The official Handsome Nxgga Problems thread - all brehs and brehettes welcome

[Redwood]

Just read through this entire thread and it's almost 3 am.. .

Being too good looking is already a problem but then add muscles to the mix is an invitation for real trouble. Have your female professor hold eye contact with you for extended periods of time during lecture brehs. Have your female professor blatantly flirt with you in front of the class, grab your arm and tell you that there's no way you can find her attractive.

I've had women first see me and have that glowing, sparkle in their eyes but quickly come to their senses. Can't sit next to a chick in class without her starting to flirt with me, and If I don't talk to her she gets pissed. Have grown adult middle aged women blatantly check you out in front of their husband.

I've found average chicks to be less afraid to show their attraction, whereas the really bad chicks check you out on the low or quickly glance at you. If you ignore them though, they stare hard as you walk past them or go out of their way to get your attention. Or women that just give you attitude for no reason thinking you are trying to holla.

I've heard it all. Why don't you have a girlfriend? You are handsome for a black guy. all races of women checking me out. Chick you are dating becoming insecure when they see all the attention you get when you are out and about. A chick you are seeing not wanting you to wear certain types of clothing that shows your physique.

Older white women thing is very true. They are very aggressive. I remember back in high school, as I was walking into an office and this lady was walking out of the office she said something along the lines of "oops/oh my!" as she slid her hand feeling all up on my pecs . Have your teachers in high school develop crushes on you brehs and try to smash. Wish I could make this up.

Thought of as gay or conceited because you ain't feeling one of the baddest chicks in the school. Have grown adult women sit right next to you in the train pressing their thighs against yours when you are in your teens and underage.

I don't even want to talk about dudes making passes at me, or asking some effeminate dude that works at a store where something is at he sees me and goes "mhm" in a feminine ass voice. Good looking dudes (no homo) staring at you comparing themselves to you.

Dudes holding onto their chick extra tight around you, tryna one up you. Back in high school when I would work in a group and it'd be like 3 girls and 2 other guys, the girls would compete to try and get my attention. I would act like I was naive and didn't know what was going on. Sometimes they'd come in all dolled up, showing off their cleavage or ass.

Walked past a group of sistas doing some workout in a hallway after taking a test a couple of weeks ago, and they said something like "don't be shy, come over here".

Can't go to the mall without women and teen girls eyeing you. Little girls developing crushes on you etc.

Sometimes the attention feels good, but if you just wanna go about your business it can be kinda uncomfortable as you walk past a crowd of people and all these girls (and guys) are looking at you.

Order pizza at a pizza restaurant and have the guy rush you out of there because his wife is flirting with you and checking you out.

Can't believe I just typed all that sh.

Just read through this entire thread and it's almost 3 am.. .

Being too good looking is already a problem but then add muscles to the mix is an invitation for real trouble. Have your female professor hold eye contact with you for extended periods of time during lecture brehs. Have your female professor blatantly flirt with you in front of the class, grab your arm and tell you that there's no way you can find her attractive.

I've had women first see me and have that glowing, sparkle in their eyes but quickly come to their senses. Can't sit next to a chick in class without her starting to flirt with me, and If I don't talk to her she gets pissed. Have grown adult middle aged women blatantly check you out in front of their husband.

I've found average chicks to be less afraid to show their attraction, whereas the really bad chicks check you out on the low or quickly glance at you. If you ignore them though, they stare hard as you walk past them or go out of their way to get your attention. Or women that just give you attitude for no reason thinking you are trying to holla.

I've heard it all. Why don't you have a girlfriend? You are handsome for a black guy. all races of women checking me out. Chick you are dating becoming insecure when they see all the attention you get when you are out and about. A chick you are seeing not wanting you to wear certain types of clothing that shows your physique.

Older white women thing is very true. They are very aggressive. I remember back in high school, as I was walking into an office and this lady was walking out of the office she said something along the lines of "oops/oh my!" as she slid her hand feeling all up on my pecs . Have your teachers in high school develop crushes on you brehs and try to smash. Wish I could make this up.

Thought of as gay or conceited because you ain't feeling one of the baddest chicks in the school. Have grown adult women sit right next to you in the train pressing their thighs against yours when you are in your teens and underage.

I don't even want to talk about dudes making passes at me, or asking some effeminate dude that works at a store where something is at he sees me and goes "mhm" in a feminine ass voice. Good looking dudes (no homo) staring at you comparing themselves to you.

Dudes holding onto their chick extra tight around you, tryna one up you. Back in high school when I would work in a group and it'd be like 3 girls and 2 other guys, the girls would compete to try and get my attention. I would act like I was naive and didn't know what was going on. Sometimes they'd come in all dolled up, showing off their cleavage or ass.

Walked past a group of sistas doing some workout in a hallway after taking a test a couple of weeks ago, and they said something like "don't be shy, come over here".

Can't go to the mall without women and teen girls eyeing you. Little girls developing crushes on you etc.

Sometimes the attention feels good, but if you just wanna go about your business it can be kinda uncomfortable as you walk past a crowd of people and all these girls (and guys) are looking at you.

Order pizza at a pizza restaurant and have the guy rush you out of there because his wife is flirting with you and checking you out.

Can't believe I just typed all that sh.

So real, .

 

[Los!]

 

[Charlie Hustle]

Getting lectured by your mom on how she thought about her kids looks when she married my dad and how I clearly wasn't doing the same when I brought a girl home . She told me she don't want ugly grandkids

I feel ya bruh

 

[3rdWorld]

Told a girl from the company next to ours at our office party last week that I always see her and her friend outside posing for selfies..told her I've only ever taken one selfie, and I hate being in photographs. She said why not, 'Your'e handsome'..
made me feel uncomfortable cause cause she just said it easily and loudly in front of my work colleagues.
Now they'll be telling me I think I'm handsome

Ive been getting that my whole life so Im used to it, but Im a reserved guy so I dont get a high from that. People think you think youre better than them if youre attractive, and life is easy but we struggling out here. This is a mans world and unlike a female I cant take advantage of my devastating good looks to get ahead

I actually want to do her bad, even before she said that..but I feel her telling me that has reduced my chances somehow. Like all I am is good looks

 

[The_King_of_Everything]

Circle-jerk thread

It's sad because most of these nikkas single and get no ass.

It's like being wealthy. The people who actually are don't have to talk about it. Same goes for looks.

 

[SheWantTheD]

So real, .

Yo can you delete my post from your reply? I regret typing that sh

 

[SheWantTheD]

Told a girl from the company next to ours at our office party last week that I always see her and her friend outside posing for selfies..told her I've only ever taken one selfie, and I hate being in photographs. She said why not, 'Your'e handsome'..
made me feel uncomfortable cause cause she just said it easily and loudly in front of my work colleagues.
Now they'll be telling me I think I'm handsome

Ive been getting that my whole life so Im used to it, but Im a reserved guy so I dont get a high from that. People think you think youre better than them if youre attractive, and life is easy but we struggling out here. This is a mans world and unlike a female I cant take advantage of my devastating good looks to get ahead

I actually want to do her bad, even before she said that..but I feel her telling me that has reduced my chances somehow. Like all I am is good looks

I'm telling you bruh, last chick I was messing with I sometimes questioned "does she just want me for my looks and body?". Because there would be times where were vibing and other times there would be awkward silences. And she always got excited as hell when it came time to being intimate. And she wouldn't remember certain things about me.

Older women will definitely look at you as just a piece of meat to devour in bed. It's a sad world we're living out here brehs.

 

[3rdWorld]

I'm telling you bruh, last chick I was messing with I sometimes questioned "does she just want me for my looks and body?". Because there would be times where were vibing and other times there would be awkward silences. And she always got excited as hell when it came time to being intimate. And she wouldn't remember certain things about me.

Older women will definitely look at you as just a piece of meat to devour in bed. It's a sad world we're living out here brehs.

I dated a chick that was paranoid as hell of losing me to more aggressive women..when we'd walk in public through town or the mall she'd cling onto me for dear life..
She was literally hugging me as we walked as if she'd found a bag of money.
I figured it was cause she'd notice the looks women gave me, which I as an aloof male couldn't make out.

She was a short skinny chick, so waitresses werent afraid of her and would even have the guts to try and strike a convo with me when we were ordering..I hated that shyt!

I dont lift weights or even work out, but a real buff dude who works out hard told me I had good genes and Im not using them..

The worst is when youre between jobs and people are shocked youre broke..like I should go sell my body to the highest bidder like an escort

 

[SheWantTheD]

I dated a chick that was paranoid as hell of losing me to more aggressive women..when we'd walk in public through town or the mall she'd cling onto me for dear life..
She was literally hugging me as we walked as if she'd found a bag of money.
I figured it was cause she'd notice the looks women gave me, which I as an aloof male couldn't make out.

She was a short skinny chick, so waitresses werent afraid of her and would even have the guts to try and strike a convo with me when we were ordering..I hated that shyt!

I dont lift weights or even work out, but a real buff dude who works out hard told me I had good genes and Im not using them..

The worst is when youre between jobs and people are shocked youre broke..like I should go sell my body to the highest bidder like an escort

Damn breh. How long did y'all date for? You should have either demanded she started acting right and not so insecure and/or tell her that you ain't checking for other chicks. It may not work and they still may not believe you though. Told some chick I was dating that, and she still showed signs of insecurity when other chicks looked at me and got mad at me, as if I can control it lol.

I mostly get looks when I'm out and about, but when I'm with a chick other women wanna start being way more aggressive. It's a double edged sword. Women want men other women want, but at the same time they don't

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

I'm telling you bruh, last chick I was messing with I sometimes questioned "does she just want me for my looks and body?". Because there would be times where were vibing and other times there would be awkward silences. And she always got excited as hell when it came time to being intimate. And she wouldn't remember certain things about me.

Older women will definitely look at you as just a piece of meat to devour in bed. It's a sad world we're living out here brehs.

Just the fact that you were able to ask this question means that you are processing the situation at a higher level than most. In my experience dealing with girls, the answer is pretty much "yes". Understandably this might make you uncomfortable but you are just going to have to get used to it. Realize that you are in luck, and you should take advantage of your assets. I definitely can not relate to any of what you say because I'm basically invisible to chicks but I've come to accept that a transaction always occurs when dealing with individuals, especially members of the opposite sex. If it is not your body or face they want then it is something else, so even though you were plainer looking or had other attributes that drew people towards you it would still be the same shyt (trust me I know).

 

[SheWantTheD]

Just the fact that you were able to ask this question means that you are processing the situation at a higher level than most. In my experience dealing with girls, the answer is pretty much "yes". Understandably this might make you uncomfortable but you are just going to have to get used to it. Realize that you are in luck, and you should take advantage of your assets. I definitely can not relate to any of what you say because I'm basically invisible to chicks but I've come to accept that a transaction always occurs when dealing with individuals, especially members of the opposite sex. If it is not your body or face they want then it is something else, so even though you were plainer looking or had other attributes that drew people towards you it would still be the same shyt (trust me I know).

Yeah, I completely agree. Even though a lot of people don't want to look at it that way relationships are what you can do for that person and what they can do for you ie a transaction.

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

Just read through this entire thread and it's almost 3 am.. .

Edit: deleting all that sh. Don't know why I wrote all that out.

Fukk bragging bout your looks.

So I guess all you typed out ain't ducktales. Brazy. I'm team ugly but i feel your pain breh.

 

[SheWantTheD]

So I guess all you typed out ain't ducktales. Brazy. I'm team ugly but i feel your pain breh.

What do you mean? Why did you think I was lying before and why do you think I'm telling the truth now?

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

What do you mean? Why did you think I was lying before and why do you think I'm telling the truth now?

Nah cuz if you were flexing it wouldn't really make sense to delete all that shyt because it took a lot of effort to type out.

Also from talking to you it seems like you are being for real, not just on some "i'm so handsome, bytches love me" shyt.

A lot of nikkas on the coli flex but over an extended period of time you can easily tell the fakers from the real dudes.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Nah cuz if you were flexing it wouldn't really make sense to delete all that shyt because it took a lot of effort to type out.

Also from talking to you it seems like you are being for real, not just on some "i'm so handsome, bytches love me" shyt.

A lot of nikkas on the coli flex but over an extended period of time you can easily tell the fakers from the real dudes.

Oh I gotchu.