The only reason you get friend zoned is because you aren't attractive enough

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not all the time, I was just bullshyttin with this broad the other day she start talkin bout this dude who texted her and friend zoning dude, I was laughing the whole time. She said some shyt like "I really do find him attractive" so I'm like " :pachaha: ok? " and she came out with "he's too nice, he always compliments me"

I thought of the coli when she was sayin all this shyt
 

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This is not true at all. I've been friend zoned and so has a best friend of mine. Both of us are very good looking and get p*ssy regularly. Don't give a fukk if you're Brad Pitt, someone will friendzone u
 
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It depends on the criteria by which you're judging one's attractiveness. Plenty of dudes who meet the traditional standards of sex appeal are put in the "friend zone" because their personalities didn't appeal to the women who placed them there. Men have to stop thinking that women judge us the same way we do them, that they take into consideration and place the same emphasis on the qualities we include in our assessment of a woman's draw. :francis:
 

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OP..

I somewhat disagree. I think it is more so that said woman isn't attracted to a dude, not that he isn't attractive enough or perhaps there is a lack of spark between her and dude. It may have nothing to do with the aforementioned and she simply has interest in someone else which has nothing to do whether she finds a dude attractive or not...

A woman can find a man attractive and know that he possesses good qualities and still friendzone said man.

But, let's say that you are right.. So what? No man is obligated to accept the friend zone. To me, to be friend zoned is to accept the position. If a woman friendzone me, then good for her! I just don't accept it because I have no interest in accepting that role nor am I going to keep associating with someone who doesn't see me on a romantic level. She isn't my friend and really has no interest in being my friend. She don't gaf about my feelings and should she enters into a relationship with someone else, will end up fading out of my existence anyways..*shrugs*

Moral of the story:

Not all women gonna find all men attractive nor will they connect with all men. There is a pecking order to this shyt. Some women will prioritize a man's importance, attractiveness, etc based on a myriad of metrics. Same thing with men. In all, if a woman friendzone you, then you friendzone her back!!!!!!! Now what??????? Lol On to the next one!!
 
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That's not true there's a couple of women I know who're friends of mine that have came out and told me they've wanted to date me on a serious level but were afraid of "loosing" me, especially if that relationship didn't work out so we've both opted to stay as close friends but date other people in the process.
 

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Human beings are complicated. I’ve had women friend zone me. Months later, we end up fukking. Sometimes you’re not their best option, other times, they just don’t want to get involved at that time of their life.

Just keep multiple women in rotation, eventually they’ll come around. If they enjoy your company, 9/10 they’ll eventually fukk.
 
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That's not true there's a couple of women I know who're friends of mine that have came out and told me they've wanted to date me on a serious level but were afraid of "loosing" me, especially if that relationship didn't work out so we've both opted to stay as close friends but date other people in the process.

man that's some bullshyt. 9 times out of 10 it's some shyt where they think u a good dude and want u for later but in the meantime they gonna go fukk with whoever and expect u to wait around, don't fall for that lol
 

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That's not true there's a couple of women I know who're friends of mine that have came out and told me they've wanted to date me on a serious level but were afraid of "loosing" me, especially if that relationship didn't work out so we've both opted to stay as close friends but date other people in the process.

Believe women, brehs :mjlol:
 

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man that's some bullshyt. 9 times out of 10 it's some shyt where they think u a good dude and want u for later but in the meantime they gonna go fukk with whoever and expect u to wait around, don't fall for that lol
That’s why you should be fukking other women in the mean time. :dahell:

No one said you have to wait around and twiddle your thumbs.
 

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Why do you guys think your special though.

Hundreds of guys just like you approach her like every week (Maybe slight exaggeration)...so what is she not supposed to friend zone any of them? She's supposed to date them all? But then you would call her a ho. C'mon guys use your brains.
 

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Why do you guys think your special though.

Hundreds of guys just like you approach her like every week (Maybe slight exaggeration)...so what is she not supposed to friend zone any of them? She's supposed to date them all? But then you would call her a ho. C'mon guys use your brains.



100 nikkas aint shooting they shot at her face to face during the week though. Unless she fine. Most these people dont look away from they phones
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The amount of simp nikkas posts on here show that. I can see it through social media, though they think 80% nikkas ugly already.


So only the select few of us outchea eating
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Handsome gang aint got this issue though
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Not really about looks.

A broad could be messing with an average looking breh with a giant baby arm for a dikk. He doesn't have anything else going for him but she can't get enough of that dude.

You come along and have everything she wants in a long term partner. She wants to keep you around but the broad is young...and still enjoys getting her back blown out by baby arm. It's possible you have better stroke game than Baby Arm, but that doesn't matter. She wants to sow her oats and she knows she's not ready to settle down. Basically she wants to hold you in place so you're there when she is ready.

Problem is that a good dude will eventually find another broad. Friend zoning makes sense from the female perspective but it rarely works if breh really is a good catch.
 
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