The harsh reality is most of single men 30 + will end up with a single mom & its not that bad.

[Lweezy]

This negro wont make it. He's too needy and desperate. Even if he finds a woman to trick off on she will use and discard him. @DrX the type of nikka to blow his 401k and savings simping. I predict suicide for this nikka within the next 10 years

 

[boundlessglobe]

This reminds of this meme:

All jokes aside it seems like dudes only care about this single mom shyt online. Regardless of what nikkas have said in here many men will still date women with children. So some of y’all is full of shyt. Being physically unattractive is more of a deterrent for a woman than being a single mom.

 

[RicanFury]

Im 23 and I'm from NY too lol. Yeah mad btiches in the hood had kids at 17 or, straight after high school. I was actually gonna make a thread on it.

How old are you ? Ny bytches do be crazy, gotta find the non hood bytches.

But what I was tellin dude was that if he looks similar to his 20s, then he should have no problem then.

Just cuz he 30 don't mean he gotta settle for chicks his exact age with kids.

so you know then breh....and you still in your prime lol chicks your age are still wifable....when you get to your 30s ( im 32) its a distinct difference in whats available. im dealing with the aftermath of me at your age. now dont get me wrong i can get p*ssy no doubt..but im old now and that shyt is kicking in ( a family of my own/growing old wit someone) and its harder to find someone compatible in this city. heed my warning young man...you find a good quality woman now...cuff her. trust me lol

 

[Vaulkner]

Not really if you date women around 25.

In fact once you reach 30 you actually gain rank as a man from women around that age unless your a total loser who is broke and still hasn’t figured out what path in life you are taking.

if you're 30-35 and not fukkin a girl in her 20's you're losin

 

[Blackout]

Imo What people misunderstand about this is that the young chick is only interested in the older dudes money.
you are less physically attractive to her than the men her age, but you have more dough. that's why she fukks with you; your Doe compensates for your age.
The older you get the more money you're going to need to compensate.

it's not a game you can play Forever. And most nikkas don't have money like that anyway. They just lie on these boards.

Maybe at 18 to 20 but at 25 the good ones are there.

If you choose wrong then your scenario is true.

If you choose right then what you say doesn’t happen and you end up with a good woman to settle down with.

What you fail to understand is that being superficial never works outside of sex. Gotta look at her personality too.

 

[Balla]

Lol you're only 32 lol. You know what's funny I think NY isn't a place settle down. States like that have a lot of singles.

I can tell you now bruh, I was about to get out the game at a real young age, I've been in a relationship for years, and I regret the shyt immensely.

I gotta get this bread up and fukk these hoes to sleep, I have to make up for lost time, and fukk for 10 more years at least.

I gotta make up for all this shyt and sow my oats or I'll cheat on my on the girl I decide to settle down with.

It's better to get that shyt out now than to settle down, potentially cheat, get caught, and have to pay that bytch shyt.

At least in 10 years or so, I'll be more calm.

My nikka I gotta make some good bread, start a business, etc.

I'll be damned letting a chick get me when I start making bread.

Lmao

so you know then breh....and you still in your prime lol chicks your age are still wifable....when you get to your 30s ( im 32) its a distinct difference in whats available. im dealing with the aftermath of me at your age. now dont get me wrong i can get p*ssy no doubt..but im old now and that shyt is kicking in ( a family of my own/growing old wit someone) and its harder to find someone compatible in this city. heed my warning young man...you find a good quality woman now...cuff her. trust me lol

 

[Lamar Givens]

@DrX

Married, so I’ll keep it a hundo!

If you are single as a man and have no kids it’s best for you to find a single woman your age or younger who does not have kids.

There are a PLETHORA of highly attractive females who are SANE in their 30’s who postponed marriage and settling down to focus on their careers.

You have SOME that are even still virgins.

I’m sorry but it appears a lot of these dudes on the coli grew up or are in an environment filled with trash azz women.

If you can OP get out and travel the world. There are millions of women out here who have their shiii together and won’t bring drama to a relationship despite what a lot of these delusional brehs on this forum talking about.

The only drawback to finding a woman in her middle to late 30’s is the possibility of y’all having a hard time getting pregnant or if she even wants kids.

I’ve come to the conclusion that the vast majority of the brehs on here are young, dumb, and full of cum.

Smashing and passing as if that’s going to last forever is a young immature boys mindset.

If you do find a single mom to settle down with it is best if the child’s father is dead. This is to avoid her still having feelings or the breh making y’all relationship hard especially if he’s a deabeat father.

 

[Balla]

Yall 6 cert nikkas!

Why yall ain't fukkin these hoes when you're 30+?

Yall can't find no hoes at all to fukk with no kids?

Find you a cute mid 20s bytch and plant a seed in her.

Yall supposed to be 6 cert nikkas!!

 

[Jerz]

Im not against dating a single mother. She could be a good woman - and all children need a good male role model. But with that being said - I seek youth and adventure.. I don't want that boring - step daddy lifestyle

 

[Lweezy]

I don't even know why I posted in here. I forgot this is the Coli where every nikka is 6 foot, 6 cert, 6 figure, and can pull any chick on the planet while single moms are the most undesirable creatures on the planet. Even tho most of y'all was raised by single moms or have a baby moms. Comedy.

 

[Voice of Reason]

A grown as man with low self esteem.


Breh get in the gym or something damn

 

[Lweezy]

It's simple at this point : ask yourself if you want to have kids and to create a family.

1) If you don't want kids and wants to live that casanova lifestyle till your 50's (and to be honest most of you will fail at that because it's not viable way of life), you don't have to worry about turning 30.

2) If you want to have kids and to create a family. You need to settle down at 30. At least you need to find a chick to do it. Don't wait to be in your 40's to find a woman and to have your first kid. At that pont, you won't find a 25 yo without kids, except if you're an exceptional guy, things that most of you aren't. You'll have bitter woman in their 30's with difficulties to gobe birth, divorcees and single mom. Even in the case you find a woman with no kids in her mid 20's, having your first kid at that age is a bad move itself. You're supposed to grow up with your kids and to enjoy their presence, not to be their grandpa.





If you're 30 marrying a 30 yo woman is dumb move, since you have access to 23+ women.


7 years is the goat age gap.

We talking bout single moms breh

 

[jwonder]

False False False False. I'm 40 and will never want a single mom. Now I must admit I have revised my standards. If their kids are grown and out the house that is different. But no fukking way am I'm getting a single mom with a little kid. fukk that.

I just hope my unicorn that I got works out. A chick with no kids, that makes more money than me, doesn't bytch about stupid shyt, cooks, and cleans. It's like I won the lottery. Finding a black woman like that in this day is like finding a needle in a haystack.

 

[jwonder]

As a 35yr old

Last 3 women I've fukked were single moms. But I'm not cuffin em

If they have teenage kids almost grown I would.

Facts.

 

[Lweezy]

@DrX

Married, so I’ll keep it a hundo!

If you are single as a man and have no kids it’s best for you to find a single woman your age or younger who does not have kids.

There are a PLETHORA of highly attractive females who are SANE in their 30’s who postponed marriage and settling down to focus on their careers.

You have SOME that are even still virgins.

I’m sorry but it appears a lot of these dudes on the coli grew up or are in an environment filled with trash azz women.

If you can OP get out and travel the world. There are millions of women out here who have their shiii together and won’t bring drama to a relationship despite what a lot of these delusional brehs on this forum talking about.

The only drawback to finding a woman in her middle to late 30’s is the possibility of y’all having a hard time getting pregnant or if she even wants kids.

I’ve come to the conclusion that the vast majority of the brehs on here are young, dumb, and full of cum.

Smashing and passing as if that’s going to last forever is a young immature boys mindset.

If you do find a single mom to settle down with it is best if the child’s father is dead. This is to avoid her still having feelings or the breh making y’all relationship hard especially if he’s a deabeat father.