The kick in the stomach

Scuti

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Take your soul??? Dramatic much? If a man (or woman) can’t deal with pain and disappointment then you can’t deal with life. People have faults and can be weak minded; problems exist, no doubt. How a person deals with the setbacks shows character. Let it take your soul if you let it, but I’m not letting no one or one circumstance have power over me to destroy me. There’s always options.
this is why yall shouldnt give your heart to a woman brehs. Its a one way street no matter how it may seem :wow:
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Im not even getting that far in a conversation to ask no
:lupe:did u fukk him?

If I find out my girl was making any kind of move with another guy, talking, texting, hangin out, etc thats all I need to know. My only question after that is where should I tell the cab to drop u off at
 

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I agree with op it's one of the worst feelings ever.

Any man that says it isn't is full of shyt.:comeon:
 

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Y'all are built for heartbreak to the point where some of you look for it. If a man gets hurt twice he's never going to be the same, after that he just goes through the motions. Y'all can be hurt a million times and not really be fazed. We love differently so we hurt differently.
I can’t even begin to explain the wrongness of your viewpoints but I understand it tho. Built for heartbreak ?? Not even facts, not all of us are built or look for that. Love is love , I’ve been hurt, I just don’t define or misjudge all men because of a few that didn’t work out. And I def don’t set myself up for failure when signs point to them not being about shyt or don’t deserve what I’m contributing to the relationship. I agree some females think selfishly as do men. My expectations changed because of time and experiences but I don’t have a negative attitude toward ALL relationships or black men. You’re attitude just seems mad jaded. Thing is I just don’t stay living in the past, if that means that I’m not phased, than so be it.
 
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Y'all are built for heartbreak to the point where some of you look for it. If a man gets hurt twice he's never going to be the same, after that he just goes through the motions. Y'all can be hurt a million times and not really be fazed. We love differently so we hurt differently.

No. You guys are just used to your male family and friends hurting women with very little consequence so you think that we are built for the pain we endure. We are not. Every so often, you meet a shark and find her primary mode as unthinkable. That pain you feel- women are human- we feel that too.
 

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The prob is some of y’all in this situation keep dating the same type of women and expecting different results - too many thots with not enoughgender hts and falling for the head game (pun intended)for chicks with no brains.
Exactly. Cant stop a ho from hoing its in their nature. Besides that, cheating is the final form of disrespect. It doesn't start there. Simps ignore all the signs and fool themselves... Then blame the entire gender instead of taking responsibility for choosing the wrong one... Then fall in love with another smut smh
 

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The prob is some of y’all in this situation keep dating the same type of women and expecting different results - too many thots with not enough thoughts and falling for the head game (pun intended)for chicks with no brains.
All women are the same.:mjcry:
 
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