I remember in the mid-2010's before the Black Manosphere became a cespool, the "Pookie and Ray Ray" conversation was created. Essentially it was preaching to the choir, similar to this topic, because most of us are not mentally unhinged or have violent criminal records.
Not only did this cause a big divide among several creators, black women like Cynthia G (before she went full Anti-BM) and other BW female creators wrote this off as being jealous of said men. These women (and divestors) in recent years then proceeded to then gain a following off "Black Femidice" prominently featuring the same men who were called out a decade ago.
Also, stole this clip from
@lib123 in another topic I'm following. Timestamped. Do you think black women with preferences like this have a higher chance of being the victim of DV (or worse) than the average woman who only deals with white collar men and professional business owners? Furthermore, what are black men like us expected to say/do to persuade black women away from this mentality before it gets to that point?