Anothergirl
Goat ™
oddly enough, to set the introvert control I was gonna say that the stranger has earphones in his ear
an extrovert is waltzing up and talking to the dude with the earbuds in anyway.
The Introvert Thread
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an extrovert is waltzing up and talking to the dude with the earbuds in anyway.
OPTiMO
SamsoniteMan
oddly enough, to set the introvert control I was gonna say that the stranger has earphones in his ear
Why would I bother somebody with their headphones in
introvert girls >>>>>>
my ex was an extrovert and was an attention whore and ultimately became very expensive... omg valentines day lets go to dinner omg omg new moviez omg new concert omg omgomgogmogmgomg
introvert girls are more laid back and wana 'hang out' watching movies at the crib.
ordering a pizza + watching a movie at ur place and plowing >>>> going out all the time and meeting up with her annoying friends
my ex was an extrovert and was an attention whore and ultimately became very expensive... omg valentines day lets go to dinner omg omg new moviez omg new concert omg omgomgogmogmgomg
introvert girls are more laid back and wana 'hang out' watching movies at the crib.
ordering a pizza + watching a movie at ur place and plowing >>>> going out all the time and meeting up with her annoying friends
Anothergirl
Goat ™
i don't agree but the last sentence is funny as shyt...The thing is, introverts do the same thing, you just do it in your heads.
You perceive your topics of conversation to be the only worthy topics/interest. If it doesn't serve the purpose of advancing you or stroking your interest, it's not worthy. There is no concept of humility or deference in your actions with people. Y'all been sayin' it all through this thread.
This whole thread (and board) is pretty much a "People can never understand us" bukkake as if people spending time to themselves is such a grandiose idea that the world has yet to figure out.
OPTiMO
SamsoniteMan
i've yet to date an introvert girl. Always with the hard to please constantly trying to do some shyt girls
The bolded is what i'm seeking now
i've yet to date an introvert girl. Always with the hard to please constantly trying to do some shyt girls
The bolded is what i'm seeking now
they are probably less whorish too on account of them not being out trying to get attention from men or ppl in general.
women are a lot less likely to get skewered if they dont go to clubs every fri and sat and just stay home and sht.
i personally understand where champ is coming from
the sentiment is that acting as if a conversation must be "important" or "have a reason to start" is regressive because with that mentality you can shut out a people and opportunities that can have an important impact on your life.
In being an introvert, you can have a random person come up and talk to you and your first instinct would be just to say hi, and put your earphones back in or look away. For all you know though, that couldve been an opportunity knocking at your door.
I actually remember one instance where I was in the foodcourt of an office tower downtown I think for ScotiaBank. Anyways, a black woman was sitting down and I sat near her and she said hi after I settled in. I said Hi, and got right into my food. For some reason (i wish it happened earlier) I thought to myself minutes later, "shyt, for all i know this woman coulda been a human resources rep or a banker or something that saw a young black guy in office clothing and saw it as an opportunity to build a relationship and possibly help one of her own." This was of course after thinking that she wanted the dikk. Anyways, situations like that are where being a natural extrovert can be beneficial.
At the same time, there are situations where I'm sure extroverts may be considered annoying or overbearing. Too much of anything isn't good in my opinion. Theres always pros and cons so I dont see any as being better than the other. What's bad is those who arent willing to accept this fact.
the sentiment is that acting as if a conversation must be "important" or "have a reason to start" is regressive because with that mentality you can shut out a people and opportunities that can have an important impact on your life.
In being an introvert, you can have a random person come up and talk to you and your first instinct would be just to say hi, and put your earphones back in or look away. For all you know though, that couldve been an opportunity knocking at your door.
I actually remember one instance where I was in the foodcourt of an office tower downtown I think for ScotiaBank. Anyways, a black woman was sitting down and I sat near her and she said hi after I settled in. I said Hi, and got right into my food. For some reason (i wish it happened earlier) I thought to myself minutes later, "shyt, for all i know this woman coulda been a human resources rep or a banker or something that saw a young black guy in office clothing and saw it as an opportunity to build a relationship and possibly help one of her own." This was of course after thinking that she wanted the dikk. Anyways, situations like that are where being a natural extrovert can be beneficial.
At the same time, there are situations where I'm sure extroverts may be considered annoying or overbearing. Too much of anything isn't good in my opinion. Theres always pros and cons so I dont see any as being better than the other. What's bad is those who arent willing to accept this fact.
AquaCityBoy
Veteran
Here's the thing: the concepts of "introversion" and "extroversion" are not absolutes. No one is 100% either 100% of the time.
Anothergirl
Goat ™
yep....funny cos my best friend is the girl in bold and we get along great. (most of the time)
thanks to her i've tried a lot of stuff over the years i probably wouldn't have if she wasn't so adamant about dragging me around with her. she knows tho ....once in awhile i need a breather from her...and when i don't pick up don't be blowing me up 
OPTiMO
SamsoniteMan
i noticed most shyt talkers are extroverts. there's only so much to talk about before you start putting other peoples name and business in your mouth.
Breh, look at your screen name, and the topics you talk about, the last person who should be criticizing anyone over ego is you. I can talk to everyone, it's a matter of choosing not to talk to everyone, that's what you don't seem to understand. That has nothing to do with ego or individualism, it's simply better for me not to waste someone else's time with false platitudes.
Society is fukked up beyond just individualism and ego, but your point falls apart without that so I know you'll ride that out for another 10 pages. My main problem has always been how selfish people are, you don't seem to be able to make the distinction between my disgust between people only going out for self, and why I have no problem with being introverted. They are not one in the same, but your brush has to paint broad because that's what you do.INTJ
Introvert(11%) iNtuitive(50%) iNtuitive Thinking(1%) Judging(44%)
You have slight preference of Introversion over Extraversion (11%)
You have moderate preference of Intuition over Sensing (50%)
You have marginal or no preference of Thinking over Feeling (1%)
You have moderate preference of Judging over Perceiving (44%)
Introvert(11%) iNtuitive(50%) iNtuitive Thinking(1%) Judging(44%)
You have slight preference of Introversion over Extraversion (11%)
You have moderate preference of Intuition over Sensing (50%)
You have marginal or no preference of Thinking over Feeling (1%)
You have moderate preference of Judging over Perceiving (44%)
Anothergirl
Goat ™
agreed. the art of small talk is important even if you don't want to or think it's pointless. so many of the "big breaks" and networking opportunites i've gotten in my life have come from not being afraid to chat chit even with people that on the exterior look like they'd have nothing in common with me.
Sierra Mist
Banned
I have love for introverts too.