The official Handsome Nxgga Problems thread - all brehs and brehettes welcome

[Raiders]

As it was mentioned in the last thread by a fellow brother. My biggest annoyance is everyone thinking i'm a player just because of my looks.

This times a million.
Partially my fault tho, people always say I flirt with everybody I guess I brought it on myself

 

[Raiders]

I won't even lie, I have turned down men before because they were too goodloooking. I've literally said "No thanks, you're trouble" just because they're attractive and I assume they're a player.

That shyt hurts, all the good chick worth anything don't want to fukk with you, we just left with girls who just want to have fun

It sounds good in theory, but those hoes aint shyt..they just want me for my penis

 

[Barnett114]

I wish I had these problems.

 

[fanny pack]

when im out in public, 6/10 times i'm stared at/holla'd at by dudes and most of them arent even my type.

 

[2manyFCKNrappers]

when your girl is lowkey jealous of your naturally long eyelashes

 

[Pineal Gland]

The ultimate handsome n!gga problem: Not realizing your potential.

Having many women check you out...but still feeling like you're ugly cause:
1) you're broke
2) you're not where you want to be in life and your confidence level doesn't match your looks.
3) feeling that the world is against you cause they're afraid of your potential...that you haven't realized yet

1 and 2

This shyt right here. This shytttt Women act wayyy weirder when you good looking. And i also feel that if your game doesn't match your looks, they get repulsed. Like if you a good lookin, swagged out nikka...you almost always have to be a player and confident and cannot be awkward cuz the slightest whiff of insecurity they get from you...and its a wrap.

From my ex:

"You would have more success with women if you weren't so fukking quiet... That shyt is a turn off"

 

[SPACE IS FAKE]

I heard something along those lines too
How/Why is quietness a turnoff?

 

[CinnaSlim]

I wish I had you guys problems.

-DMP-

Quit playing, boy you foine.

This thread needs pictures!

Im glad some of yall notice what goes on around you. All of my boyfriends have been very handsome. The worst one tho acted oblivious to when females flirted with him.

Its a sad thing to see a man who is handsome but dumb.

 

[DrX]

being handsome is a motherfukk tho esp if u got other shyt to go with it

dudes think u want their women and get all defensive n shyt

 

[rogue_riezo]

These pretty boy problems sounding more and more like bytch made boy problems but Imma let ya'll finish.

 

[HoloGraphic]

The constant attention

 

[Smoke]

fukk all yall

 

[iceberg_is_on_fire]

Quit playing, boy you foine.

This thread needs pictures!

Im glad some of yall notice what goes on around you. All of my boyfriends have been very handsome. The worst one tho acted oblivious to when females flirted with him.

Its a sad thing to see a man who is handsome but dumb.

Some of us are like that though. I'm deaf dumb to the shyt but I've done playful flirting from time to time and it is always received well. For starters, I know I'm attractive. I've posted my pics in the men of the coli thread and have received generous daps from the ladies here. Not that I need that for validation as for every step of my life, that fact has been reaffirmed. At every juncture or stop, I've seen how ugly nikkas get treated vs the handsome ones. I always fall in the latter. It's all about the eye of the beholder to the woman as far as how attractive I am to them. As I was saying though, I can't tell when a woman is flirting unless it's painfully obvious like shyt hanging out of a blouse, dangling keys in my face type shyt. My wife tells me all the time that someone was giving me the look or something like that. My dumbass is always like "who"? I don't look for it so that could be one thing.

That said, to contribute to the theme of this thread, I can say this.

I've been told that I'm probably a player too many times in my life to count. I project confidence in everything I do, not a conceited confidence but a quiet, reserved one and that helps because when we look at women, far too often, we think and immediately favor physical attributes over others. Women seem to work out the 30 year life plan in their head after talking to a guy for 5 minutes. Some women can't do mental math but they will break the game tape down on a nikka faster than John Madden or Bill Parcells on job prospects, ability in bed, fiscal responsibilities, etc... With that said, I'm educated, attractive, witty, great communicator and usually the smartest/worldly/most knowledgeable person in a room. That unspoken truth permeates pretty quickly but I'm never the type to use it as something along the lines of superiority. Self-effacing and quick to smile to boot and all of it is genuine. With the combination that I possess, I've seen women get the visible when they find out that I'm "happily" married. I've found that I have to toss out the "happily" or else someone to tempt and try to test and no man is 100% immune to the temptation of some new new. Given that I'm married, I don't currently experience handsome nikka problems on the regular. However, on the way home today, picking up the new Halo and Assassin's Creed for XB1, I stopped at Taco Bell to get a quick bite to eat. Still in my work attire, bottom up, slacks, shoes, etc... All women there giving me that warm smile as I ordered my food. I'm used to it so that is probably why I don't think about it so much but it is still appreciated.

 

[010101]

we are NOT all created equal

know what level you're really on

and exploit all you have and all you can get your hands on

being a beautiful savage*

 

[BujuBoombastic]

I won't even lie, I have turned down men before because they were too goodloooking. I've literally said "No thanks, you're trouble" just because they're attractive and I assume they're a player.

So #teamugly has a chance?

To @prettypeople- fukk yall..

Ugly Nikkas like me looking at this lifestyle like...

Hell yeah.... Kind of like those people that are underconfident/have low self-esteem but for literally NO GOOD REASON (like myself). Imagine if Michael Jordan didn't think he could shoot a basket....

I think a lot of it stems from my childhood/teenage years (constant rejection and ridicule), and now it subconsciously fukks with me still.
I always "think" I see women checking me out or whatever. The thing is, I can never tell if i'm actually attractive to them or if they're giving signs.(it's always the "look away" thing). I always second-guess myself, so ain't no telling what I may have actually missed out upon. It's quite frustrating.....

That's how I feel bigmon. Some older women, Family Members, told me "you're very handsome, but u don't have confidence in your self to realize it"...
@*L*E*G*A*C*Y*
Keep spitting that logic yute. That's legacy shyt right there.

#uglyproblems...