The no contact rule after a breakup?

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You know what you've got a case of the feels, it's okay embrace the emotion, let it wash over you. Give yourself time to grieve and just wait, wait for a day and then another day and another, and eventually you will realise it's been a while since you last thought about her and then eventually you will be able to think about her, to look back and not feel so raw about it.

Give yourself the space and time to heal, be kind and fair to yourself. You'll get there, we all get there eventually :hug:
 

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You know what you've got a case of the feels, it's okay embrace the emotion, let it wash over you. Give yourself time to grieve and just wait, wait for a day and then another day and another, and eventually you will realise it's been a while since you last thought about her and then eventually you will be able to think about her, to look back and not feel so raw about it.

Give yourself the space and time to heal, be kind and fair to yourself. You'll get there, we all get there eventually :hug:
How she didn't give us time to both work on ourselves and use the time to heal she was already replacing me before I was gone with an overlap... I don't see how thats healthy. Its like some other dude came and took over the payments to my car with the high interest. I walk away without the headache of the payment but no car.
 

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You have to go full North Carolina.

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What the fukk did I just watch :skip:
 

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I think the no contact rule helps you heal faster.

If you don't have to see or talk to that person... why torture yourself by texting or calling them?

I'm really good at it. After we have parted ways there is no need for me to speak with you... so shoo.

When you keep in contact all you're doing is waddling in old feelings and what ifs.
 

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What if I walk past you on the sidewalk :lupe:?
shyts brazy bro these hoes is cold. My boy dated this chick all HS even went to college just BC her and they broke up after freshman year.We walking thru Walmart oneday and happen to see her and she legit walked right pass us like none of that shyt ever mattered. Legit made MY heart a lil colder and I can't even imagine what it did to my boy
 

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shyts brazy bro these hoes is cold. My boy dated this chick all HS even went to college just BC her and they broke up after freshman year.We walking thru Walmart oneday and happen to see her and she legit walked right pass us like none of that shyt ever mattered. Legit made MY heart a lil colder and I can't even imagine what it did to my boy
It was probably @Elle Driver yup it was probably her. I couldn't do that...I wouldn't be all ecstatic and try to be lovey dovey but I'd be mature and would keep the comments short and succinct.

When people see you're happy...like legitimately content that tends to fukk with them from my experience. I don't take some "Revenge of the Nerds" pleasure out of it but it has happened to me :ehh:.
 
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I think the no contact rule helps you heal faster.

If you don't have to see or talk to that person... why torture yourself by texting or calling them?

I'm really good at it. After we have parted ways there is no need for me to speak with you... so shoo.

When you keep in contact all you're doing is waddling in old feelings and what ifs.
Paradise TELL ME you don't look like that "Hoteps Hoteppin" chick in your avi :martin:.
 
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