Tenchi Ryu
Ashtray B!tch
This is the most potent breh vs brehette topic we've had in a while....



babysitter, not daycare.
You dated 4 single mothers and they had to come out of their pocket to get someone to watch their kids and put gas in their own car just so they drive all over the city to meet and spend time listening to a nikka spit some tired ass game (no offense) all night for a couple of days/weeks.
I'm sorry but ain't no way in hell i'm about to drive all of my gas out of my car that I need to get back and forth to work with and take my kids over the river and through the woods just to get to their grandmother's house, just so I can entertain a nikka and the motherfukker not have the decency to fill it back up?
Chile boo. I'm too old for those types of games.
If you expected the date to be as bad as you just described it, why would you go on the m date in the first place?
You're right if you think the date is that bad you probably shouldn't leave your children in day care to go to dinner with the guy... It makes no sense doing all that work to be in a place you don't want to be, yet alone have someone else pay for it.
Dates are for two people to get to know each other, but before you go on a date with anyone you should have your life in order.
What I take from what you just wrote is that potentially having a man doesn't interest you at all, conversation doesn't matter , having a good time doesn't matter. You're just looking for captain save em right off the back and the first signs of that is a dude who's gonna buy shyt you should be responsible for yourself. Like I said if you don't want to go on a dateless don't have the means to handle your own business as a woman then your best bet is to not go on the date with the dude at all. 
They don't hear you tho.Following his advice is how you end up fukking yourself, male and female, and eventually wondering why you seem perpetually unhappy with those around you.
If you expected the date to be as bad as you just described it, why would you go on the m date in the first place?
You're right if you think the date is that bad you probably shouldn't leave your children in day care to go to dinner with the guy... It makes no sense doing all that work to be in a place you don't want to be, yet alone have someone else pay for it.
Dates are for two people to get to know each other, but before you go on a date with anyone you should have your life in order.
What I take from what you just wrote is that potentially having a man doesn't interest you at all, conversation doesn't matter , having a good time doesn't matter. You're just looking for captain save em right off the back and the first signs of that is a dude who's gonna buy shyt you should be responsible for yourself. Like I said if you don't want to go on a dateless don't have the means to handle your own business as a woman then your best bet is to not go on the date with the dude at all.
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You're over thinking this. It aint that deep.I'd say trolling is indicative of a problem as well. U could be working out, reading books, applying to enrichment programs or volunteering or otherwise bettering yourself. Have you given up on life /self improvement?
IMO women should be suspicious of a dude who is willing to pull out all stops for women he doesn't know. He is trying to shotgun dirty mack fake nice guy his way to the p*ssy. Any real chick will see that for what it is and move accordingly. These are the actions of a guy who has nothing to offer the dating pool but zero value pandering.
So then the good and responsible father can pay for a babysitter or watch 4 kids while you get your "me time". Or you can explain why its the single guys responsibility.Just because the parents are no longer together romantically doesn't mean the father isn't a good father. All that shouldve couldve wouldve bullshyt is irrelevant after the child has been conceived.
I reiterate, seek help. U could live a full, rewarding life outside of the coli if u work at it. God blessYou're over thinking this. It aint that deep.
I reiterate. It aint that deep. Have a nice day!I reiterate, seek help. U could live a full, rewarding life outside of the coli if u work at it. God bless
babysitter, not daycare.
You dated 4 single mothers and they had to come out of their pocket to get someone to watch their kids and put gas in their own car just so they drive all over the city to meet and spend time listening to a nikka spit some tired ass game (no offense) all night for a couple of days/weeks.
I'm sorry but ain't no way in hell i'm about to drive all of my gas out of my car that I need to get back and forth to work with and take my kids over the river and through the woods just to get to their grandmother's house, just so I can entertain a nikka and the motherfukker not have the decency to fill it back up?
Chile boo. I'm too old for those types of games.

Exactly. That is a man who doesn't value his own time, and nothing is sacred to him. This woman isn't being treated special, she is being checklisted cause the fool doesn't knowIMO women should be suspicious of a dude who is willing to pull out all stops for women he doesn't know. He is trying to shotgun dirty mack fake nice guy his way to the p*ssy. Any real chick will see that for what it is and move accordingly. These are the actions of a guy who has nothing to offer the dating pool but zero value pandering.
how is paying for a babysitter punishment though? if you approached a woman then its up to you, as a man, to make the arrangements for the date down to the T. yall are on some "meet me halfway" type shyt
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you know this sounds absurd. ain't no new nikka gonna pay for your damn kids babysitter. and you're nuts for thinking that that is a prerequisite for taking you out.