Like the premise of the thread...dole out some advice to these folks that need it...
-Check into her family relationship. She can have a mom and dad in her life, but what have they contributed? How have they influenced her? Do her and her father get along? Is it more than just a "gimme" relationship? Find out how she gets along with her parental units
-Tattoos (I have nothing against them, I'm not a fan but I have no problem with them) Are they stupid/random (minnie mouse, betty boop, dolphin, etc)? Any animal print tats are a NO GO (leopard print, tiger print, cheetah print, etc), obviously tats of people or even her name...Mature, wifable women usually don't do that
-Is herself. IE: She from the suburbs but tries to do/talk/act like she from hood. Not comfortable in her own skin.
-Idolizes, has pictures of, or takes Marilyn Monroe serious
-ALWAYS check her friends. The people she closest with. You are who you hang around! or "birds of a feather..."
-Women love attention, nothing special about that....what you looking for is What would she DO for attention? How often does the spotlight need to be on her? She humble? Once she gets said attention how does she act/react? Pay attention
-How much skin she showing when going out? Especially if she's dating (you or whomever) is she respectful of that? Of herself?
-Whenever telling stories or talking about her past, does she always seem to be the ONLY good one? (ie: She at somebody house with her friends and they all getting "trained"/ran thru but she the ONLY ONE not doing anything) Not saying once or twice but if she constantly is always with the wrong people who're doing the wrong thing but she the ONLY ONE not?
Just keep ya eyes open friends, its a minefield out here in this dating world. Don't play games, but vet people carefully before you take the "long ride" with em. Save yourself heartbreak and time wasted
everything is a red flag for you guys
