You can tell which men have gotten love and/or attention from Black women in their lives based on their attitudes and disdain at the thought of coming to aid a Black woman in need of help.
I have no problem with some of these men not wanting to intervene because they're scared of getting hurt and want to protect their well-being as that's understandable

, however, it's their attitudes and disingenuous logic for why they chose not to get involved are what I don't like. To further disparage, rationalize, and come to conclusions to justify why that particular Black woman in question may be getting attacked/assaulted says a lot.
It tells me that they're not choosing to not intervene because of fear but because they have personal disdain and vendetta towards black women (due to individual experiences such as not getting love and attention) and feel this would “teach her a lesson” for ignoring them and/or their advances, such as that situation with the lady getting assaulted with a brick for rejecting a guy who asked for her number.
Sadly there are a lot of men who take solace in seeing women, especially Black women getting what they feel is “deserved” to the point it's like a sick fetish for some


but, luckily my man or men I interact with offline aren't like that.