The older I get, the less I care what a woman does for a living

[agnosticlady]

1. Physical Attractiveness
-Athletic or thick build
-Nice ass (I get bored of fukking a girl with no ass)
-Maintains hair well
-Pretty p*ssy
-Good hygiene/Smells good
-Tall 5'7 to 6'1
-Has to have some Black in her

2. Personality

Good traits=down to earth, selfless, catering, friendly, smart, educated/specialized, high libido, motherly, thrifty, sensual, empathetic, interdependent, fitness conscious, culturally black, spiritual, egalitarian, honest, been through some sort of struggle, body count under 20,

Bad traits=bougie, arrogant, bad attitude, argumentative, materialistic, pessimistic, illiterate, selfish, dishonest, easily flustered or provoked, dependent or independent, weak, lazy, financially illiterate, likes white people/culture/music too much, too liberal or too conservative, overly religious, only sees men as a utility for money or sex, matriarchal, feminist, nagging/heckling, overly promiscuous


3. Has a job/career
-that can maintain a decent standard of living and cover all her cost of living expenses (if she earns at least around 40k)
THIS IS ALL I NEED MONEY/CAREER WISE from her


4. Life Choices
no
-outstanding loans(which a lot of these career women have), credit card, car, or bad mortgage debt
-body count over 30
-bad criminal record
-bad credit score (under 600)
- homes or cars repossessed
-living above their means (i know some career professional women who make 80-120k and have a tow truck chasing that bmw)
-overweight (about 195-200 is my weight limit) (no visceral fat)(If stomach fat>ass fat i don't care how cute the face is, if she's still skinny, or how much money she has, I'm not fukking with it)
-Single mothers (unless they have a good story behind it)
-Divorced people (once again need a good story behind it)
-Has a professional degree but no professional pay, whats the point in getting a PHD in psychology if you cant find a job and a mechanic earns more than you.


5. She wants to raise a family (If a women doesn't want a family she automatically is removed off of long term relationship material)
talking to a lot of girls my age they don't want a family either because they want to spend the money on themselves or they like their job too much.


6. Sex
I have a high sex drive and need sex around 5 times a week
I don't like those girls who cum like men and lose arousal after their orgasm
I also enjoy long/multiple sex sessions too
I know a lot cac professional couples who only have sex once a monththat's a no go for my black ass


For real though I don't think I could date a woman who earns substantially more money or is obsessed more about their career than me. Maybe its just my upbringing but I feel like whoever earns more money commandeers the relationship and has the final say with important financial relationships.


No one is going to be sitting on their death bed bragging about how much money they earned, how they wished they worked more, or what career they had.

Did you create this list yourself?

 

[3rdWorld]

Some women are naturally home makers and built to stay in doors..

 

[OfTheCross]

I'm not against women going to school and getting advanced degrees.

I'm not against women working hard and earning a lot of money.

But to be honest, I don't really care how much money you make or how smart you are.

And I'm not trying to set women back and throw them in the kitchen on some misogyny from the 1950s type shyt.

But to keep it real, me...I am attracted to women who complement a man. Not ones who seem to try and compete with one.

Y'all can argue about gender roles and all that shyt but at the end of the day, ain't no woman gonna respect or want a man that she can replace with herself.

And ain't no man gonna respect or want a woman who doesn't seem to need him.

Frankly I think this is part of why so many relationships fail. Everybody trying to out-do one another and once you feel like you're on the same level, the only thing you gonna feel like you need from that other person is sex. And that shyt is too easy to get on the street (or even at work, lol) so it ain't gonna hold the relationship together.

Then again, I've been wrong before.

I didn't come in to this thread cause I thought I would agree with you and just leave...but now that I'm here, I don't agree with you at all.

I do care how much money my woman makes and how smart she is.

I want her to be fully capable of taking care of herself and carrying an intelligent conversation.

I prefer a woman that doesn't need a man in her life. It takes a lot of pressure of me. I don't need a dependent, I need a partner. If I wanted someone to take care of I'd have kids.

 

[Kuwka_Atcha_Ratcha]

date broke women brehs

 

[Kuwka_Atcha_Ratcha]

Some women are naturally home makers and built to stay in doors..

yeah disabled and retarded women

 

[j.smooth4]

Did you create this list yourself?

yes took about ten minutes

 

[prince_peoples]

once i started making great money, i stopped caring about what a chick does.

most of the women i end up wifing me having busy careers, and that kind of sucks. they be so focused on they careers, they be super stressed.

 

[The Mad Titan]

yall are a trip, its literally all or nothing.

Prepare for a hard lonely and or annoying bitter life long journey with that kind of mindset.


The older you get the less and less silly things like portfolio's and 5 year plans matter, and the more things like a loyal honest, caring, good person, with common sense and decency do matter when looking for a mate. Most you silly gooses wont even make through 2 years of marriage while you out worrying about a smart well prepared mate.

Doesn't matter if your man or woman could rattle off current news and even like google.

 

[wickedsm]

Some women are naturally home makers and built to stay in doors..

Can you expand on that please?

 

[rapbeats]

I'm not against women going to school and getting advanced degrees.

I'm not against women working hard and earning a lot of money.

But to be honest, I don't really care how much money you make or how smart you are.

And I'm not trying to set women back and throw them in the kitchen on some misogyny from the 1950s type shyt.

But to keep it real, me...I am attracted to women who complement a man. Not ones who seem to try and compete with one.

Y'all can argue about gender roles and all that shyt but at the end of the day, ain't no woman gonna respect or want a man that she can replace with herself.

And ain't no man gonna respect or want a woman who doesn't seem to need him.

Frankly I think this is part of why so many relationships fail. Everybody trying to out-do one another and once you feel like you're on the same level, the only thing you gonna feel like you need from that other person is sex. And that shyt is too easy to get on the street (or even at work, lol) so it ain't gonna hold the relationship together.

Then again, I've been wrong before.

wait. i was riding with you then i saw you said you didnt care how smart the lady is. thats a problem. maybe you're ok with unintelligent chicks. me...not so much. i can't do it personally. never could. but i do agree on the rest. i stopped carrying about how much a lady brings in or if she's degreed up, etc doesnt matter if she works at taco bell to be honest. as long as she has a hustlas spirit. we can work. because eventually i'm going to get her up out of taco bell. unless i get her to become a regional manager for taco bell. something like that.

 

[agnosticlady]

yall are a trip, its literally all or nothing.

Prepare for a hard lonely and or annoying bitter life long journey with that kind of mindset.


The older you get the less and less silly things like portfolio's and 5 year plans matter, and the more things like a loyal honest, caring, good person, with common sense and decency do matter when looking for a mate. Most you silly gooses wont even make through 2 years of marriage while you out worrying about a smart well prepared mate.

Doesn't matter if your man or woman could rattle off current news and even like google.

Exactly.. People are in for a real surprise when they get older

 

[3rdWorld]

Can you expand on that please?

I mean some women just want to be taken care of and stay at home. That's a woman's traditional role in the home.
Not caring what she does means a man's a traditionalist and prefers a house wife.