There's really no fault here. It's just how men feel after sex with women who aren't our wives or girlfriends. There's actually only been one non-SO in my life who I didn't mind staying after sex, and that's cause she wiped me down with a washcloth, brought me a drink, ran to redbox to get my favorite movie, and then licked my balls slowly over an hour and a half while I watched it.
Nothing personal.


But I see what you are saying the disconnect.