The Game is Flawed: Let me Explain to You Why
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They're not "paranoid creatures" as much as just conditioned ones.The only reason I refuse to approach men is not because I'm scared, but because men are paranoid creatures. They'll think 'who else will she approach? That's too much confidence for them to handle. For that reason, it's best to let them pick you, or at least... let them think they did the picking when it was really you who aligned yourself in their vision.
Society conditions women to feel they don't need to approach, men feel women who approach them would approach many others the same way because it's not the norm.
The game is definitely flawed, which makes it the game in the first place.
Kenny West
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The only reason I refuse to approach men is not because I'm scared, but because men are paranoid creatures. They'll think 'who else will she approach? That's too much confidence for them to handle. For that reason, it's best to let them pick you, or at least... let them think they did the picking when it was really you who aligned yourself in their vision.
That's pretty dumb
couldn't imagine that popping into my head at least until after I fukk. otherwise there isn't any real good chances I'll even see you again
TheFemalePerspective
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They're not "paranoid creatures" as much as just conditioned ones.
Society conditions women to feel they don't need to approach, men feel women who approach them would approach many others the same way because it's not the norm.
The game is definitely flawed, which makes it the game in the first place.
Bingo! Not all men, but I've come across enough that think like that... to know the insecurity does exist.
Most definitely
I myself can't help but feel that way as well because it's totally outside of the norm for many women who are viewed upon as attractive to go out of their way to talk to men when they are approached constantly.
Okay you say you don't approach men, define "approach" for me
TheFemalePerspective
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Okay you say you don't approach men, define "approach" for me
I'm talking in the sense that a woman walks up to you and tries to get YOUR number on the first encounter....and plays the aggressor.
For some men, that's too much to handle.
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
exactly we are the minority in here and they always thing they know everything about everything.
It's not too much to handle, we're not talking about them being physically aggressive.I'm talking in the sense that a woman walks up to you and tries to get YOUR number on the first encounter....and plays the aggressor.
For some men, that's too much to handle.
Like I said, they're conditioned by society, which makes them judge those potential aggressor women a certain way.
salute on being honest about the chemical imbalance though, it's a human thing.Yeah that makes senseI'm talking in the sense that a woman walks up to you and tries to get YOUR number on the first encounter....and plays the aggressor.
For some men, that's too much to handle.
Have you tried just striking up a random convo, then just letting him ask for your number if you feeling each other? Kind of like letting him think he's the one that got you.
TheFemalePerspective
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Yeah that makes sense
Have you tried just striking up a random convo, then just letting him ask for your number if you feeling each other? Kind of like letting him think he's the one that got you.
I'm not against that, and I've done it before.
Works like a charm....
TheFemalePerspective
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I remember when my first 'boyfriend' asked for my number, I kept saying no.... then finally I said okay, but I'll take yours because I can't give you mine. 
Then quickly, I realized that if I took his, I'd have to contact him first. So, instead I gave him my phone and said.. type it in. I knew in advance, he was going to give himself a call.
I pretended to act all surprised.. and upset.
and he looked so pleased with himself.
Throughout our entire relationship, he kept saying... "You tried to get rid off me, but did you like how I got you?"
"I'm like the smooth-criminal."
To this day, poor guy doesn't know...
it was planned all along.
Then quickly, I realized that if I took his, I'd have to contact him first. So, instead I gave him my phone and said.. type it in. I knew in advance, he was going to give himself a call.
I pretended to act all surprised.. and upset.
and he looked so pleased with himself.
Throughout our entire relationship, he kept saying... "You tried to get rid off me, but did you like how I got you?"
"I'm like the smooth-criminal."
To this day, poor guy doesn't know...
it was planned all along.
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Diondon
Thanks to the lawyers uh, I marbled the foyer
Every man is different. For some... it's too much to handle, especially if the lady is good looking.
I just assume you gon be a easy hit if you approach,you must really want the d
...so if you end up not bein a easy hit I usually just resent you for false advertising
...don't approach me if you not ready to give up the puzzy yet...and before you blame me,this assumption will change if women ever start doing the approaching,instead of just leaving it to the thirsty chicks.....I dap ya original thought process though
even though I don't know if I like you trying to write off something that's in damn near every woman unless shes emotionless
,and them emotionless bytches strke me to be weirdos,socially retarded and may be just as unstable if not more
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to OP for this thread. Dropping gems on these young men 
Also, once a woman matures, she no longer craves that constant emotional tidalwave that the "bad boys" produce, she wants someone who can keep her at a consistent healthy level of happiness and contentment.