The Top 3 Black Pickup Artists

[TELL ME YA CHEESIN FAM?]

Only thing that will get u results is pivoting and peacockin'...but thats how Natural selection works

 

[BaldingSoHard]

As are you. The point is, if you ask someone who is skilled at something for advice, they should have more to say than, "it's easy."

Oh.

My bad.

Next time, I'll try to give step by step examples and point out ways one can achieve it.

Kinda like in my op.

 

[Kid McNamara]

Therapy, not game, is what these individuals need. PUA perpetuates unhealthy ideas about women which ultimately exacerbate the problems their target male audience has.

If done properly, game is therapy, and it's more powerful than sitting on a couch. Provides real and immediate feedback, forces dudes to really look at themselves.

None of it addresses the symptoms of why someone finds it difficult to make genuine connections with others much less the opposite sex. And it won't b/c doing so takes real courage and introspection and it isn't as simple as merely attending a seminar.

Ah ok, see I think the concept of "game" has evolved from going to Mystery, Style, and Tyler Durden workshops and running from club to club hoping to pick up women. That's certainly a part of it, but a lot of the legit dudes are more focused on developing guys as better men.

1. Why am I uncomfortable interacting with others?

2. What is the true source of my anxiety when it comes to women?

3. Am I aware of women who are attracted to me? Do I think I am better or worse than these women?

4. Can I relate to women as human beings or do I see them merely as sexual objects? Do I become angry or resentful when they happen to act outside of my own desires and expectations of them?

5. What ideas do I have about women? Have real life experiences shaped these ideas? How much actual interaction have I had with women in my life? (I find that a lot men who complain the most about women actually don't have any meaningful experience with them. A lot is just hearsay from others. Same for women with similar outlooks on men.)

6. Do I enjoy life and live it to the fullest? Am I enjoyable to be around? Does pursuit of women take up a huge portion of my life?

7. When I see others in relationships do I try to justify why they are together?

8. Why do I believe I am not successful with the opposite sex? Is it women's fault or my own?

9. How often do I interact with others offline? How many hours do I spend daily online or on some other form of media?

10. What do I believe are the most important factors when it comes to attracting women?

11. What type of woman do I want to attract and what are my intentions?

12. What do I have to offer others who I want to interact with?

Yea, so, basically this is what I mean by game. And there are certain cats who actually focus on this stuff.

Good Looking Loser, Mark Manson, Newer RSD stuff, Beige Phillip (Dante Nero by way of Patrice O'Neal), and so on. All these dudes focus on personal development and allowing yourself to be broken down in order to become stronger. A lot of 'em straight up preach that "learning game" will force guys to face their worst fears and overcome their worst issues.

We on the same page.

I agree with most of what you posted, but a lot of guys don't know how to break that down and figure it out (it's not easy), then go about making the proper improvements to themselves. I think traditional PUA stuff can provide a bridge and some easy to get into techniques until guys really begin to understand it on another level.

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

PUAs are wack. Just be ya self. No need to come up with routines to get women.

Being yourself is REALLY bad advice for like 70% of people

 

[Kid McNamara]

Oh.

My bad.

Next time, I'll try to give step by step examples and point out ways one can achieve it.

Kinda like in my op.

Yea, but you didn't. "Be confident by being happy" is not good advice, it's the same shyt dudes have heard since they were youngins.

There is way more to it, but hey, as long as you happy then I'm happy.

Spoiler

Even if you just hate my fukking guts go head and dap me, cause I'mma dap you anyway and then go home and pray for your ass later.

 

[hood b. goode]

Being yourself is REALLY bad advice for like 70% of people

lol yeah thats the heart of the matter

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

Deep. That's why they have coaches.

It's more about learning how to be a man than just picking up women when you get into the deeper stuff behind these results.

One video was speaking of how when a man is younger he has to come out of the XX chromosome thinking (receiving) and take on the Y chromosome (providing) stance.

It's deeper than rap, brehette.

shyt like this would have helped this herb:

Don't sleep on how effective and crucial this shyt is.

Dudes are suffering out here.

 

[Blackrogue]

So with the right "routine" Gabby Sidebe or Whoopi Goldberg can "game" you?

I'm not going to go back and forth on this with the extra hypotheticals. I'm simply saying there's a lot of garbage in the community but if you are smart you can pick up on a lot. Don't be a follower. Try things and apply them to yourself. As long as it works for you who cares if it's not working for the ugliest person.

What I learnt and I don't apply as much of what they talk about but beginning to see new nuances now has helped. You can go on disbelieving but I'm speaking on experience verses speculation. I'm not going to repeatedly hammer the same idea if you are stubborn, refuse to listen and want to argue for the sake of arguing.

@MUNGU I think the peacocking they do is overdone but you can take the same concept and apply it in subtler ways. Eg I used to have these black bead chains. Women used to always want to touch it and wear it. Women I didn't know. It was an easy way for them to open me and start a conversation with me. Most who did I found to be interested in me. I wouldn't say it but I kept that possibility in my head as we interacted. They'd have my chain on and walk around the club and I guess they call that anchoring. I see other people do similar things. like a female wears dudes hat or bracelet or jacket. So the whole time other dudes are wondering who's shyt that is and how he got that in. ( I've just remembered rap quote flyest chick in the game wearing my chain -so concept is applied in many ways)

A lot of the stuff is subtleties and balance. How much and what to apply depending on the person. Like negs work but don't be mistaken thinking you should apply them to everyone. It's really a playbook for a qb. You read the situation and figure out what play to run and progressions and covers.

 

[Prynce]

Being yourself is REALLY bad advice for like 70% of people

 

[philmonroe]

It's corny to master the art of getting any p*ssy you want?

You can't get any p*ssy you want. Can't believe nikkas really believe this shyt

 

[AITheAnswerAI]

once again coli hates what it doesnt understand
In the same way not everybody is cut out to be a car salesman,

some dudes dont have that innate understanding of how to confidently sell themselves to women.

This is where you're going wrong.

You don't sell yourself to women, that indicates low self esteem and women pick up on that.

Stop putting the p*ssy on a pedestal.

 

[philmonroe]

once again coli hates what it doesnt understand
In the same way not everybody is cut out to be a car salesman,

some dudes dont have that innate understanding of how to confidently sell themselves to women.

Its not bold they know the truth about themselves they don't got shyt to confidently sell. People can be anything online but in real life that 6 certs 6 feet life dudes be kicking if they not that IRL they don't feel as confident esp if you're an older dude. That's the real because otherwise if you just talk to girls some going to like you some not its not much more simpler than that.

 

[philmonroe]

This is where you're going wrong.

You don't sell yourself to women, that indicates low self esteem and women pick up on that.

Stop putting the p*ssy on a pedestal.

Everybody sells theirselves to the opposite sex in some way my dude. Only people that might not have to do so is famous people cause people already know what they have to offer at least from a $$$ and status pov at least.

 

[AITheAnswerAI]

Everybody sells theirselves to the opposite sex in some way my dude. Only people that might not have to do so is famous people cause people already know what they have to offer at least from a $$$ and status pov at least.

In a subtle way, sure. However, women can pick up on that insecurity of you trying to prove your worth to her. That shyt gives her the upper hand and it's a turn off. You're trying too hard.

If you start trying to list off your positive attributes to a girl, or do things to blatantly show off, it's corny.

This is why people always mention confidence, if you're really confident, then you won't have that insecurity.

 

[Kid McNamara]

This is where you're going wrong.

You don't sell yourself to women, that indicates low self esteem and women pick up on that.

Stop putting the p*ssy on a pedestal.

Everything is sales. Anytime you're presenting yourself a certain way to achieve a result, you're selling.

Getting into college is sales, getting a job is sales, friendships, women, all that...sales.