My momma always told me to get in where you fit in.
Yup.
Do you and find happiness, and tell the smart assess and negative people to kick rocks.
The Top Twelve Reasons Why So Many Good Black Men Are Still Single
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Yup.
Do you and find happiness, and tell the smart assess and negative people to kick rocks.
Grams
Grams Grands Gucci G'd Up
If there's a thread whining about women, you in there whining about the men. But iggghhhhhht
I agree though about the woe is me shyt
I swear, anybody can make a list and somebody will take it seriously.
Lord_Chief_Rocka
Superstar
Tbh I think most men are single b/c they want to be 
The Maverick
Rookie and the vet.
Brehs need to start taking more responsibility for their lot in life. This list is trash. 
Taadow
The StarchBishop™️
Most men don't want relationships.
We want to fukk, be fed and for her to shut the fukk up.
Problem is most simps are too afraid to articulate those things.
In-demand nikkas don't have to use a relationship to get their needs met.
In-demand Black men literally have a roster of women willing to meet our needs at the drop of a hat.
fukk we look like giving our commitment to one woman when we can enjoy the fruits of many?
Black women frown upon the idea of polygamy, but many of them are willingly engaging in a de facto form of it when it comes to the men they pursue.
We want to fukk, be fed and for her to shut the fukk up.
Problem is most simps are too afraid to articulate those things.
In-demand nikkas don't have to use a relationship to get their needs met.
In-demand Black men literally have a roster of women willing to meet our needs at the drop of a hat.
fukk we look like giving our commitment to one woman when we can enjoy the fruits of many?
Black women frown upon the idea of polygamy, but many of them are willingly engaging in a de facto form of it when it comes to the men they pursue.
A Woman's Opinion
All Star
So basically... It's all black women's fault. Again.
No fault on the black man.
#Delusional
No fault on the black man.
#Delusional
He's constantly on here bragging about that pan faced hoe.
Any reason to avoid inconvenient truths is good enough for the intellectual coward
Every problem in your life is someone else's fault and any talk of personal responsibility for you is to be curved
The TLR way
feelosofer
#ninergang
Wow this list seems kinda harsh on women, not that it's not true at times, but I will add some others that are not so hard on women.
1. Sometimes the area you live in just doesn't have a lot of Black women, some places especially in the midwest or south do not have diverse populations and there just may be a dearth of Black women. Some men date/marry out, some move, but some don't have that option.
2. Broke. I hate to say this but most Black men make less than 35k a year, Black woman's median income is less than that but not by lot that being said dating requires disposable income something not every man has, especially when paying for dates (initially) is on the onus of the man. Also he may not live on his own or with his parents which could limit his dating pool.
3.Let's be honest sometimes us men have too high of an expectation in a mate ourselves. We want a woman with 36DD 40 inch azz slim waist, flawless skin and a women who cooks cleans, a slut in bed but a lady in all other situations, and a women that is low maintenance too. That being said men are a lot more flexible and willing to compromise at an earlier age.
4. Most successful Black men with no kids can play the field, and will choose to. The ones that can afford it.
5. In an inverse of #6 women with money don't have to cater us, and without some us using money as a form of control, we have to deal with women on a person to person basis, which is not easy.
6. We sometimes focus too much on what attracts women enough and not enough on self improvement.
7. We have been hurt so badly by past relationships or done dirty that we are scared to give our heart out to someone else.
But like I have said there are plenty of good Black men and women out there are but sometimes we have to relax and be patient.
1. Sometimes the area you live in just doesn't have a lot of Black women, some places especially in the midwest or south do not have diverse populations and there just may be a dearth of Black women. Some men date/marry out, some move, but some don't have that option.
2. Broke. I hate to say this but most Black men make less than 35k a year, Black woman's median income is less than that but not by lot that being said dating requires disposable income something not every man has, especially when paying for dates (initially) is on the onus of the man. Also he may not live on his own or with his parents which could limit his dating pool.
3.Let's be honest sometimes us men have too high of an expectation in a mate ourselves. We want a woman with 36DD 40 inch azz slim waist, flawless skin and a women who cooks cleans, a slut in bed but a lady in all other situations, and a women that is low maintenance too. That being said men are a lot more flexible and willing to compromise at an earlier age.
4. Most successful Black men with no kids can play the field, and will choose to. The ones that can afford it.
5. In an inverse of #6 women with money don't have to cater us, and without some us using money as a form of control, we have to deal with women on a person to person basis, which is not easy.
6. We sometimes focus too much on what attracts women enough and not enough on self improvement.
7. We have been hurt so badly by past relationships or done dirty that we are scared to give our heart out to someone else.
But like I have said there are plenty of good Black men and women out there are but sometimes we have to relax and be patient.
Reality
Make your own luck.
bullshyt. men are attracted to the physical and can let that dominate their decisions, but at the end of the day most dudes want a quality woman.Women don't want good men and men don't want good women.
It comes down to having lots of options too. Most black dudes I know making over 75K have little reason to settle down. Why not just continue to play the field for as long as you can?