The older I get, the more I realize the quality girls get wifed up early

[Peter Popoff]

Na.....I just don't think a lot of ppl have a knowledge of self, both men and women. Some experience that shyt young and some old. Once you know yourself, you have better clarity to finding the right SO. If you too fixated on satisfying yourself with lust or money, you can't see the person right in front of you and if they bring value and peace of mind to you.

Sometimes it could be something as easy as overlooking the fat bytch with the perfect qualities for the dime that's a bytch unaware that you're a fat ass yourself and that dime don't like you for you and you're setting yourself up for hardship and regret in the longterm or some other little flaw you picked on about the chick but now you're looking back and regretting that shyt cause she was a freak and submissive but you stuck with prissy p*ssy that only does missionary once a month but lowkey hates you.

I'm typing too fukking much yeesh...

 

[Thanos]

nikkas be centering marriage like it's all end all be all. Y'all broke, some of y'all particularly dusty. Talking all these standards, & have nothing to offer. The fukk is 24 wanting marriage for too, any sensible person at that age is still trying to figure who they are as a person.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Let’s try this.

You said there aren’t many quality Western women. Do you believe people should date at their level? If so, why do feel western men deserve any higher quality woman than the ones they’re getting now?

This. Men who are marriage/relationship material will not have a problem finding a good woman. At any age.

But the delusions are strong with men. There are lots of men who aren’t ready or marriage material looking to dump their issues onto unsuspecting chicks with their shyt together. Water finds its own level tho, so those who got it won’t have a problem finding it.
Also location and social circle matters a lot. Having a wide social lake to cast in and being able to get references and background info matters a lot. I have a working theory that a lot of the instability of current generations of marriages has a lot to do with randoms hooking up with little knowledge of their partners’ background, family, pedigree, mental health history., ect.
That shyt matters believe it or not.

 

[Still Benefited]

This the real shyt. A LOT of these women seem quality from a distance until you get in a relationship with them or know the person they are with. Relationship personality is way different than the friend personality.

When we say good women we are only talking about at their core,they are working from a good base. All women if left unchecked are prone towards being hellhounds in some fashion. Doesnt mean she has to be out here on some City Girls shyt. But even in a relationship she will play games,she may try to control you,nag you.

If your not willing to be somewhat "controlling" and "overbearing". You might as well not even have a wife. Because she will not actually be your wife.

This can get dicey in this society,especially these days because you could be considered toxic. At her base a good woman basically is a submissive woman .

 

[010101]

women are mirrors

those good.girls are reflections of better men

*

 

[jeh]

Never in my life have I seen people who are single talk so much about marriage

 

[Shadow King]

Why do you think there's a dark tone for single brehs on here that the Coli Geriatric Gang, married or single doesn't want to hear? If you left your college years age without your rider you might as well mentally prepare to be GMB.

 

[Shadow King]

Never in my life have I seen people who are single talk so much about marriage

You'll survive

 

[DonRe]

Thread is funny. All the wholesome attractive girls I knew in college were married within a couple years of graduation......and they're all still married.

Seems like there's a confusion with marrying young and marrying good girls young.

I mean the thing is the “square” cute chick with her ambitions of pursuing her masters and has high aspirations tend to be snatched up quick. Her market is massive. She attracts all Types.

 

[Controversy]

I mean the thing is the “square” cute chick with her ambitions of pursuing her masters and has high aspirations tend to be snatched up quick. Her market is massive. She attracts all Types.

The sleepers are the best ones

I always scooped them before nikkas realized how quality they were

I like the overlooked ones...the ones that don't wear fitted clothes but thick underneath...the ones that always have their hair in a bun or ponytail, but the hair is flowing when they get it done...the ones that look down when they walk & lug around a suitcase

 

[Bossino]

Young brehs, if you looking for a wife, I urge you to lock down a quality girl by time she is 24.


You don't want be out here trynna find a wife at 30 plus

No shyt I'm 23 and I already realize it's highly unlikely I'll find someone, but it's okay I'm not entitled to it, born alone die alone.

 

[High Art]

This is why white people go to college to find mates.

Or higher level schools like med school and so forth. At some point we as a community should look at other communities and see what works and why.

In any case, these topics always go the same:
1. Guy says something based on personal experience or heaven forbid, stats.
2. Another guy comes in and says no, and mentions a counterpoint taken from "The Compendium of Universally Accepted Female Opinions: Post-Covid Edition".
3. Guy gets brow beaten into trying aforementioned opinion.
4. Tries it, it doesn't work ( ) and finds himself back here, expressing his old opinion.

Did I miss anything? I don't think I did.

 

[#BOTHSIDES]

Im in my thirties and dated (I’m taking a break) girls in their 20s… I don’t find them much better. Cesspool… but I’m also in Chicago which probably has the worst (blk) chicks in America

 

[Rozay Oro]

Im in my thirties and dated (I’m taking a break) girls in their 20s… I don’t find them much better. Cesspool… but I’m also in Chicago which probably has the worst (blk) chicks in America

Good luck breh. I’m 27, my hoes 19-23 and it’s def a cesspool

 

[Living Bait]

Muhfugga this aint back in the day.....

if you tie down at 24 you will both be bored of each other in 5 years........she will want to try some new sausage and you will want to try some new kebab.....

plenty of time to be on some grow old together shyt.....until then......just enjoy yourself......