The no contact rule after a breakup?

[Saiyajin]

Coli brehs really bout uplifting other brehs

I get banned and always come back because end of the day Somebody love me
Here

lmao whatd you get banned for

 

[Mr.Plan B]

Take ya time. Get over it on your own pace.

 

[Dixon Cider]

if u really want her back tell shorty
if she shyt on u it is what it is
at least u can say u tried
be honest about ur feelings cuz next thing u know she'll be pregnant by the next nygga

I've been thinking and can't remember when I just sat down and had her listen and just explained listen.... I
Hate this that we fight every single day, im doing my best as a man yo support us and open the future for a family. Im going through a stressful period in my life and our relationship is the main factor. Why do you belittle me, why do you scoff at everything I do and not just be normal and discuss it you are so quick to be condenscending and it makes me resent you and I yell and cuss you out because You purposefully try to get under my skin and go your own direction. Yes I love you yes im willing to work it out, im willing to do anger management and get back to the happiness...

Never could tell her that because I was sleeping on the couch every night she was a c*nt that I would only really see her in morning when grabbing my work clothes in closet and she even said "get your clothes at night so you dont have to come in here"

Hurtful when you try to lay up and you are told you are too heavy you gonna ruin the bed, you're disgusting, you haven't got your wisdom teeth pulled I don't wanna kiss you, telling people our business, telling my friends I owe her money out of nowhere.

It always escalated because I never was on that "baby im sorry" cry baby shyt it was always you dont like it? You dont wanna compromise? Well fukk you then bytch.
Then sent me to jail and I made up my mind and applied it and left.


Still some pain lingers, being lied to. Can't say im ready for a new relationship or love yet she was already calling her new bf her love etc and in love days before I even left...

 

[facemask]

I get why you're asking.

It's easy to say let her go, or whatever, but you know she still thinks about you. She is definitely going to dump that n*gga she talking to now (unless they was already shooping-da-whoop behind your back). She could go through five or ten more n*ggas until she realizes they not you. She going to hit you up, and what do you do?

Being realistic you're going to smash two maybe three more times. But then you gotta remember why you not with her anymore. Don't block her, be better than her. Talk to her and reaffirm to her that any coupling y'all had is officially dead in the water.

Just cause y'all don't share an arbitrary title doesn't mean you shouldn't get the poons from someone who wants to give it.

Speaks volumes to the salty n*ggas on here that get either very little or have no repeat performances.

Also, pics.

 

[facemask]

Still some pain lingers, being lied to. Can't say im ready for a new relationship or love yet she was already calling her new bf her love etc and in love days before I even left...

This is a ploy my man. She only does that so she knows you can say that she does it. Like if you lay down proper pipe and then y'all break up, she'll shout that your trash in bed, your d*ck is small, all that nonsense - so when she recalls the story to her girls, she can tell them "Yeah girl I told him what I really think that n*gga d*ck tiny as f*ck!!" (but what she doesn't know is that her now ex-man already f*cked her best friend ahahaha...)

 

[Dixon Cider]

lmao whatd you get banned for

You know ima coli hot boy, my realistic views tend to be too blunt so I catch a colo jail sentence every so often

 

[DJSmooth]

You are always going to find a wetter vagina let her go.

 

[Giselle]

Well the break up I just had wasn't really clear and concise so there was still communication albeit harassment demanding money from me mixed with talk of past feelings and "i'll always love and care for you but cant forgive things you said" blah blah from her end mixed with "i hate yous" "you fukked up, id make a perfect mom,(ok bytch so does any natural instinced woman) and you fukked up on this ass *sends pic*"

Then I had a question a few days after that and i guess she put her bf on the phone to reply and i got blocked so i dmd him and straightened him and called and made him
Put her on the phone, she lied to him
About contacting me etc and was confused at how she felt, yet texted me later saying to stop trying to break them
Up shes in love blah blah, i burned the number and havent been in contact since this going on almost a month.

Low key tho... I want her to contact me on some send me bust its while you have a new bf type tip and tell him
You taking a trip
And come see me type shyt
But maybe that is too ill right now and maybe with time can be finessed... She did send one ass pic while "in love" with buddy tho so..

How long should no contact be engaged?

Did she delete all pictures of us? Did she forget who I am? Will there ever be again?

Move on. She sounds very immature and she's being disrespectful to her new bf.

You sound kinda immarture as well.

Grow up & Move on.

 

[HopeKillCure]

pussc shrinks back to regular size after a baby
but a nygga piece gonna stretch it so bad she has no walls
the logic of u nyggas

I'm not talking about some nikka stretching her out. I'm talking about a slight change in the grove. A change in how wide it opens and how fast. Subtle changes, you can feel when puss been tampered with.

 

[Diyhai]

I've been thinking and can't remember when I just sat down and had her listen and just explained listen.... I
Hate this that we fight every single day, im doing my best as a man yo support us and open the future for a family. Im going through a stressful period in my life and our relationship is the main factor. Why do you belittle me, why do you scoff at everything I do and not just be normal and discuss it you are so quick to be condenscending and it makes me resent you and I yell and cuss you out because You purposefully try to get under my skin and go your own direction. Yes I love you yes im willing to work it out, im willing to do anger management and get back to the happiness...

Never could tell her that because I was sleeping on the couch every night she was a c*nt that I would only really see her in morning when grabbing my work clothes in closet and she even said "get your clothes at night so you dont have to come in here"

Hurtful when you try to lay up and you are told you are too heavy you gonna ruin the bed, you're disgusting, you haven't got your wisdom teeth pulled I don't wanna kiss you, telling people our business, telling my friends I owe her money out of nowhere.

It always escalated because I never was on that "baby im sorry" cry baby shyt it was always you dont like it? You dont wanna compromise? Well fukk you then bytch.
Then sent me to jail and I made up my mind and applied it and left.


Still some pain lingers, being lied to. Can't say im ready for a new relationship or love yet she was already calling her new bf her love etc and in love days before I even left...

sent u to jail and u want her

 

[Dixon Cider]

Move on. She sounds very immature and she's being disrespectful to her new bf.

You sound kinda immarture as well.

Grow up & Move on.

Please do elaborate on how im
Immature? Because I talked a little bit of jazz in that statement?

 

[shutterguy]

fukk that bishhh, she's playing games. She might end up buried somewhere. What girls fail to realize is men have feelings too. Im not going to discuss my L's but breh, you gotta give this girl a lot of space.

She's with the shyt. She's trying to drive you crazy. bytch is evil and deserves a stake through her dried up heart. I think women turn into bats or piles of dust when they die. They can't be human. Anything that sucks the life out of someone is not human. And that's what women do. All of them are evil. Even my mom. My mom is like the special forces of manipulative bytches.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

This not the movies breh where she tryna leave town with the new guy and you rush to the airport to save her and she drops ol dude for you because she realized she made a mistake and how you're such a good man.


If you want her back then you gotta leave her alone and let her miss you and hope one day dude keeps getting on her nerves and she drops him for you.

Or miraculously develop super powers or massive weath. Those would work too but basically the bolded above is your best shot.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Bro this is the woman that got you arrested and in jail (for weeks right?).

Some dudes just don't learn

 

[CinnaSlim]

Yeesh, I wish I could help but my relationships are never this crazy.

After a break up if I stop caring, I don't contact them. If they contact me I keep my replies, short, simple and to the point. No need to delve into the past, our relationship is over. What do you want now? What do you need from me?

I don't hold grudges, not out for revenge. I just don't duck with you any more. We aren't tight anymore.