The no contact rule after a breakup?

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Fonsworth said:
Paradise TELL ME you don't look like that "Hoteps Hoteppin" chick in your avi :martin:.
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I made this avi with you and that whole hoteps video in mind.

Plus I'm low key obsessed with Nigerian Gele right now so yeah.
 
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spaceXjamzZ said:
shyts brazy bro these hoes is cold. My boy dated this chick all HS even went to college just BC her and they broke up after freshman year.We walking thru Walmart oneday and happen to see her and she legit walked right pass us like none of that shyt ever mattered. Legit made MY heart a lil colder and I can't even imagine what it did to my boy
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I'm gonna work on being a much nicer guy, i'm very loving and affectionate and go out of my way and I think once the chick makes me feel cold is when I open up anger towards her for another time. c*nts and bytches get thrown around and putting my foot down happens but resentment from
Them happens. Once you tell me you hate me and cold shoulder me at night and grow distant and are on me about everything from phone usage to little petty shyt it makes me exit mentally out the relationship.
 
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Fonsworth said:
It was probably @Elle Driver yup it was probably her. I couldn't do that...I would be all ecstatic and try to be lovey dovey but I'd be mature and would keep the comments short and succinct.

When people see you're happy...like legitimately content that tends to fukk with them from my experience. I don't take some "Revenge of the Nerds" pleasure out of it but it has happened to me :ehh:.
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Go no contact and move on with your life. Focus on yourself and work at accomplishing your goals. When you do that, women will come around without you even trying. Oh and trust me, she'll be back.. and when she does come back, the ball will be in your court. Most likely at that point, you'll have moved on and won't even want her. There's no better feeling of satisfaction when that happens.
 
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The no contact actual works in reverse, it usually makes your ex miss you more and think about you, then they contact you, next thing you know you at her place hitting it from the back, then yall back together, 6 months later she break ya heart again, starts questioning your future, and your worth as a man, next thing you know she say she seeing someone else, now you back in the shyt again, so you go no contact, and then she hit you up... It's an endless cycle of fukkery
 
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MrScum said:
The no contact actual works in reverse, it usually makes your ex miss you more and think about you, then they contact you, next thing you know you at her place hitting it from the back, then yall back together, 6 months later she break ya heart again, starts questioning your future, and your worth as a man, next thing you know she say she seeing someone else, now you back in the shyt again, so you go no contact, and then she hit you up... It's an endless cycle of fukkery
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Pretty much this. It doesn't work.

The funny thing is that it either ends up crashing and burning worst than the first time or in some cases, they end up getting back together and get hitched. I've seen both happen. So yeah, if you really want to fall out of love. It's best to just let that love or feelings fade out slowly while still dealing with that person where you both fall out of love. It's like coming off of medication. Otherwise, you're going to end up back with that person and fukking them. Remember love is a drug.
 
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Come on, bruh. We about to hit you with that "One Last Cry" by Brian McNight. If you're asking "How long should NC be engaged?" Then you've already failed. :mjlol:NC is not some PUA style tactic to get her on your nuts again. NC = She does not EXIST anymore. NC = You are GHOST. NC = You hit up your other bytches and you do NOT look back. Every time you break NC and hit her up after all that fukkery, you prove to her and more importantly yourself that you have zero options. Get extra cold with your emotions, man. You got to Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind this heaux immediately.
 
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