The single parent double standard

[Jamal514]

I never got this, how come when women say they don't want to mess with any guy who has kids its ok and no one says shyt. But when a man says he doesn't want to date single moms you got people saying he's not a real man and try to assault his character

And the crazy thing of the people i know that say they wont date a person with kids the vast majority of them are female

The only people saying that are the whores who got knocked up by Qunitavious and lookin for a sucker to help raise their little b*stards.

 

[SuburbanPimp]

I was kind of weird because after college when I was single. I always "dated" chicks with kids. Mainly because I knew they would be occupied most o the time and didn't have time to stalk and follow me around everywhere and plus i always knew where they were.

My wife said she didn't want to date a guy with kids, and then she met me

But honestly, she said she didn't think we would last that long since I had a kid, but once she met my son and say how we interacted, her mind changed.....

Every scenario is different, its okay to have your preferences. But don't be closed minded and end up settling with someone who is cool just because they meet all your "prefered criteria"