The most valuable thing a woman could give to a man is her youth.

[86\*/98]

It depends on circumstances, my home girl (platonic friend) is 29, she is a dime, any guy would be lucky to have her. Beautiful, dentist, own car, money in the bank

She wasted her youth on one playa who wasted 10 years of her life, its not like she was being ran through by different dikks, only one dikk, her playa bf had her dikk drunk

What happened to your friend is unfortunate, but that doesn't make her a great pick.

Since she wasted 10 years because she chose to deal with a dude who wasn't right, I'm sure she has a lot of baggage. Not to mention she's pushing 30 and has nothing physically on women 10 years her junior in the same class.

Does she have a father in her life?

 

[ozzy]

both


If you ever read Iceberg slims book he was 19/20 when he got his first ho and she was 18 and she had a yellow Ford....she signed it over to him. I read that book when I was 17. I didnt take any of that shyt serious till the divorce of the 1st wife.....stepped into the 2nd marriage thinking like Iceberg Slim afterwards.

you won good luck to you guys

 

[InfinateOpulance]

What happened to your friend is unfortunate, but that doesn't make her a great pick.

Since she wasted 10 years because she chose to deal with a dude who wasn't right, I'm sure she has a lot of baggage. Not to mention she's pushing 30 and has nothing physically on women 10 years her junior in the same class.

Does she have a father in her life?

Ok i was starting to agree with u till you said this bullshyt.

First of all, women don't have the power to pick and choose who their dad is. So if her dad was not in her life it wasn't her fault. And its messed up for you to judge anybody based on that fact alone.

Second of all, black women don't age like women of other races. She probably looks damn good, and to be honest with you a lot of young people both male and female, do not take care of their bodies the way they should these days for whatever reasons.

Third of all, the broad is a dentist! She obviously has been doing something right in her youth. She did not waste it. She probably can take care of you and herself by herself.

You sound very close-minded and judgmental. But whatever do you. I'm done here.

 

[Orbital-Fetus]

her butt hole would be the correct answer.

 

[86\*/98]

Ok i was starting to agree with u till you said this bullshyt.

First of all, women don't have the power to pick and choose who their dad is. So if her dad was not in her life it wasn't her fault. And its messed up for you to judge anybody based on that fact alone.

Second of all, black women don't age like women of other races. She probably looks damn good, and to be honest with you a lot of young people both male and female, do not take care of their bodies the way they should these days for whatever reasons.

Third of all, the broad is a dentist! She obviously has been doing something right in her youth. She did not waste it. She probably can take care of you and herself by herself.

You sound very close-minded and judgmental. But whatever do you. I'm done here.

First, I asked about her father because if he’s in her life he should have warned her that the dude wasn’t shyt. That’s part of being a good father. And a woman who still looks good in her 30’s still has older guts and not to mention a lot emotional baggage. Lastly, how can you tell a successful man what he should be looking for in a mate if you’ve never been nor could be that?

As far as not being able to choose whether Y’all fathers are in your life, you’re right, but you can’t choose how you look either and that’s important too and will also shape your world view and what options you have.

 

[InfinateOpulance]

So since you are in your thirties I guess it's safe to assume that you have old guts and lots of baggage is well.

Edited to add- you don't come across as someone successful. You seem very judgemental and close-minded and want someone you can control and mold. Men like you are a dime a dozen.

 

[DamienWayne]

 

[86\*/98]

So since you are in your thirties I guess it's safe to assume that you have old guts and lots of baggage is well.

Edited to add- you don't come across as someone successful. You seem very judgemental and close-minded and want someone you can control and mold. Men like you are a dime a dozen.

I’m a man, my sperm is going to be good damn near until I die. We’re on different clocks, and again we’re expected to bring different things to the table. I’ve been through hell and back several times and it’s made me strong. If a woman has lived a life similar to mine I’m extra cool on her. Why would I want to be laid up with another strong motherfukker? My woman lived a sheltered existence before me because of a great two parent household and she will continue to be sheltered with me being her new covering, a job I’m prepared for because of the trials I’ve been through. You see how that works out for the best for men and not so much for women?

And I don’t care what it seems like to you I’m successful and in the process of becoming my own boss. And no, with the unemployment rate damn near at 50% for black men in several places and me bringing in over 10k more than the National household income by myself I’m not a dime a dozen.

 

[InfinateOpulance]

Lol whatever. You have some more growing up to do. You sound pretty naive about some things.

 

[International Playa]

29 is old now?

According to this thread, anyone over 25 has lost it & out of their prime

What happened to your friend is unfortunate, but that doesn't make her a great pick.

Since she wasted 10 years because she chose to deal with a dude who wasn't right, I'm sure she has a lot of baggage. Not to mention she's pushing 30 and has nothing physically on women 10 years her junior in the same class.

Does she have a father in her life?

Nah she dont have a father lol. But at least she wasnt being ran through by multiple guys & has a body count, just waste 10 years on one guy.

Many women out there waste their years as a place holder for a guy who doesnt i tend on marrying them.

 

[86\*/98]

Lol whatever. You have some more growing up to do. You sound pretty naive about some things.

You sound pretty jaded about everything I wish your mother would’ve chosen better so you could’ve been raised well enough to recognize and be suitable enough for a solid man.

 

[Rawtid]

The most valuable thing anyone can give you is their time. You don’t get that back. Men, stop thinking you’re special.

 

[InfinateOpulance]

You sound pretty jaded about everything I wish your mother would’ve chosen better so you could’ve been raised well enough to recognize and be suitable enough for a solid man.

You don't even know me...all i am is a screen name to you! Lol

 

[Aphrodite]

@86\*/98

 

[86\*/98]

According to this thread, anyone over 25 has lost it & out of their prime




Nah she dont have a father lol. But at least she wasnt being ran through by multiple guys & has a body count, just waste 10 years on one guy.

Many women out there waste their years as a place holder for a guy who doesnt i tend on marrying them.

If they had and listened to great fathers in their lives they would avoid doing that. It’s unfortunate, but those types aren’t the best options for solid men.

The most valuable thing anyone can give you is their time. You don’t get that back. Men, stop thinking you’re special.

How can you tell a man what’s valuable to him?