The moment you and her start texting back and forth with regular chit chat you lost
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Ms.CuriousCat
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agreed. establish who the friends and non-friends are from the jump, even if you gotta talk to her reckless.
man just keep it brief, the only goal in mind at first is going to be to set up a meet up, don't try to get to know each other through texts. if you don't know how to set it up then have her ask you somethign via text and be like 'i dont like talking about these things in text let's meet up next thursday' blah blah, something like that. you can chit chat A LITTLE bit but you HAVE to throw in the meeting up or you'll end up friendzoned. do whatever you want just make sure you're not too imitated to ask her to hang out.
of course after a bit you will have to chit chat with a girl via text, but only do this when she is YOUR girl. you don't necessarily have to smash since some girls won't give up the ass to you that quickly but if you guys are passing the relationship level and you are her boyfriend then yes the dynamics change as eagles avatar dude said.
of course after a bit you will have to chit chat with a girl via text, but only do this when she is YOUR girl. you don't necessarily have to smash since some girls won't give up the ass to you that quickly but if you guys are passing the relationship level and you are her boyfriend then yes the dynamics change as eagles avatar dude said.
But what's the point of being a broad's boyfriend if you're not having sex with her? So she wants you to not have sex with anybody else.....But she's also not giving it up?
But what's the point of being a broad's boyfriend if you're not having sex with her? So she wants you to not have sex with anybody else.....But she's also not giving it up?
you know there are females that exist that won't have sex until marriage?
But I like regular chit chat tho
Women talk east and walk west. They say they like nice things like chit chat but when they actually get it then they want to play the dude like he's a chump (which he is).
Doesn't contradict my original point. Why is any sensible dude in a relationship with a chick who wants him to be exclusive but isn't having sex with him?
Doesn't contradict my original point. Why is any sensible dude in a relationship with a chick who wants him to be exclusive but isn't having sex with him?
Cause he loves her and is willing to wait I guess
I wouldn't do that but yea there's nikkas like that lol
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
Not true
IMO the only way the text should change is when you decide that's your girl or you want her as a girl (regardless of sex). Text convo's are strictly for girlfriends, not chicks your just fukking or trying to get to know.Partial co-sign, until you've hit that of course. The dynamics of the relationship change once you've had sex with a girl. But until then the only texts you should be sending her are to set up dates
shyt even with girlfriends text convo's should be kept to a minimum.
You know now that IM thinking about it, Text's should be for questions only!! Like I got a question for you but really don't want to deal with the whole convo IM going to have to have to ask this question. If a text goes past 2 or 3 replies u might as well fukking call
