The official Handsome Nxgga Problems thread - all brehs and brehettes welcome

[Michael's Black Son]

Brehs and Brehettes, join me in this thread and help a fellow breh out.

I know there was a ugly nikka thread and a broke nikka thread and it was a sad sight to read but handsome nxgga's go thru it too.

In the last month or so I had to cut 3 chicks from my airspace because I knew I'd get brain cancer fukking with them. The last one was cut from the team today (all sistas too). One of them left over the summer and took a new job in Cali but tells me she thinks of me all the time, but she was the lowest on the totem poll and nowhere near wife material. Just fun and she caught feelings.

The other was my main and after a couple of years together we reached an impasse and i couldn't see myself dealing with an attitude for the rest of my life. Her shyt was together on paper but when the two of y'all are together, theres not math equation for them things that can only be felt, not seen. I cared about her alot but my sanity means more to me.

The middle one is wifey material, has a man and even tho she said she was all good with dude, she still chilled with me anyway. But I didn't wanna deal with being the "other" dude and she don't got it in her to just chill with me so after a brief argument today, I kicked her to the curb. I had to take a stand on that shyt regardless of how great our chemistry was.

Now a breh is just chilling. So whats a handsome nxgga to do? PAWG it out since I'm in NY and have access to all kinds of flavors? Leave the sisters alone for a while? Drown my "sorrows" in random p*ssy and partying? Or just focus on work and getting $ (which I already do)?

Feel free to chime in brehs an brehettes. And and Coli handome nxggas (pause) what are y'all "problems" looking like

 

[DrX]

i get tired of ugly bytches thinking they can have me because of this simp culture

 

[KOOL-AID]

yeah breh totally handsome, smashin dimes naw mean, tld her to like go to the bushes and all dat, had another shorty on rotation....360 waves....muscles...stroke game.......mouthpiece.

 

[*L*E*G*A*C*Y*]

The ultimate handsome n!gga problem: Not realizing your potential.

Having many women check you out...but still feeling like you're ugly cause:
1) you're broke
2) you're not where you want to be in life and your confidence level doesn't match your looks.
3) feeling that the world is against you cause they're afraid of your potential...that you haven't realized yet.

 

[*L*E*G*A*C*Y*]

And let's be honest and not full of ourselves...we're all ugly as f*ck to someone out there LOL.

 

[rogue_riezo]

Getting lectured by your mom on how she thought about her kids looks when she married my dad and how I clearly wasn't doing the same when I brought a girl home . She told me she don't want ugly grandkids

 

[Michael's Black Son]

The ultimate handsome n!gga problem: Not realizing your potential.

Having many women check you out...but still feeling like you're ugly cause:
1) you're broke
2) you're not where you want to be in life and your confidence level doesn't match your looks.
3) feeling that the world is against you cause they're afraid of your potential...that you haven't realized yet.

Soooooooooo much of this shyt/life is mental breh or that's at least what we're led to believe.

Got me wanting to just get $$$ cop a Benz or 911 and just drive around listening to music giving no fukks. I've been in that living abroad thread and I'm seriously considering just taking real trips (if I can afford it) like every other month. Medellin, Colombia is only 5 hrs from NY. I can stomach a 5 hr flight.

Being handsome doesn't always mean shyt will go your way. You still feel awkward at times and when your peoples/family ain't living as good as they should, it's affects you too.

 

[Ricky Church]

The ultimate handsome n!gga problem: Not realizing your potential.

Having many women check you out...but still feeling like you're ugly cause:
1) you're broke
2) you're not where you want to be in life and your confidence level doesn't match your looks.
3) feeling that the world is against you cause they're afraid of your potential...that you haven't realized yet.

And let's be honest and not full of ourselves...we're all ugly as f*ck to someone out there LOL.

quoted for realness.

 

[Big Boda]

Let me preface saying I aint complaining I like handsome problems.
At my last job when they introduced me to everyone the group of women was like "Woooo alright now HOW U DOIN"

I was helping a coworker move a box of stuff at work and she was taking everything as innuendo. she said "go in more, Boda" i moved the box back & said "go in?" she was like "hehe u so nasty" at lunch she gave me an oreo and said "you better eat that cookie"

When I'm in the store ladies be idling they engine just to wait for me to come out before they leave.

When I walk ladies do drive by yells like "Heeeeey Sexy! BIG DADDY OOOWWW!"

When ladies see me coming from a distance they look at me then start fixing their hair n stuff.

When one too many ladies start liking you in a new environment the dudes try to get those slick disses in "pshhh what you want Him for he aint nobody". It doesn't really matter how humble, well mannered and nice you are. Being humble actually makes ladies and hater dudes go harder. Gotta find right the balance for each environment.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Focus on the money breh


Being a handsome, PAID nikka >>>>>>>> ANYTHING ELSE IN LIFE

Work on upping your wardrobe game, maybe upping your crib (furniture, atmosphere, etc.,), education, working out (take a boxing class, or yoga.) and do all the shyt you want to do while you're inbetween women.


Not worrying about dates, gifts, or whatever and build yourself up

 

[Raye82]

I just wanna know who all the handsome nikkas are...

 

[aaaaaaa]

Ain't no use being handsome if you ain't tall

Or if you're balding

 

[bigmac]

The ultimate handsome n!gga problem: Not realizing your potential.

Having many women check you out...but still feeling like you're ugly cause:
1) you're broke
2) you're not where you want to be in life and your confidence level doesn't match your looks.
3) feeling that the world is against you cause they're afraid of your potential...that you haven't realized yet.

 

[Big Boda]

Ain't no use being handsome if you ain't tall

Or if you're balding

throw that out the window. im 6'6" when I cut my hair bald fade females at work acted like they aint have no dam sense. @O.T.I.S. deserves a rep for his post thats real talk

 

[Colicat]

Cheat on Black women but Black women are the problem brehs

yeah,... get you a pawg.... that will solve the problem