The no contact rule after a breakup?

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Do you really want your leftover leftovers? From what I read this is the equivalent of you eating, you give what's left to someone else but then waiting on them to give you back the plate so you can finish eating.

Disgusting.
 

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Please do elaborate on how im
Immature? Because I talked a little bit of jazz in that statement?

Well the break up I just had wasn't really clear and concise so there was still communication albeit harassment demanding money from me mixed with talk of past feelings and "i'll always love and care for you but cant forgive things you said" blah blah from her end mixed with "i hate yous" "you fukked up, id make a perfect mom,(ok bytch so does any natural instinced woman) and you fukked up on this ass *sends pic*"

Then I had a question a few days after that and i guess she put her bf on the phone to reply and i got blocked so i dmd him and straightened him and called and made him
Put her on the phone
, she lied to him
About contacting me etc and was confused at how she felt, yet texted me later saying to stop trying to break them
Up shes in love blah blah, i burned the number and havent been in contact since this going on almost a month.

Low key tho... I want her to contact me on some send me bust its while you have a new bf type tip and tell him
You taking a trip
And come see me type shyt
But maybe that is too ill right now and maybe with time can be finessed... She did send one ass pic while "in love" with buddy tho so..


How long should no contact be engaged?

Did she delete all pictures of us? Did she forget who I am? Will there ever be again?

All of the bold shows your immaturity.

Leave that girl alone and move on.

She sounds like trash anyway. :queen:
 

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All of the bold shows your immaturity.

Leave that girl alone and move on.

She sounds like trash anyway. :queen:
So you are telling me you wouldn't fukk with me? I'm handsome and genuine. Tell me the truth?
 

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Yo the OP is a fukking idiot man.... :mjlol:

NC should be FOREVER!!!!!!!!

Let this bytch go already, move the fukk on...

It's so pathetic dudes still holding on to trifling chicks when they outright fukking other men in ya face... fukk em'!!!! :dahell:
Da hell... This thread is a backstory and my current thoughts. Only
Thing lingering is memories im not contacting her I made
My decision to leave.
Do I deep down want to never talk to her ever? No. She was apart of my life and the abuse has left me kicking myself for knowing better.
 

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Da hell... This thread is a backstory and my current thoughts. Only
Thing lingering is memories im not contacting her I made
My decision to leave.
Do I deep down want to never talk to her ever? No. She was apart of my life and the abuse has left me kicking myself for knowing better.

You wrote that you STILL wanted her to contact YOU tho..... :dahell:

Why are you still thinking about this chick after all the shyt she just put you through...
 

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Can you even be friends or fukkbuddies:sadcam: You'd want to hit that again after someone else has been there?

I would until I get tired of her or move onto a better situation. If she's not a virgin we're all hitting that which someone else had already.

I would stay friends too as long as she hasn't stolen money from me or tried to get me locked up.
 

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So you are telling me you wouldn't fukk with me? I'm handsome and genuine. Tell me the truth?
Da hell... This thread is a backstory and my current thoughts. Only
Thing lingering is memories im not contacting her I made
My decision to leave.
Do I deep down want to never talk to her ever? No. She was apart of my life and the abuse has left me kicking myself for knowing better.

:dahell:

You sound weak and pathetic crying over an abusive, immature, messy, trash ass female.

Leave her alone for ever and go find some pride, dignity, self respect, and self esteem.
 
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when i'm done with a broad......i forget a bytch.
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This 100%.

Nobody else is bothered to lose someone that you feel belongs to you tho? Not like ownership, but like bonded. She could be the worst bond in the world and you can usually do 1000% better, but isn't it the losing something that's yours part that burn deep in that soul?:jbhmm:
Yea but thats the way it be sometimes

Life aint always fair and everybody gonna hold an L somewhere along the way
 
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