The Top Twelve Reasons Why So Many Good Black Men Are Still Single

[BigMan]

What's a "good black man"??

@the ladies inquiring minds want to know

 

[chkmeout]

so the nikka is just supposed to be a hermit until then?

Nope. Bruh got to eat and live, unfortunate if it ain't black especially if they're successful.

They just gettin it how they live

Hard to argue that. "They weren't looking for me" "when I was struggling, only ling lee was there for me" "she doesn't seem interested, she bored"

Who's fault is that?

Regardless of ur thoughts on race, you are HUMAN.....before you are black.
Humans are attracted to other humans regardless of color.

I guess...

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Post sounds personal; Did a no good ass black man nikka do you wrong, gurl

?

Not at all. Just wondering when dudes are gonna stop complaining and start making changes. If brehs made 1% of the effort they do in writing manifestos and making lists of reasons why women "unfairly" dont choose them as they did actually going out, getting their shyt together and interacting with women.... well, the dudes doing that are the ones whiny ass dudes call "thugs" and "a$$holes".

 

[tater]

Black women are attracted to me cause im a handsome lightskinned nikka.

then they find out that i dont act like black stereotypes say i should act, instant turn off.

nothing drys black p*ssy faster than a non ignorant black dude.


i still try to only mess with black women but id be lying if i said these other races of women didnt want me more than the average black girl.

 

[-----]

13. They don't live in Atlanta.

 

[newworldafro]

Polygamy wasn't on the list

 

[kav45]

I HATE that logic...


And you are a poster I respect so don't take this the wrong way, but there are GOOD Black women out their that want GOOD black men. I REFUSE to subscribe to the bullshyt theory that black males are being forced to date outside of the race because they can't find suitable black women, I view that as an excuse....

didnt u divorce your wife?

 

[chkmeout]

Not at all. Just wondering when dudes are gonna stop complaining and start making changes. If brehs made 1% of the effort they do in writing manifestos and making lists of reasons why women "unfairly" dont choose them as they did actually going out, getting their shyt together and interacting with women.... well, the dudes doing that are the ones whiny ass dudes call "thugs" and "a$$holes".

Your wife ain't black correct?

 

[MrFettuccinnePockets]

Thread bout to do "Get Rich or Die Trying" numbers

 

[Raava]

Once again, it's all our fault

 

[chkmeout]

I consider myself a decent black man. I never really had trouble with women during college and now afterwards, they may not have always been black though, just saying

Like I said in the other topic I wouldn't consider myself the media presented stereotypical thug black male, but I'm not a super cornball either. I'm somewhere in the middle and I'd be lying if I said in my lifetime I didn't get the most play from women of different races or mixed girls.

I like black women and have/will date them, but the other groups have always shown me more play, idk

If I'm not mistaken riff is coming out of Houston, so for damn sure there are truths to his post. Something is up with black chicks out here

 

[tater]

If I'm not mistaken riff is coming out of Houston, so for damn sure there are truths to his post. Something is up with black chicks out here

Oh that's my fault, I didn't mean to quote him...

Black women are attracted to me cause im a handsome lightskinned nikka.

then they find out that i dont act like black stereotypes say i should act, instant turn off.

nothing drys black p*ssy faster than a non ignorant black dude.


i still try to only mess with black women but id be lying if i said these other races of women didnt want me more than the average black girl.

This guy...

 

[O.T.I.S.]

I consider myself a decent black man. I never really had trouble with women during college and now afterwards, they may not have always been black though, just saying

Like I said in the other topic I wouldn't consider myself the media presented stereotypical thug black male, but I'm not a super cornball either. I'm somewhere in the middle and I'd be lying if I said in my lifetime I didn't get the most play from women of different races or mixed girls.

I like black women and have/will date them, but the other groups have always shown me more play, idk

Same here...

and i do agree with SOME of the list as well... (1,2,5,7,8,9,10)

 

[42 Monks]

I agree with most of the back half of the list. And I'll even say that I'm single by choice - but the reason behind that shyt is that I'm simply burnt out I don't feel like chasing anybody anymore. Fortunately, I know how to have fun by myself and have plenty of "me" to work on as well.

Some of that shyt does tire you out like nothing else though Almost wish I got into a long-term relationship earlier in life just so I could skip on this dating bullshyt altogether.

 

[Barnett114]

A good black man will always have options may not be black though