The Real Deal with black relationships

[DarkHorse23]

The real deal with black male and female relationships in the USA is most of us don't want SOLUTIONS. We really don't. Black men want someone to cosign their beliefs and experiences and Black women want someone to cosign their beliefs and experiences. That's why with all due respect to @DrX and other black men most of the threads created in TLR are a waste of time because without both parties being willing to listen to each other and make a sincere effort to change our dating culture things will just stay the way they are. Yes I'm biased but I will say black men are more willing to listen to black women and their concerns than vice versa. Any black man who expresses his frustration about black women is labeled lame, corny, small dikk, a c00n ect. It's really sad when you think about it. Well I guess a whole lot of black men are the problem, because MANY are frustrated. And not just the Kent or Jamil types

 

[Jean Jacket]

Date more. Google confirmation bias.

Come back and see the irony of your thread.

 

[DarkHorse23]

Date more. Google confirmation bias.

Come back and see the irony of your thread.

I don't really need to date more. I have two good working eyes. That's all you need.

 

[Jean Jacket]

Is it just Black relationships with this issue then?

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

I think it is because people are tired of hearing the negative vitriol spit by both sides. It is borderline pathetic. It's even more pathetic when they start talking about how white women or white men are better than people of their own race.

 

[UncleTomFord15]

breh go outside and get some fresh air. This "war" between black men and black women only exists on the internet.

 

[DarkHorse23]

Is it just Black relationships with this issue then?

Other races have their issues no doubt. However what's going on in our community on some next level shyt.

 

[The Coochie Assassin]

The real deal with black male and female relationships in the USA is most of us don't want SOLUTIONS. We really don't. Black men want someone to cosign their beliefs and experiences and Black women want someone to cosign their beliefs and experiences. That's why with all due respect to @DrX and other black men most of the threads created in TLR are a waste of time because without both parties being willing to listen to each other and make a sincerely effort to change our dating culture things will just stay the way they are. Yes I'm biased but I will say black men are more willing to listen to black women and their concerns than vice versa. Any black man who expresses his frustration about black women is labeled lame, corny, small dikk, a c00n ect. It's really sad when you think about it. Well I guess a whole lot of black men are the problem, because MANY are frustrated. And not just the Kent or Jamil types

Just go to Brazil brotha

Don't Leave Brazil Frustrated..

 

[Jean Jacket]

You're standing up a strawman to deflect from the fact..that there is no Black "issue".

Women are crazy b.

Modern society has become narcissistic and self centered...

Take a look in the mirror and figure out what you bring to the table.

Might be surprised.

 

[mortuus est]

this thread gave me a headache kmt

 

[DarkHorse23]

Just go to Brazil brotha

Don't Leave Brazil Frustrated..

Don't have the money, and I been hearing the women there have been getting Americanized as well unfortunately. If that's indeed the case makes no sense to travel to South America to get what I can right here in the USA.

 

[Matt504]

breh go outside and get some fresh air. This "war" between black men and black women only exists on the internet.

False, it exists offline too but Black men are more careful to not offend women offline if they think there's a chance they could fukk those women.

 

[Reflected]

EVERY fukkING DAY lol

 

[The Coochie Assassin]

Don't have the money, and I been hearing the women there have been getting Americanized as well unfortunately. If that's indeed the case makes no sense to travel to South America to get what I can right here in the USA.

Don't go to Rio or Sao Paulo. Go to smaller cities where tourists don't go. You'll find a dime who will treat you right.

 

[IWunD3r]

breh go outside and get some fresh air. This "war" between black men and black women only exists on the internet.

Came in to say this... there is no war. However brehs need to be cautious and aware of these blk feminist/bedwenches . they're a growing minority, and theyre devastating to the blk community.