The rise of OPEN RELATIONSHIPS [a HOT TOPIC] [Is the movement that will TAKE OVER 2016?!?]

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I think the idea of monogamy and romance is overly presumptuous and against our very nature as mammals :yeshrug: We aren't meant to mate with one person our entire lifespan. I think Open relationships can work, if you make it about honoring business, she does her part,you do your part, and leave that indoctrinated romance soulmate fantasy somewhere else. You have to separate sex from business. Business is business, the household should be handled most like a business.
it maybe against our nature

but so is killing/hurting another individual to get what you want :ld:
 

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In my personal opinion, an open relationship is just a step or two above fukkbuddy. Call me old fashioned but I only want my girl fukking ME. And if I'm in a relationship I damn sure am not cheating.

However.. love is cursed by monogamy. Our love for someone is often beset by the desire to fukk new meat.
 

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I caught so many negs in this thread...looks like people are mad that I'm happy, loved, and well taken care of.

Stay jealous, I love it!

:blessed:

i bet cho gooflame ass don't get not one place of actual brick and mortar residence.
while you are in your idea of what a open relationship is, tho.

when, i already actually been given a house by a woman and was in a strictly mating capacity and had not seen said woman for a year prior to that.
she showed up an dropped a whole crib.:duck:

now, i don't wanna say shyt about the details of your relationship.
all cause i am not a hater and won't break kayfabe.
to damage the guys situation.
that is how much more experienced i am in this.
yet, i know one thing.
if you ampersand me one more motherfukkin' time with this bullshyt.
you getting that coli screen treatment and you gon learn what and who the fukk i am all over the internet.
so, you can hear me coming without me physically putting my dikk in yo ear, yo little goof ass girl.



fukk'n play if you want.
When, you not knowing.
all i gotta do is reply in smilies and you gon be mad.
like nikkaz who wanna incest their moms following me around .
imma table yo goof ass in long hand and short hand to show you and the forum.
how emotionally damaged, i have made motherfukkers around here.

now, move the fukk around, bytch.


art barr

wtf did you just say to me, old man?
:wtf:


Open relationships aren't healthy, at some point someone catches feelins and what do I look like Netflix and chillin with a broad who is dripping creampie on my carpet from the hood nikka she was just fukkin around with an hour before :pachaha:

I don't fukk other guys when I'm with my man.

Every open relationship is different.

I would love to be able to sleep with other women behind my s/o's without tip toeing, but I have too much pride and am too possessive to willingly share my woman with another man.
Maybe after 10 - 20 years of marriage when she's out of her prime & the relationship has gotten mundane I'd be more open to it.

:manny:

Big up yourself for behaving.



a few months back i met this euro cac chick , she was telling me she was in a open relationship 3 with guys, kept telling me one was "so immature" but kept fuking him, honestly i just smoked her weed , left and never answered her messages :mjlol: fuk i look like b

You look like a guy who smashed a chick that was fukkin 3 other dudes at the same time. It's all good though as long as you were safe about it.

To each his own, and if an open relationship works for you than do ya thang.

However I just can't get down with one. You might catch feelings foe shorty,I could easily fall for ole buddy, not to mention STDS and babies and all that good stuff. Which is what most of the responses in this thread have all had in common but even deeper than that ...


... If I'm in a relationship with someone, it's not just for sex. We're are working toward a future with each other and a commitment between you and I. I would be ALL yours and I can't respect you as a man if you don't mind me giving YOUR p*ssy away every now and again.

The relationship I have with my #1 isn't just about sex.


nikkas out here getting whole cribs as gifts from Jumpoffs :whoo: @Art Barr she got a sister?:feedme:
You actually believe his :duck:?

:heh:


she was an orphan, breh.

she was the teenage chick, in foster care that oprah helped back in the day.
like way before i was even like a ten year old possibly.
she was older than me, and had real estate.


art barr
:duck:

I have no problem with it.

There's really no difference between an open relationship and having a "main chick" with honeys on the side.

Open marriage is different. No woman is going to respect you if you marry her and let her bang dudes on the side. It's not in their mental framework.

She's going to think you are a b**ch, and start to show you disrespect. That's the way they operate, they can't fathom a man being cool with them get plowed by another man.

That's why a marriage with a being caught cheating can potentially be saved, but if the woman is caught the marriage is doomed no matter what he does to salvage it.
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@Slang Dussain Ali is in a successful semi-open marriage and seems very happy

fukk is you talking about? You're a grand idiot.

Don't waste your time with this fool. He's a resident shyt talker around the Coli and normally only talks about jiu jitsu but then jumps out to attack people every now and again.

He's harmless.


Open relationship?:mjlol: That's like trying to find dry water. It's a oxymoron. A relationship isn't exclusive if both people are openly having other people or doing that swinger shiet:dead:.

For me anyways, it's exclusive in the sense that no matter what happens, we love each other and will be there for each other and we have long term plans together.

Oreo. Bisexual.
:patrice:
Why are you so focused on this guy?

If you were getting p*ssy and practicing jiu jitsu, you wouldn't have time to waste insulting random dudes that you will never meet.

:umad:


man if you dont get this cuckold shyt out of here

It's not his fault you can't get a girl let alone a girl who will commit to a relationship. Don't be so jealous. Stay positive and eventually/hopefully the right girl will come your way.
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You look like a guy who smashed a chick that was fukkin 3 other dudes at the same time. It's all good though as long as you were safe about it.

i probably have but some people dont keep that info on the low, a lot of people are letting it be known that they are in open relationships with more than 2 people, i just cant be in that
 

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I caught so many negs in this thread...looks like people are mad that I'm happy, loved, and well taken care of.

Stay jealous, I love it!

:blessed:



wtf did you just say to me, old man?
:wtf:




I don't fukk other guys when I'm with my man.

Every open relationship is different.



Big up yourself for behaving.





You look like a guy who smashed a chick that was fukkin 3 other dudes at the same time. It's all good though as long as you were safe about it.



The relationship I have with my #1 isn't just about sex.



You actually believe his :duck:?

:heh:



:duck:


:duck:
@Slang Dussain Ali is in a successful semi-open marriage and seems very happy



Don't waste your time with this fool. He's a resident shyt talker around the Coli and normally only talks about jiu jitsu but then jumps out to attack people every now and again.

He's harmless.




For me anyways, it's exclusive in the sense that no matter what happens, we love each other and will be there for each other and we have long term plans together.


:patrice:
Why are you so focused on this guy?

If you were getting p*ssy and practicing jiu jitsu, you wouldn't have time to waste insulting random dudes that you will never meet.

:umad:




It's not his fault you can't get a girl let alone a girl who will commit to a relationship. Don't be so jealous. Stay positive and eventually/hopefully the right girl will come your way.
:therethere:
You don't practice jujitsu so you wouldn't know what we do and do not have time for.

You practice whatever it is you practice and multi quote the entire board with responses.

We don't do that over here, where we know Brazilian Jiu-jitsu :camby:
 

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*secretly having a sidechick / sideguy / person on the bench does not constitute as an open relationship :sitdown:

As many of you know, we have several posters on thecoli (who will be tagged below) who are currently in open relationships. I myself noticed that significantly more people are more open to the idea nowadays and some people who call themselves 'poly-amorous' will only function in open relationships. In my city they damn near constitute as the majority of females in my age bracket. Where do you reside? Are you for/against it? What are your experiences with them?:jbhmm:

@Strawberry
I have recently joined the lifestyle :blessed:
shyt is so stress free. No prssure. No headaches. Why did i wait so long? :blessed:
 

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I understand why a female would want a open relationship

But any of you nikkaz out there involved in one you just a cuckold bytch

If you was a real nikka you wouldnt give these sluts the comfort of coming home to you. You wouldnt give these sluts the emotional security they desire

You would simply fukk these sluts and go home to your own home and watch sportscenter

You bytch nikkaz out here funding hoes lifestyle and dont even have exclusivity with the p*ssy

Dont you fukkboys realize the only reason men started funding women in the first place was to have exclusive rights to her p*ssy?

I :salute:the sluts duping you spineless cowards into these open relationships

fukk you cowards who cant just live life fukking hoes without bytch ass open relationship :pacspit:
 

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Be surprised when you catch an STD brehs

I keep seeing mention of stds. In my opinion just a misguided presumption.

Would you think an open relationship is fukking any more people than a single or cheating person? Would the seal method be any different?
 
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