The many L's I took during last 3 years of my 13 year marriage.

[Jimi Swagger]

True most of the guys I know ended up getting married right before our first deployment or got married after boot leave and it was hell on they out on them mainly because them or their wives have never left home and are pretty damn immature to start off with.

So now you have a chick getting everything paid for and probably not working chilling in the house for 7 months to a year. Just to be reasonable I'd say it's a 50/50 chance she's gonna go look for some D.

Hell I had a girlfriend that cheated on my on my first deployment and that made me the savage I am today. I met my wife after that and we got married while I was out of the deployment rotation for awhile but if you get married before during your first enlistment you're hustling backwards

Sorry that happened to you but glad that you were able to move on. Yeah the military community is giant orgy from my experience.

 

[Denzel_Saucegton]

It's clear your wife was going through her "hoe" phase...she never got to get in them streets and sheets and now she's trying to live that young thot life smh. I wish you the best in this situation and life and may GOD and the universe align for us all. GMB undefeated

 

[Solano707]

Yeah. I would never do that. So many different scenarios that just doesn't make it appealing.

I feel your pain breh. I think us brehs that been through similar shyt wears those scars and can picture ourselves in your shoes. Good shyt on moving on.

I have a custody case with my ex-wife next week. I'm going to make a thread about it because I'm going to destroy her and I want to put people up on game on how to do this if they are serious about getting their seeds. Phone calls recorded, emails, texts, pictures, police files, county court visits and documentation, medical records & facebook posts. I even get her fam reaching out to me to get the kids, best believe that shyts been recorded. shyt about to look like a Killer Instinct Ultra up in the courtroom.

This is where there needs to be solidarity from all of us in the struggle.

Yup, that's where I have the leg up on her. I have voice mails, phone recordings, pictures of guns and drugs in my house with her and her infidelity ways and her facebook posts. she tries to be nice to be, but i just look at her like She gonna get this work in court and she knows it My judge that is assigndd to our case is an old white ultra conservative man that's been in the service too - so you know he fitting to rock her world

 

[4North1Side2]

All of this could of been avoided but I know what the problem was. In the very beginning you found her wildly attractive plus she came at you with a sob story which made you dawn your cape as a white knight wanting to be this woman's savior.

She showed signs of trashy behavior from the start but you choose to ignore it because she had a rough life and you believed you were the one who could change it.

 

[BelieveBeOK]

This the kind of shyt that makes me doubt marriage

You would think that the first 5 or so years would be the most difficult, but nah...people still getting divorced after being together 15, 20, 25 years

You would think that after spending that much time together, and having kids, there would be nothing you can't resolve

What's the fukking point of it all, when something (or someone) can come along in year 13 and fukk it all up?

Spoiler

 

[Diondon]

Sadly there's no real absolute formula for women when it comes to them being hoes. Many females truly really never exit their "hoe phase" & only disguise or suppress it, while some older, more established women you would never think could fukk around on their husbands/boyfriends start having mid life crises & become major thots in their later years.

I agree that there are no fool proof methods to the shyt. Best you can do follow certain established protocols and hope for the best results. This broad acting out in her 30's for thug dikk, is a dead giveaway

 

[Darth Nubian]

Your a good man for not catching a CDV At least you learned to do you and either women can respect it or

 

[Phitz]

I just skimmed through the text but what does Mary J Blige have to do with all of this? I noticed you mentioned her lol

 

[Solano707]

Hey man, no shade but by my math that made your wife 33 when she decided to live out her 2nd childhood?

yeah, that's about right. This has been going on since about 2014

 

[Solano707]

Nice guys never win man, give a woman the world, she will never appreciate it

I have taken women on vacations, bought them presents for every holiday on the calender, took them out to expensive restaurants. They never showed no appreciation and they stay in love with no good dudes who never done anything for them

This.

 

[Tflasha]

fuuuckkkkkk,

 

[jwonder]

I still don't understand what makes a woman leave a man with something to go with a man that has nothing.

It's fukked up but you can see if broad went for somebody better all around. Not some jail dikk in the booty fukk up

 

[TELL ME YA CHEESIN FAM?]

You did that,so we wouldn't have to go through that

 

[Gutzman]

Hope u get teh kids. The way this system is fukked up they usually side with the mothers even when they are unfit. Happened to me.

 

[Robbie3000]