The older I get I realized regular people who do open relationships usually aren't that attractive

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The vast majority of swingers are white and in their 40s. They trend toward the upper middle-class to straight up rich, so personal trainers and plastic surgery are the norm. While I would say most are unattractive, there are more than enough beautiful people involved. My wife and I looked into it and met a few couples involved. Real Talk, swingers have the most insane sex lives. It was really tempting but that lifestyle simply wasn't for us.

What makes it insane?
 

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All i knew was this ugly white woman look like Roger Rabbit that kept talking about it at work. She would have roleplay parties and loved black men. Def some jabba the hut looking chicks that aren't going to be satisfying one person anytime soon that get into it. But honestly i would like to do a sex room one day just to peep the depravity and maybe fukk the one hottie thats there on some Eyes Wide Shut tip. Never had sex with others watching before..
 

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If you’re ever in South Florida and are in a couple or can attend with a woman or two, then go to Trapeze in Fort Lauderdale on a Saturday night or a major holiday (no single males are allowed). You will see lambos, Ferraris, and all types of foreigns parked outside. When you get in, it’s not cheap btw, but you will have your mind blown and your views will surely alter.

I will leave it at that.
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The vast majority of swingers are white and in their 40s. They trend toward the upper middle-class to straight up rich, so personal trainers and plastic surgery are the norm. While I would say most are unattractive, there are more than enough beautiful people involved. My wife and I looked into it and met a few couples involved. Real Talk, swingers have the most insane sex lives. It was really tempting but that lifestyle simply wasn't for us.

just curious what you thought is was initially vs what it turned out to be that turned you off of it
 

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Break it down
The nice cars outside is a sure thing. The night I went they were allowing single males, course they were charge more. Now they were women you wouldn’t look twice at, but there were some that I was extremely surprised to see. They were a couple of girls tricking, white ladies enjoying bbc, gangbangs everywhere. My only drawback with the gangbang were a lot of the women look so drugged out.
 

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I was into it for years. Yeah, you have more than your share of :flabbynsick: people but a good amount of people are :whoo: looks wise . You'd be surprised. Baddest chick I smashed was a milf that had the body of a prime old school porn star Christy Canyon with the face of Siri :wow:

I met a guy who was a brain surgeon that brought his mistress to a party. Dude was on call and was called in a few hours after he arrived. Left his chick to play until he got back.

I'm in my forties now and it's crazy to realize that I'm now in the Swingers age bracket. Especially where I'm at. Longtime friends , girls I went to school with either are or I'm :patrice: that they do .


As for the neighborhoods, yeah that can be a sign on the level of participants attending. That and the ones you need to be vouched for.
 

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just curious what you thought is was initially vs what it turned out to be that turned you off of it
It was less about my expectation and more about the details involved with what it actually was. For example, after having sex with no condoms for all these years, I don't want to go back to using condoms, even if it means using them allows me to fuq other women. We would also have to worry about HS1, HPV, and Bacterial Vaginosis, that's the stuff that contracts via skin to skin contact on top of other STIs. Then there's the secrecy, and I hate keeping secrets. Do you tell your Dr about it? I'm sure as hell not telling either of our parents that we are going to an orgy, the night we drop the kids off at their house.
What makes it insane?
What's insane about their sex lives? One dude I met had regular sex with his wife during the week, then on weekends he and her were having orgies in some rich couple's dedicated sex room or around their pool, on the regular. They had a crew of couples they hung with and fuq'd, but there are clubs and websites dedicated to meeting new couples and people. Plus, there are dedicated resorts and cruises just for swingers.
 
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Had a married coworker that tried to get me to go to a traveling swingers club that came to town. Bish was busted! I wouldn't have went anyway, but I didn't smash her either. Also, a pretty chic (40lbs overweight) I smashed a few times, asked if I wanted to go to a swingers club in Vegas. She found the swingers club on the internet, said she always wanted to go to one. Had to ghost her low aspiration having hor azz
 

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The vast majority of swingers are white and in their 40s. They trend toward the upper middle-class to straight up rich, so personal trainers and plastic surgery are the norm. While I would say most are unattractive, there are more than enough beautiful people involved. My wife and I looked into it and met a few couples involved. Real Talk, swingers have the most insane sex lives. It was really tempting but that lifestyle simply wasn't for us.

Be an actual real life cuckold brehs.
 
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People will really do anything for some sex instead of paying for it. I really don’t understand it. Using the women you rest to head with as a bargaining chip to fukk other people. Is money really that important to you? What do y’all nikkas even spend y’all money on if y’all have any? Just sitting in a savings account or with some shady ass stockbroker somewhere? shyts weird mane. Money is a tool mane so you ain’t gotta do this type of primitive shyt.
 
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