The real objection to feminism..

KinksandCoils

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Op this site is dominated by men. Anything that is positive or something only a woman would say won't work on this site because they are going to say your thread is shyt and that you're a ****. I agree with somethings that u said but not all.

Men are rude in here when they don't like what u have to say. It's always "get in the kitchen" "go cook" "shut up bytch"

:whoa:Not all male posters but some
 

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:tf: who said this

it's y'all who marginalize the role of a father, not us
You have +18 K posts and you're acting brand new? :stopitslime: "Get married, bruhs" "marriage is just a legal document" You actually participated in one of these discussions. I don't post regularly as evidence from my post count, but if these are the ones I can remember I can only imagine the discussions that took place when I wasn't on here.

You can still be a father and not get married tho.

What if it's a decision that was reached mutually? That they both didn't think it'd work if they were married?

So you're saying that a couple cannot have a happy household and raise the children as a family unit without signing a legal document?

There are many reasons to not get married: Not wanting to be under the confines of a marriage contract and all the potential fukkery that can occur, simply not believing in it, as well as all kinds of personal and philosophical reasons...

There are unmarried couples that raise families better than married couples. It's really weird that in a society with such shytty family values and home lives people still talk about marriage as if it will positively lead to a healthy life. Getting married doesn't make you a good family leader, it's all about character.
 

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and to add on to that, and turn it into a rant about black women ( :aicmon: ), this is where white women make smarter relationship moves. they'll get married to the stable guy that has a proven track record of being able to provide. eventually divorce the guy, get the home and kids -- THEN fukk the type of men they've always wanted to be with. black women kinda do the shyt in reverse. they fukk the guys they really want to be with first, then come to stable guys with a bunch of kids, tattoos, and bullet wounds, like they should want to be with that.:skip:

Turn off your tv. That is not reality. More like the exception than anything.
 

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Op this site is dominated by men. Anything that is positive or something only a woman would say won't work on this site because they are going to say your thread is shyt and that you're a ****. I agree with somethings that u said but not all.

Men are rude in here when they don't like what u have to say. It's always "get in the kitchen" "go cook" "shut up bytch"

:whoa:Not all male posters but some

Thanks, and yeah I understand.. I lurked for a bit before making this thread. I was just tryna push some buttons. Who is **** though?
 

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@InDePickWest used the same shtick and look where it got her. Be careful OP. I'm all for freedom to post whatever you want but this is a male dominated site. I wouldn't attempt to press buttons just for the sake of pressing buttons.:mjpls:
Where'd it get her?

I stand by what I said in my original post.

I understand that all men aren't like thecoli though.
 

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although you're probably joking, i want black men to notice this mentality. even w/o a man, y'all still believe you can raise children on your own. even though alllll the fukking evidence suggest y'all are terrible at it. so if you're serious, please dont blame black men when you fukk up horribly. :damn:

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Op this site is dominated by men. Anything that is positive or something only a woman would say won't work on this site because they are going to say your thread is shyt and that you're a ****. I agree with somethings that u said but not all.

Men are rude in here when they don't like what u have to say. It's always "get in the kitchen" "go cook" "shut up bytch"

:whoa:Not all male posters but some
Hostility is meet with hostility. And this seemed hostile to me.....
 

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You have +18 K posts and you're acting brand new? :stopitslime: "Get married, bruhs" "marriage is just a legal document" You actually participated in one of these discussions. I don't post regularly as evidence from my post count, but if these are the ones I can remember I can only imagine the discussions that took place when I wasn't on here.
my bad, i missed the part where she said "legal" and skipped right into the slandering of fatherhood. i certainly understand why men are against the institution of marriage. you already acknowledged it's basically a business contract, one that men are often on losing end of. so why would we willingly jump into a losing situation?
 
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