The percentage of men between ages 18-30 with zero sex partners tripled from 08-18

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Lol at these comments saying being an old virgin is a chess move.

Tripping over p*ssy isn't productive but the alternative isn't getting NONE for YEARS.

I think part of the issue is there is a huge echo chamber online and in real life that is telling a lot of men that this MGTOW/Blackpill type stuff is ok. Let's not act like these guys are in celibacy due to moral principles.

Part of getting laid back in the day and losing your virginity was peer and social validation. Not that you had to run through chicks but guys didn't tell their friends it was OK not to get women.

They might suggest a break if you are down but eventually everyone wants each other to score with somebody. How many times did I sit around with friends comparing notes on women and strategizing game...

Now we got a bunch of lames saying 'fukk these bytches I'm bushing them all' on social media and getting a million likes.
 

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This is such a poor conclusion and so far removed from reality:mjlol:
American men have never been more flexible in regards to what they will accept from women. :mjlol:A boomer could make 50k in todays money with no degree and demand a wife with no visible tattoos, no gut/belly and knows how to cook and most could get that too. Now it's not uncommon to see men dating women 3+ years older than them with a fukking sleeve tat.
 

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American men have never been more flexible in regards to what they will accept from women. :mjlol:A boomer could make 50k in todays money with no degree and demand a wife with no visible tattoos, no gut/belly and knows how to cook and most could get that too. Now it's not uncommon to see men dating women 3+ years older than them with a fukking sleeve tat.

Exactly. Men are compromising more than ever to find a potential partner. The idea that men (young or otherwise) aren’t getting laid because they all want baddies is ridiculous and it’s the kind of analysis you’d only encounter on this forum :pachaha:

There’s a multitude of reasons why men aren’t getting laid, some of these are exacerbated if you’re black, but largely women have moved further away from regular men rather than otherwise.

The average man is being squeezed out of living - and is mostly just surviving. Regardless of age group; most men can’t afford a girlfriend - let alone family - like say, your pops could. However; women’s expectations have not been adjusted to compensate for this - in fact - with the advent of third wave feminism, social media and content creators/grifters - those expectations have generally skyrocketed (physical appearance, social status, finances, materialism etc)

dating dynamics are currently a reflection of other socioeconomic dynamics. Wealth is hoarded by a few - similarly; there’s a small group of men that are sleeping with a large group of women.

Conversely, a lot of men have become disillusioned and/or jaded with/by their prospects and turned to content creators/grifters - which partially speaks for the rise of the “redpill” movement and online “dating coaches”.

There’s also a disconnect in messaging; men are repeatedly told to “make do”, whereas women are told “don’t settle”. Majority of divorces are initiated by women, regardless of how unhappy a man might be.

These are but a few reasons - but there are enough reports on “male loneliness epidemic” and the accompanying suicide rates - for brehs to be on here talking about “they all want baddies” :mjlol: brehs are wifing women with 2-3 kids out of fear of ending up alone.
 

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Lol at these comments saying being an old virgin is a chess move.

Tripping over p*ssy isn't productive but the alternative isn't getting NONE for YEARS.

I think part of the issue is there is a huge echo chamber online and in real life that is telling a lot of men that this MGTOW/Blackpill type stuff is ok. Let's not act like these guys are in celibacy due to moral principles.

Part of getting laid back in the day and losing your virginity was peer and social validation. Not that you had to run through chicks but guys didn't tell their friends it was OK not to get women.

They might suggest a break if you are down but eventually everyone wants each other to score with somebody. How many times did I sit around with friends comparing notes on women and strategizing game...

Now we got a bunch of lames saying 'fukk these bytches I'm bushing them all' on social media and getting a million likes.
Would be a chess move if it was a choice ..incel wasn't coined in that same timeframe by mere coincidence. It's involuntary celibacy. Have people forgotten?! Nothing to laugh about. While repressed and radicalized men attack female reproductive rights. Swing to the far right and want to become like a handmaids tale. People are failing to see why a bunch of young dudes fell to worshipping people like Andrew Tate and Charlie Kirk.
 

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I don’t like attaching numbers to people because I think it’s nonsense, but for digestible visualization - the 6, 7ish girl that in decades past would have given a 5-7ish man a chance, is currently trying to be chose by the top percentile of men and/or in their rotation already - and if not, they’d rather be single and consuming content that reinforces that she should be with a top percentile man.

The normalization - and at times promotion - of LGBT couples has also had an impact (though on a smaller scale), but these days is plenty normal for women to tell you they’re gay/bi.

These are things your pops didn’t have to contend with.

An ice cream and a walk through the park was once considered a “date”. These days brehs end up on the internet as a viral moment for trying to do/pull off a “coffee date”.

You want to see the disconnect? It’s only a microcosm but just go to the “rent due” thread in TLR.
 

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Lol at these comments saying being an old virgin is a chess move.

Tripping over p*ssy isn't productive but the alternative isn't getting NONE for YEARS.

I think part of the issue is there is a huge echo chamber online and in real life that is telling a lot of men that this MGTOW/Blackpill type stuff is ok. Let's not act like these guys are in celibacy due to moral principles.

Part of getting laid back in the day and losing your virginity was peer and social validation. Not that you had to run through chicks but guys didn't tell their friends it was OK not to get women.

They might suggest a break if you are down but eventually everyone wants each other to score with somebody. How many times did I sit around with friends comparing notes on women and strategizing game...

Now we got a bunch of lames saying 'fukk these bytches I'm bushing them all' on social media and getting a million likes.
I have spoken to a number of young brehs (ages 19-21) and all of them had some red pill/black pill rhetoric they would say. I seen videos and reports of boys in their early teens speaking that nonsense too.
Girls aren't going to want to be around them if they know you aren't going to treat them like a normal human being
 

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Exactly. Men are compromising more than ever to find a potential partner. The idea that men (young or otherwise) aren’t getting laid because they all want baddies is ridiculous and it’s the kind of analysis you’d only encounter on this forum :pachaha:

There’s a multitude of reasons why men aren’t getting laid, some of these are exacerbated if you’re black, but largely women have moved further away from regular men rather than otherwise.

The average man is being squeezed out of living - and is mostly just surviving. Regardless of age group; most men can’t afford a girlfriend - let alone family - like say, your pops could. However; women’s expectations have not been adjusted to compensate for this - in fact - with the advent of third wave feminism, social media and content creators/grifters - those expectations have generally skyrocketed (physical appearance, social status, finances, materialism etc)

dating dynamics are currently a reflection of other socioeconomic dynamics. Wealth is hoarded by a few - similarly; there’s a small group of men that are sleeping with a large group of women.

Conversely, a lot of men have become disillusioned and/or jaded with/by their prospects and turned to content creators/grifters - which partially speaks for the rise of the “redpill” movement and online “dating coaches”.

There’s also a disconnect in messaging; men are repeatedly told to “make do”, whereas women are told “don’t settle”. Majority of divorces are initiated by women, regardless of how unhappy a man might be.

These are but a few reasons - but there are enough reports on “male loneliness epidemic” and the accompanying suicide rates - for brehs to be on here talking about “they all want baddies” :mjlol: brehs are wifing women with 2-3 kids out of fear of ending up alone.
Nikka how you make a post responding to someone being removed from reality then make another post bringing up debunked redpill talking points stating you from another galaxy :russ:
 

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Nikka how you make a post responding to someone being removed from reality then make another post bringing up debunked redpill talking points stating you from another galaxy :russ:

I don’t know. I don’t consume redpill content.

Anecdotally - all facts. Though as stated - merely a vertical slice of the multitude of reasons
 

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I'm starting to see a reason why. Most of these young men want nothing but 'baddies'. They don't realize we padded our records with average broads all the time. Also talking to women exclusively on the internet doesn't help them either.


This is very wrong. The average guy's standards isnt high at all.
 

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nikka all these hoes think they are baddies :skip:
Yeah back in the gap nikkas and bytches alike knew what it was out in these streets
Fat bytches would spoil you and fukk you like a demon
Ugly to medium chicks would do the same
The 8-10 of my generation knew they were truly 8-10 but you still had a chance with them because if you were funny enough
You “grew” on them and could still fukk:mjgrin:
Now all this hoes say they 10s
Even a bytch built like an In N Out 4x4 talking that bullshyt about what they won’t accept
Yall gotta stop shooting these bytches bail like they didn’t create this cesspool they complain about
Young nikkas are way more smarter than you think and have been seeing for the last ten years now how these hoes move and they are being very selective or working on themselves and practicing way better dikk discipline to some extent
You old nikkas keep forgetting the internet changed everything
We were out here trial and error
Now nikkas can see every flaw of a hoe with one click of a button and say
Nah I’m good

You ain't never lied. I was on vacation recently and one of the women on the trip was a legit 400 pounds. The topic of dating came up and I told them how in the current age it's much rougher on men because of women's inflated egos. I mentioned how men will fukk down on the ratings scale for easy targets which in turn makes those easy target think she deserves a higher level of man than they should really be targeting. This 400 pound woman who was already bragging about how she keeps a man and can pull with no problem starts debating me.

She had just finished telling the group about some doctor she was fukking that pulls 200K a year and the other women on the trip all thought was attractive. I had to point out to her that at 400 pounds that was way otu of her league. Her reply was that she has a pretty face (it was average), is intelligent (she's not), and that she takes care of her men sexually. I countered that the male equivalent of that would almost always get no play and would go years without a date meanwhile she can always find someone willing to fukk her with ease. Funny enough the fat woman caused two of the other women on the trip to pull me aside and saying they thought I was right after hearing the fat woman talk about her dating life.
 

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You ain't never lied. I was on vacation recently and one of the women on the trip was a legit 400 pounds. The topic of dating came up and I told them how in the current age it's much rougher on men because of women's inflated egos. I mentioned how men will fukk down on the ratings scale for easy targets which in turn makes those easy target think she deserves a higher level of man than they should really be targeting. This 400 pound woman who was already bragging about how she keeps a man and can pull with no problem starts debating me.

She had just finished telling the group about some doctor she was fukking that pulls 200K a year and the other women on the trip all thought was attractive. I had to point out to her that at 400 pounds that was way otu of her league. Her reply was that she has a pretty face (it was average), is intelligent (she's not), and that she takes care of her men sexually. I countered that the male equivalent of that would almost always get no play and would go years without a date meanwhile she can always find someone willing to fukk her with ease. Funny enough the fat woman caused two of the other women on the trip to pull me aside and saying they thought I was right after hearing the fat woman talk about her dating life.
The fat chick you would talk to at the club at 1:45 am as a last resort

She thinks she a 10
 

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The fat chick you would talk to at the club at 1:45 am as a last resort

She thinks she a 10
Facts. The funny thing is the fat chick was later telling one of the other girls on the trip that I was hitting on her and she could've slept with me if she wanted. I just laughed because it was based off nothing and I wouldn't have considering so much as touching her no matter how drunk I got. But sadly I know there are plenty of dudes that would be happy to be fukking anything and likely would. That's really what fukked the game up. I don't blame the women for the egos, I blame the horny ass men for gassing up these mediocre hoes that they get these egos.

Increased competiton for these women lead to nikkas shortcutting the game and gassing up all these women.
 
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I was prepared to write an entire dissertation, but I’ll just say this.

If you are average in looks, you’re going to have to jump through hoops, and pay, and even then, you’re going to have to deal with average looking women.

Average looking women can still get sex from attractive men. So they aren’t going to choose average looking YOU for non committed sex, because what’s the incentive? There is no big finish for women for EVERY sexual encounter for them. So she doesn’t have to be grateful, or try to impress you to get random sex, from some average to below average looking man. If she’s going to be used, she’s going to risk being used by an attractive man.

:manny:

I’ve never had to deal with below average looking women, so I can’t offer an advice on them, but if you’re Shrek, you gotta go for female Shrek.

:hubie:
 
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