The Top 3 Black Pickup Artists

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That's the thing, breh.

There really isn't such a thing as "game". Either you're comfortable in your own skin, or you aren't.

So.................

When these guys take that part of life, study, amplify and apply it, you get this.

I don't see why you guys are mad. It's the same as studying art, psychology, etc.
When applied, you can say it's "confidence in action."

And confidence isn't something alot of people, male and female are born with. It's developed, honed and trained through hobbies, sports, or other activities that require skill to develop success.

I watch alot of RSD, Real Social Dynamics, and those guys learned routines in the beginning, but have since abandoned and broke those down, moving away from routines and study the core, indepth principles behind "confidence", presence, being grounded in your own self-reality.

Same thing your saying, but they go into how to develop these traits, what type of lifestyle creates and supports that confidence.



I was looking at this stuff while getting my life together, after moving out and developing my independence as an adult male.
(I have my priorities, MOB) But the idea is there are things that go on behind the scenes within the man before he can go out picking up.

Again, I think you guys are just seeing the end results of a much larger process. You have to have your mental game together first. IMO at least.
 

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So.................

When these guys take that part of life, study, amplify and apply it, you get this.

I don't see why you guys are mad. It's the same as studying art, psychology, etc.
When applied, you can say it's "confidence in action."

And confidence isn't something alot of people, male and female are born with. It's developed, honed and trained through hobbies, sports, or other activities that require skill to develop success.

I watch alot of RSD, Real Social Dynamics, and those guys learned routines in the beginning, but have since abandoned and broke those down, moving away from routines and study the core, indepth principles behind "confidence", presence, being grounded in your own self-reality.

Same thing your saying, but they go into how to develop these traits, what type of lifestyle creates and supports that confidence.



I was looking at this stuff while getting my life together, after moving out and developing my independence as an adult male.
(I have my priorities, MOB) But the idea is there are things that go on behind the scenes within the man before he can go out picking up.

Again, I think you guys are just seeing the end results of a much larger process. You have to have your mental game together first. IMO at least.


You ever watch Brain Games on Nat Geo channel? Really interesting shyt. Covers a lot of this same stuff. Really helped me understand how people think and how I think.

http://channel.nationalgeographic.com/brain-games/
 

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And!?!?!? So the fukk what?!!?? I swear you fatherless fukkboy fakkits care way too much about your "boys" and who you would hang out with. ARE YOU TRYING TO fukk THE DUDE?!?!?! Then shut the fukk up then!!! Why are y'all shytting all over these dude's game??? Does their success invalidate you or something? Y'all are like a bunch of fukking females talking down on other dudes game. As if all black dudes are suppose to talk, dress, and act the same. Stop trying to marginalize other black men!!! This white supremacist society does that enough. So fukking pathetic, some of you.

Maybe you should re-read my post. I'm on your side, I'm agreeing with everything you just said. That's the whole point, you shouldn't have to look a certain way, be "smooth," or act a certain way to get females. These dudes are trying to provide a blueprint for that.

Calm your silly ass down, stop being so defensive, and pay attention.
 

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:what: What are you a 40 year old house wife? "Be Yourself?"

That advice is meaningless to someone who has been unsuccessful in getting women. Now what?
This. I don't fukk with PUA, but truth of the matter is, being yourself, for some brehs, is a one-way ticket to:
1. Not getting any p*ssy till your thirties
2. All the p*ssy you get are from past-their-prime single mothers and socially awkward chicks.

Brehs don't have to pretend to be someone else, but every man should always try to learn and do new things.
Being you isn't working? Time to transform. It's like when women say be yourself.

"Awwww, someone will be happy to have you one day.":what:

I just had to listen to this chicks dating woes and she gon' gimme this bullshyt?:what::what::what:


Being yourself:camby:We off that. If you weren't getting it before, transform. Winners never settle.
 

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This shyt is utterly wack.

You wanna pick up women? Easy, just be confident.

How do you be confident? Easy, know yourself and love yourself.

How do you do that? Easy, just do some self-empowering shyt every day. Exercise, eat healthy, play music, read something, laugh, etc etc etc.... Don't sit around on the internet jacking off to porn every day. Get out there and make yourself happy, and a woman will be happy to just be around you.

Everything you just said is bullshyt because it's absolutely meaningless to someone who has trouble getting women. Most terrible advice starts out with, "it's easy" or "all you gotta do is..." If it were easy, there wouldn't be so many men having issues with women.

Let me reiterate, what you've said is meaningless.

Kid: Hey Ray Allen, how do I shoot a jump shot?
Ray: It's easy, all you have to do is flick your wrist, line up your elbow, let the ball come off your fingertips...

There are plenty of dudes who are in great shape and can't get a girl to look at 'em, plenty of piano players who can't find common ground with the violinist next to them, plenty of book worms who can't hold a conversation to save their life.

Now what?

Its a spittin game manual for autistic dudes.

Most of these dudes you'll find have problems in all areas of social interaction, not just with women. Most people who have a difficult time with the opposite sex have a difficult time making friends in general. They don't call em forever alone for nothing.

Absolutely. Some people have difficulty with social queues of all types.

I guess these dudes should just be assed out though. :shaq2:
 

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I mean, this is THE LOCKER ROOM

I thought this type of stuff is what we are here to discuss :dahell:

These nikkas are just insecure as fukk and probably jealous.. I mean, this is TheColi after all. Little do they know, everything they are saying to do instead of taking notes from pickup videos, is exactly what these pickup guys emphasize all the time. :lupe: Not even saying that I don't agree that these pickup guys can be kind of weird.. but there is something entertaining about it, as well as gems to be found.. which is enough for me to acknowledge it as a valuable resource :yeshrug:
 

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Everything you just said is bullshyt because it's absolutely meaningless to someone who has trouble getting women. Most terrible advice starts out with, "it's easy" or "all you gotta do is..." If it were easy, there wouldn't be so many men having issues with women.

Let me reiterate, what you've said is meaningless.

Kid: Hey Ray Allen, how do I shoot a jump shot?
Ray: It's easy, all you have to do is flick your wrist, line up your elbow, let the ball come off your fingertips...

There are plenty of dudes who are in great shape and can't get a girl to look at 'em, plenty of piano players who can't find common ground with the violinist next to them, plenty of book worms who can't hold a conversation to save their life.

Now what?



Absolutely. Some people have difficulty with social queues of all types.

I guess these dudes should just be assed out though. :shaq2:

It is easy, but for the illiterate among us (:mjlol:) that's why I gave step by step instructions.

Easy, just do some self-empowering shyt every day. Exercise, eat healthy, play music, read something, laugh, etc etc etc.... Don't sit around on the internet jacking off to porn every day. Get out there and make yourself happy, and a woman will be happy to just be around you.

Like I said, it all comes down to you doing shyt that makes you happy first. If that's not easy for you aka there's nothing in the world that makes you happy... well... then you need more help than I can provide. :francis:
 

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It is easy, but for the illiterate among us (:mjlol:) that's why I gave step by step instructions.



Like I said, it all comes down to you doing shyt that makes you happy first. If that's not easy for you aka there's nothing in the world that makes you happy... well... then you need more help than I can provide. :francis:

Dumbest platitudes I've ever heard. The vague "advice" you're giving is exactly what causes people to seek out pick-up artists.

A bunch of meaningless statements with no actionable advice to go with them (because, well, they are meaningless to begin with). :skip:

Hey fellas, go out there and be happy, it's easy. :dahell:
 
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