The no contact rule after a breakup?

[Dixon Cider]

Well the break up I just had wasn't really clear and concise so there was still communication albeit harassment demanding money from me mixed with talk of past feelings and "i'll always love and care for you but cant forgive things you said" blah blah from her end mixed with "i hate yous" "you fukked up, id make a perfect mom,(ok bytch so does any natural instinced woman) and you fukked up on this ass *sends pic*"

Then I had a question a few days after that and i guess she put her bf on the phone to reply and i got blocked so i dmd him and straightened him and called and made him
Put her on the phone, she lied to him
About contacting me etc and was confused at how she felt, yet texted me later saying to stop trying to break them
Up shes in love blah blah, i burned the number and havent been in contact since this going on almost a month.

Low key tho... I want her to contact me on some send me bust its while you have a new bf type tip and tell him
You taking a trip
And come see me type shyt
But maybe that is too ill right now and maybe with time can be finessed... She did send one ass pic while "in love" with buddy tho so..

How long should no contact be engaged?

Did she delete all pictures of us? Did she forget who I am? Will there ever be again?

 

[dterpsss]

Just let her go breh

 

[benjamin]

Pitiful.......have some dignity man

 

[Strapped]

You on that stalking tip op ,be a man & move on buoy

 

[Dixon Cider]

Y I u on that stalking tip op ,be a man & move on buoy

Im not, dont look at social media or
Anything. She was texting me over weekends and I texted her one day after that and her bf talked shyt and blocked the number so I felt the need to get him on the line in which he was very respectful on the phone.

Should I not fight for something? Isn't that the Alpha thing to do? Like my mans new york? From the steeets of harlem? He was ready to die bout his.

 

[semtex]

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Im not, dont look at social media or
Anything. She was texting me over weekends and I texted her one day after that and her bf talked shyt and blocked the number so I felt the need to get him on the line in which he was very respectful on the phone.

Should I not fight for something? Isn't that the Alpha thing to do? Like my mans new york? From the steeets of harlem? He was ready to die bout his.

This not the movies breh where she tryna leave town with the new guy and you rush to the airport to save her and she drops ol dude for you because she realized she made a mistake and how you're such a good man.


If you want her back then you gotta leave her alone and let her miss you and hope one day dude keeps getting on her nerves and she drops him for you.

 

[BocaRear]

breh how many threads you gonna make about this bytch?

Her p*ssy must have been A1

Let that hoe go, there's billions of other sluts in this world

 

[semtex]

was this ur first gf or something breh?

 

[MikelArteta]

Never contact.

Every time you contact your back to day 1 of the pain.

 

[MikelArteta]

No contact till death.

Hell if your hat broken up, change your njmber.

Stop being some simp azz accepting friendship or hanging around man up, delete never speak to her again

 

[Ol’Otis]

Well the break up I just had wasn't really clear and concise so there was still communication albeit harassment demanding money from me mixed with talk of past feelings and "i'll always love and care for you but cant forgive things you said" blah blah from her end mixed with "i hate yous" "you fukked up, id make a perfect mom,(ok bytch so does any natural instinced woman) and you fukked up on this ass *sends pic*"

Then I had a question a few days after that and i guess she put her bf on the phone to reply and i got blocked so i dmd him and straightened him and called and made him
Put her on the phone, she lied to him
About contacting me etc and was confused at how she felt, yet texted me later saying to stop trying to break them
Up shes in love blah blah, i burned the number and havent been in contact since this going on almost a month.

Low key tho... I want her to contact me on some send me bust its while you have a new bf type tip and tell him
You taking a trip
And come see me type shyt
But maybe that is too ill right now and maybe with time can be finessed... She did send one ass pic while "in love" with buddy tho so..

How long should no contact be engaged?

Did she delete all pictures of us? Did she forget who I am? Will there ever be again?

 

[Ol’Otis]

must've been your first love



i havent spoken to mine in 3 years and tbh i have no intentions on doing so


get a hobby, start working out, planning and plotting on your future
cause you holding on is useless

just let go

 

[Keep_It_Hip_Hop_Fam]

No Contact isn't supposed to be some ploy to get her back

It means exactly what it states. You are to never ever contact her again. Delete her number, her social media contacts (Facebook etc), any items she's given you, you destroy.

 

[Fatboi1]

fukk her man. You gonna be looking back at her in a few years laughing like "The fukk was I stressing over that for?"