The 'How To Get A Loyal Woman' Thread

[ultraflexed]

In 11 years, can you safely say that your wife never cheated? Have you ever cheated? If not you don't think either of you will in the future? I'm so intrigued at what gives you this sense of security. Just asking to understand breh

Well, first off, I don't live life wondering wether or not my wife is cheating, we dated 3 years before getting married, if I believe her to be that kind of person I would not have wifed her, I trust my discision making.

Second, she has no reason to stay with me if she didn't want too, she makes more money then I do.
If she wanted to leave, I'd open the door and say goodbye, there is nothing stopping or forcing her to stay

 

[Flywin Lannister]

I'm being honest/informing the bros and you get offended.
You said it stand on it.
Its the internet relax.

No need to call her a whore though.

She's part-taking in our discussion and even dropped a gem. You could've said what you said in a million other ways. This thread is about finding a loyal woman and having a woman as part of that discussion is insightful.

I'm not saying you should go out hugging thots and worthless chicks. But if someone's being honest in here they should be able to talk.

 

[Kex]

interesting perspective, why do women fall in love so fast though? Biological mechanism?

We are emotional. The same way we seem to fall in love is the same way we seem to fall out of it. It’s not saying women don’t genuinely love but we love everything. We follow our emotions more than logic in most any relationship(work,intimate,friendship,etc) It feels right we in. It doesn’t feel right we out. It’s levels to it though. Women won’t just leave when things don’t feel right but the emotions not lining up over time in most cases a short period will have one disconnect completely from a man she was suppose to be in love with

 

[Henri Christophe]

We are emotional. The same way we seem to fall in love is the same way we seem to fall out of it. It’s not saying women don’t genuinely love but we love everything. We follow our emotions more than logic in most any relationship(work,intimate,friendship,etc) It feels right we in. It doesn’t feel right we out. It’s levels to it though. Women won’t just leave when things don’t feel right but the emotions not lining up over time in most cases a short period will have one disconnect completely from a man she was suppose to be in love with

Thank you for speaking your truth

When nikkas like me speak about female nature .... I get called bitter & all types of other fakkit shaming tactics that these nikkas use.

"You never had a good woman"

"Youre bitter"

"Choose better"

Hahahaha, these nikkas watch too much disney channel.

I'm glad you came with a female perspective on things, so people can see GMB aint a bunch of crazy nikkas

 

[Flywin Lannister]

We are emotional. The same way we seem to fall in love is the same way we seem to fall out of it. It’s not saying women don’t genuinely love but we love everything. We follow our emotions more than logic in most any relationship(work,intimate,friendship,etc) It feels right we in. It doesn’t feel right we out. It’s levels to it though. Women won’t just leave when things don’t feel right but the emotions not lining up over time in most cases a short period will have one disconnect completely from a man she was suppose to be in love with

All men should read this^

Thank you for sharing this insight. We as men have all experienced the sentence 'I don't know, it just doesn't feel right anymore'. We've also experienced the emotion of it not feeling right but most men are 'fixers'. Something's broken, we fix it. Something in the house, I'll fix it. Something needs to be handled? I'll fix it. You say it doesn't feel right? I'll fix it. But - and this is just my advice for the men - as we grow older we have to learn 'ok when you hear those words, step back. Make a quick and clean break.. don't drag this out. Don't go on a break.'. Not only does that shorten the emotional distress that comes with the insecurity of a relationship on the rocks, it helps her a lot too, if it doesn't feel right saying you want things to be like before won't make any difference. From that you can do your own thing both of you and things can work out down the road, or not. But hanging around is not a good look when a woman says she's not feeling it. Be a man and make your decision, at least you walk out with your head up.

Thanks again @Kex for taking part in this discussion, this forum is mostly men and we can't possibly have a thread on how to find a loyal woman without women explaining their point of view. Thank you, your point has A LOT of value and gives huge insight into that thinking that's hard for us to understand at times.

 

[Hungerpain]

No need to call her a whore though.

She's part-taking in our discussion and even dropped a gem. You could've said what you said in a million other ways. This thread is about finding a loyal woman and having a woman as part of that discussion is insightful.

I'm not saying you should go out hugging thots and worthless chicks. But if someone's being honest in here they should be able to talk.

I didnt call her a whore i corrected myself.
Tuck ya cape in its dragging on the floor.

Even if i did call her a whore would i be inncorect?

Falling in "love" with a different nikka every three months whether youre in a commited relationship or not isnt whore shyt?

 

[Flywin Lannister]

I didnt call her a whore i corrected myself.
Tuck ya cape in its dragging on the floor.

Even if i did call her a whore would i be inncorect?

Falling in "love" with a different nikka every three months whether youre in a commited relationship or not isnt whore shyt?

I'm not going back and forth with you.

This thread is about meeting loyal women, not about your little temper tantrum. Nobody's saving hoes in here.

She said that when a woman is SINGLE she falls in love every 3 months. She never said that this happens in a relationship.

 

[ultraflexed]

We are emotional. The same way we seem to fall in love is the same way we seem to fall out of it. It’s not saying women don’t genuinely love but we love everything. We follow our emotions more than logic in most any relationship(work,intimate,friendship,etc) It feels right we in. It doesn’t feel right we out. It’s levels to it though. Women won’t just leave when things don’t feel right but the emotions not lining up over time in most cases a short period will have one disconnect completely from a man she was suppose to be in love with

The women I know with that mindset are always single.

It comes down to cause and consequences.
A couple dates, they prove themselves to each other, they gain each other's trust, they gain each others love.

You act like just wake up out of bed and say "this relationship is over" for no reason.

Maybe the women takes a step back because, they not compadible as originally thought.
Maybe he lacked ambition and she wanted someone who wanted more out of life.
Maybe he couldn't keep a job and she took that as red flag.
Maybe she realized he's not responsible or wouldn't make a good parent.
Maybe she doesn't like the way he communicates with her.
Maybe he's bad with money.

There always always reason why sh#t doesn't work or is not working.

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

I remember an old woman telling me:
“you’re a woman, you’ll move on and easily fall in love with someone else.” I had asked her for advice on marriage in general and that was her response. Which was shocking but understandable.

Honestly, I never understood why men think we are so innocent...

LOL wow this is exactly why I continue saying that the idea of placing all of the responsibility of choosing the right woman on yourself is a stupid concept to believe in. Men, it's not up to you. It's up to women to decide if they want to be loyal.

It took one experience for me to figure out that men can be nearly flawless with women but if they find a reason of their own to "move on" from you there's nothing you can do. The blame isn't always on you and it's not that you chose wrong necessarily. It's the woman that decided that they want to move on. There is no blueprint to finding a loyal woman. When it comes to a woman being loyal and really loving you the ball is ultimately in their court every time.

 

[Carlton Banks]

We are emotional. The same way we seem to fall in love is the same way we seem to fall out of it. It’s not saying women don’t genuinely love but we love everything. We follow our emotions more than logic in most any relationship(work,intimate,friendship,etc) It feels right we in. It doesn’t feel right we out. It’s levels to it though. Women won’t just leave when things don’t feel right but the emotions not lining up over time in most cases a short period will have one disconnect completely from a man she was suppose to be in love with

So with that said, would you agree that women need to be lead by men since we're the more logical species and that living life via emotions is counter productive?

 

[Squidward24]

Great advice ITT

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

I would never trust a woman that's way into social media. It's such a huge red flag. They are most likely to be damaged individuals.

 

[Henri Christophe]

When it comes to a woman being loyal and really loving you the ball is ultimately in their court every time.

Yup

And shawty above just said that women follow emotion above logic in all situations (we already knew that)

so why would any intelligent and logical man give a woman a ring or his seed?

Makes no sense.

But then again, alot of men are controlled and driven by the spirit of emotion as well

just like bytches

 

[Kex]

 

[Squidward24]

LOL wow this is exactly why I continue saying that the idea of placing all of the responsibility of choosing the right woman on yourself is a stupid concept to believe in. Men, it's not up to you. It's up to women to decide if they want to be loyal.

It took one experience for me to figure out that men can be nearly flawless with women but if they find a reason of their own to "move on" from you there's nothing you can do. The blame isn't always on you and it's not that you chose wrong necessarily. It's the woman that decided that they want to move on. There is no blueprint to finding a loyal woman. When it comes to a woman being loyal and really loving you the ball is ultimately in their court every time.

you wanna talk about your experience? no hate , sounds very interesting that a girl would leave you for absolutely no reason. Were you both happy and satisfied prior to her breaking up with you.