The 'How To Get A Loyal Woman' Thread

[SheWantTheD]

Life is unpredictable. But you can predict how you behave by having self-respect all all costs. And in my opinion, it is rare that a couple has an amazing, strong, communicative relationship that fulfills the needs of both partners and that one just randomly decides to cheat. If she does that, she was trash all along and you were blind.

randomly decides to cheat? nahhhhh.

A lotta women marry men because they have the qualities that would make a good husband and father.. all the while cheat with the man they find physically attractive or brings "excitement" into their lives.

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

The man can leave to so, your really not saying much.

Duh. The thread is about getting a loyal woman, that's why I mentioned women and not men.

 

[MMA]

1. Be able to identify if a woman really wants you or not. A woman who wants you will approach a lot of her interactions with you and do her best to keep you around (You won't have to question this). If not, you will know, you are wasting your time with someone but you choose to ignore it, stop ignoring what your body is telling you.

2. Do not fix a woman, it is not your responsibility. A woman flooding her problems onto you is letting you know you should leave and save yourself from her. Listen

3. Your interaction with woman should be limited online. The internet and cyber-world give people a false equivalent of life. You should be looking at ass offline, you should be putting yourself in positions to be around attractive woman offline. When you take out the equation of being satisfied with the opposite sex online with things like social media and porn, you'll have no choice but to go after woman in person.

4. If your goal is to find a loyal woman, begin to ask yourself the traits a loyal woman would carry and what her actions will present. While dating, look for the patterns.

5. When you respect yourself, you'll expect the same from your partner.

6. Be firm with what you want and expect from a woman. Do not play games or entertain the shyt. If she isn't it or attempting to be such, leave.

7. get used to rejection and stop taking it personal. Pick up on what works and what doesn't work, self-audit at all times while dating.

8. stop being afraid to leave a bad situation - it could be no one fault but if it isn't working, do not stay. Too many man staying in situations they don't want to be anymore

9. Don't listen to people, social media is a great way to figure out who you are dealing with. If they are seen online doing reckless shyt, believe it

That's the biggest issue I see many brothers having now a days. It's not your job or responsibility has a man to save any woman. Being a good guy does not mean saving a woman from her own problems. Those are her problems not yours.
If your advances don't work with her. It's not meant to be and move on to the next.

Now once you have this loyal woman - bring her guidance, learn to use the word No, be firm on your beliefs and movement, be the man in your relationship, enjoy time for yourself

Going 3 year strong with mine, never settle with a woman who does not truly love you or ride for you. You are only missing out on the beauty of a woman love. Too much of thecoli are dealing with woman who do not really want them, that's why so many of these nikkas are angry.

 

[Flywin Lannister]

randomly decides to cheat? nahhhhh.

A lotta women marry men because they have the qualities that would make a good husband and father.. all the while cheat with the man they find physically attractive or brings "excitement" into their lives.

So we agree

If you a lame dude who is a great provider and texts back 'how high' when she texts 'jump' you fukked.

My whole point about being loyal to yourself is being your best self. I wrote that she needs to feel and know that you don't just randomly let people in your life and that you don't make anybody a higher priority than you.

It makes me cringe so hard when I see people I came up with turn into butter because they met this new girl and any raw, physical attraction there is must be gone because these chicks turn into bosses of these dudes. Of course her eyes will wander when someone with an actual backbone walks past and speaks. So yes, that's not randomly at all.

I am talking about centered men with strong characters who clearly don't play that shyt, make themselves a priority and don't do 180 degree changes into puzzies because they're now dating/engaged/married. Who wants a man with the right character traits (provider basically is what that means with women, it means money) if he's softer than panties.. I am assuming here most men get this and pick up on this in the OP.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Women are whores and a$$holes. The Bible told you about female nature. fukk them. Does not matter if you meet them at school, club, work, bar, gorcery store they are all the same and operate the same. They say one thing do another and I do not understand why God wasted his time making these demons. They never follow directions and always rebellious. you tell a woman to meet up she gives you a damn excuse. Then you gotta go back and try again. No thanks. Then we have a society that condition you to worship them. Women are Liers and men still believe them instead of second guessing them. Oh and men gotta change ourselves to attract them. Wait what? Nah like I said fukk em.

 

[Flywin Lannister]

That's the biggest issue I see many brothers having now a days. It's not your job or responsibility has a man to save any woman. Being a good guy does not mean saving a woman from her own problems. Those are her problems not yours.
If your advances don't work with her. It's not meant to be and move on to the next.

You has a man will only be successful in dating with numbers and knowing how to identify the kind of woman you want. You need to fail with woman at some point to learn from your mistakes

Now once you have this loyal woman - bring her guidance, learn to use the word No, be firm on your beliefs and movement, be the man in your relationship, enjoy time for yourself

Going 3 year strong with mine, never settle with a woman who does not truly love you or ride for you. You are only missing out on the beauty of a woman love.

I wrote 'add on brothers'

I didn't write 'rewrite my post'

We are completely in agreement.. but you write that I said that men need to save women. I didn't write that ANYWHERE. The entire OP is about men focusing on THEMSELVES and that high quality women will appear in your life... a strong woman doesn't need saving, we agree.

 

[SheWantTheD]

So we agree

If you a lame dude who is a great provider and texts back 'how high' when she texts 'jump' you fukked.

My whole point about being loyal to yourself is being your best self. I wrote that she needs to feel and know that you don't just randomly let people in your life and that you don't make anybody a higher priority than you.

It makes me cringe so hard when I see people I came up with turn into butter because they met this new girl and any raw, physical attraction there is must be gone because these chicks turn into bosses of these dudes. Of course her eyes will wander when someone with an actual backbone walks past and speaks. So yes, that's not randomly at all.

I am talking about centered men with strong characters who clearly don't play that shyt, make themselves a priority and don't do 180 degree changes into puzzies because they're now dating/engaged/married. Who wants a man with the right character traits (provider basically is what that means with women, it means money) if he's softer than panties.. I am assuming here most men get this and pick up on this in the OP.

I agree

 

[MMA]

I wrote 'add on brothers'

I didn't write 'rewrite my post'

We are completely in agreement.. but you write that I said that men need to save women. I didn't write that ANYWHERE. The entire OP is about men focusing on THEMSELVES and that high quality women will appear in your life... a strong woman doesn't need saving, we agree.

I was just adding on didn't say you said anything wrong. Even changed it before reading it

 

[Flywin Lannister]

The problem is, your not use to dealing with a real women, I've never encountered a women who thought like this, and I've only dealt with black women.

I've met and seen women like this.

I do not deal with women like this in my life though. I don't entertain that.

 

[semicko82]

trust me I know women switch up like the weather. I dont believe in loyalty from women. Only temporary Entertainemnt or companionship.

I was just answering the OP in terms of "how to make a woman loyal to you"

Women falling in love every 3 months & switching up is an entirely different convo. I agree. Yall bounce around.

I've taken dudes' bytches & I've had women stolen from me.

It happens.

Thats life.

Thats why #GMB is written on my profile.

This! Women change their mind with the wind

 

[Flywin Lannister]

I was just adding on didn't say you said anything wrong. Even changed it before reading it

Ah breh sorry it showed up as an edit of my post


Congrats on the positive relationship breh, a good woman and good love makes a lot of difference. I'm with a great woman myself - can't take these thots serious breh.

 

[Flywin Lannister]

1. Be able to identify if a woman really wants you or not. A woman who wants you will approach a lot of her interactions with you and do her best to keep you around (You won't have to question this). If not, you will know, you are wasting your time with someone but you choose to ignore it, stop ignoring what your body is telling you.

2. Do not fix a woman, it is not your responsibility. A woman flooding her problems onto you is letting you know you should leave and save yourself from her. Listen

3. Your interaction with woman should be limited online. The internet and cyber-world give people a false equivalent of life. You should be looking at ass offline, you should be putting yourself in positions to be around attractive woman offline. When you take out the equation of being satisfied with the opposite sex online with things like social media and porn, you'll have no choice but to go after woman in person.

4. If your goal is to find a loyal woman, begin to ask yourself the traits a loyal woman would carry and what her actions will present. While dating, look for the patterns.

5. When you respect yourself, you'll expect the same from your partner.

6. Be firm with what you want and expect from a woman. Do not play games or entertain the shyt. If she isn't it or attempting to be such, leave.

7. get used to rejection and stop taking it personal. Pick up on what works and what doesn't work, self-audit at all times while dating.

8. stop being afraid to leave a bad situation - it could be no one fault but if it isn't working, do not stay. Too many man staying in situations they don't want to be anymore

9. Don't listen to people, social media is a great way to figure out who you are dealing with. If they are seen online doing reckless shyt, believe it

That's the biggest issue I see many brothers having now a days. It's not your job or responsibility has a man to save any woman. Being a good guy does not mean saving a woman from her own problems. Those are her problems not yours.
If your advances don't work with her. It's not meant to be and move on to the next.

Now once you have this loyal woman - bring her guidance, learn to use the word No, be firm on your beliefs and movement, be the man in your relationship, enjoy time for yourself

Going 3 year strong with mine, never settle with a woman who does not truly love you or ride for you. You are only missing out on the beauty of a woman love. Too much of thecoli are dealing with woman who do not really want them, that's why so many of these nikkas are angry.

This is really good stuff brehs^

Salute

All of it, but one that really sticks out

5. When your respect yourself, you'll expect the same from your partner

This

THIS^

 

[Flywin Lannister]

I wrote 'add on brothers'

I didn't write 'rewrite my post'

We are completely in agreement.. but you write that I said that men need to save women. I didn't write that ANYWHERE. The entire OP is about men focusing on THEMSELVES and that high quality women will appear in your life... a strong woman doesn't need saving, we agree.

EDIT: for some reason this showed up wrong for me, breh made some great points

 

[Carlton Banks]

All these mental games only work until she gets a little bit of interest from another decent dude . We are women, we fall in love every 3 months when single if not faster.

The last part I agree with. Become your best self. Everything else follows.
Also understand you can't have everything in a person. Thats just life.

Wow, can't believe a woman actually admitted this. Impressive.

 

[Henri Christophe]

The Bible told you about female nature

This is true.

God wasted his time making these demons. They never follow directions and always rebellious.

Nah. This is false.

For the right man.... Women will do whatever.

Women were put here to assist us in accomplishing our mission/goals


If she isn't beneficial to your life & doesn't follow and submit to your instruction... Shes worthless.

Thats the problem.... nikkas always tolerate chicks that bring nothing to the table.

We gotta set some standards.