she said ok, gave a nice goodbye and that was that.

And these are the same women that be complaining about the lack of a good black man and having a "strong" nikka to be with. I think shes been with so many broke dusty nikkas, when the right one shows up, she dont know what to do with him, or thinks she isn't good enough for me. I gotta keep myself positive for me, since they're arent that many successful black men around our age that is single and looking in the first place. :manny:
See but like the nfl. She could have just cut you

But she tried to keep you on the squad. Women collect men. They like a stable of nikkas same as we try and have a stable of hoes

The sooner men realize that women do all the same shyt, just talk like they don't, we'll understand them



She knew what you wanted like all women know. And she tried to keep you on the roster. Hoping you'd be there for her every need. Then use you up and cut you. Or realize "hmmmm maybe I need to leave the thugs alone and try something different"


I tell women all the time. All your friends want to smash. Some are more foward than others
 

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Good thread, I met this girl and she always respond to my texts but when I wanted to go out with her the 4th time, she like just keep it friends :heh: And I knew exactly what that means. So I told her if aint nothing more to come out of it, then don't waist my time :birdman: #HOH. And she said she respected that. :ehh:

Done bytch :win:





























But I still want her though :sadcam: Is there a way? :lupe:
Why so you want someone that isn't interested? Seems like a turn off to me. Probably an ego thing. Not a good idea to get your ego involved in this.
 
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Start dikking down her friends or her younger sister.
Win. Win. :yeshrug:
Not a single fuk will be given. :russ:
 

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Its not a myth...its for those beta phaggots who are nothing but pathetic white knights

brb be all lovey dovey with a bish
brb do whatever she wants
brb gets cheated on
brb feeling non alpha

aw fuk bye

ps...what the fuk is a dam cac...
 
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