The Undisputable REAL reason why there's so many deadbeat fathers and single mothers in the hood

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Then why have a child with her and lock your self to her for a minimum of 18 years?



The "why" is not the issue, the "what" be.



A nikka cant stomach the fact that another nikka he know fukked his bytch. shyt like that will turn a Man's heart cold. So cold that he'd rather pay Child Support or skip out on the Child just so he won't have to deal with the "embarrassment"/"shame" Everytime he looks into his Child's eyes or his Baby Mother's face
 

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or because nikkaz just run up in chicks raw...and chicks dont get plan B or make the no good nikka wear a condom. So even before the child is born, the father doesnt want anything to do with the kid, so the child has to suffer. Child grows up in a household and doesnt learn what a real relationship looks like and repeats the same cycle.

And we have a winner!!!

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The "why" is not the issue, the "what" be.



A nikka cant stomach the fact that another nikka he know fukked his bytch. shyt like that will turn a Man's heart cold. So cold that he'd rather pay Child Support or skip out on the Child just so he won't have to deal with the "embarrassment"/"shame" Everytime he looks into his Child's eyes or his Baby Mother's face
That doesn't make sense. He can't handle it so he decides to become deeper involved?

That's just not logical
 

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And we have a winner!!!

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That's not usually true tho and why you would believe that a nikka just wanna be lazy for literally no reason is troubling :francis:



Most people's lives aren't so "cut n dry" or "black and white" or whatever analogy/metaphor that you wanna use. There's usually a dynamic there that got them in a particular situation in the first place



The dynamic in this case is just this
 

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"Join the brotherhood of Comic Books". "Read my reviews, Comics in Color" :mjlol::mjlol:



ive actually done no such thing as far as trying to bully you and the fact that you said that says alot about yourself :jbhmm:



You've been fakin since yesterday, all over a 15 Year Old Girl at that.




Pac was right. "nikkaz love to scream Peace after they start some shyt".
You don't read so well do you? The Brotherhood isn't about, comic books. But that does not matter. You'll believe what you want. I want no peace with delusion. You can have all of that. I'm just making you aware that making fun of someone for liking comics is in itself juvenile. But you'll switch this up on some "bbbb-but yesterday..." you don't have truth cause if you did you'd be helping people with it instead of looking for praise for it. Which is exactly what this thread is....some poor attempt at superiority and one ups manship and I'm not the only one who sees it.
 

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Thread is basically saying that dudes aren't gonna link up heavy with some female they know is leftovers. Especially if they know the dudes who nibbled before.

Not a complete lie when you stop and think about it. Not sure why some of you are going at him so hard.

Chick in question will just become a miserable Jesus Is My Man type female who still hoe around anyway. I knew and know the type.
 

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That doesn't make sense. He can't handle it so he decides to become deeper involved?

That's just not logical


What I wrote is actually the opposite. I said that he leaves the child Fatherless, not build a stronger bond with it
 

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That's not usually true tho and why you would believe that a nikka just wanna be lazy for literally no reason is troubling :francis:



Most people's lives aren't so "cut n dry" or "black and white" or whatever analogy/metaphor that you wanna use. There's usually a dynamic there that got them in a particular situation in the first place



The dynamic in this case is just this

Bruh, while I understand your line of though, you better come to the realization that your girl has fukked someone else. Still doesn't take away from the fact a lot of nikkaz and broads don't know what a real healthy relationship is coming from single parents households. There's nothing to guide them or show them the way so their current state of what they grew up in continues to repeat itself.
 

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You don't read so well do you? The Brotherhood isn't about, comic books. But that does not matter. You'll believe what you want. I want no peace with delusion. You can have all of that. I'm just making you aware that making fun of someone for liking comics is in itself juvenile. But you'll switch this up on some "bbbb-but yesterday..." you don't have truth cause if you did you'd be helping people with it instead of looking for praise for it. Which is exactly what this thread is....some poor attempt at superiority and one ups manship and I'm not the only one who sees it.



I'm not trying to be "superior" at anything, that's just my Alpha-Male aura coming off at'chu.




And I'm sorry, but Comic Book stanning is juvenile. But I'm only laughing at you for it bekuz you came at me first.


Low-key I was hoping that the Brotherhood Of Comic Cons would come in here and save you so I could embarrass all of you nikkaz.
 

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What I wrote is actually the opposite. I said that he leaves the child Fatherless, not build a stronger bond with it
That's my point, the creation of the child in the first place.

So the guy is involved with a chick he is essentially ashamed of yet he creates a bond with her that actually plays right into his insecurities.

I don't see the logic.
 

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I'm not trying to be "superior" at anything, that's just my Alpha-Male aura coming off at'chu.




And I'm sorry, but Comic Book stanning is juvenile. But I'm only laughing at you for it bekuz you came at me first.


Low-key I was hoping that the Brotherhood Of Comic Cons would come in here and save you so I could embarrass all of you nikkaz.
You know what, I just realized you can't read. And that's probably why you don't like comics. I get it now. Say no more breh. I'll get you some books on tape.
 

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Bruh, while I understand your line of though, you better come to the realization that your girl has fukked someone else. Still doesn't take away from the fact a lot of nikkaz and broads don't know what a real healthy relationship is coming from single parents households. There's nothing to guide them or show them the way so their current state of what they grew up in continues to repeat itself.


Maybe, maybe not on that last part.



But my thing is, how did it get that way. What were the obstacles besides Mass Incarceration, Government sponsored Drug Shipments, and certain Entertainers that caused it.


Bekuz from what I've found and almost experienced is that that's usually the dynamic.


Son-Son knows Marcel from 28th bekuz they had a class together. And both of them know Tajuana from 21st bekuz they both be lustin after her and she be lustin after them.

Both dudes end up smashin within a year or two of each other. Regardless if they knew about beforehand or not.

Marcel finds out that he's the Father and somehow someway if he didn't already know Son-Son hit. As soon as he finds out, now there's doubt in his mind. And by the time all of the Paperwork rolls in or whatever, he's done moved on.








It's really that simple. Most dudes ain't like "yeah I got a baby on the way, ima dodge this one". That's just a myth
 

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That's my point, the creation of the child in the first place.

So the guy is involved with a chick he is essentially ashamed of yet he creates a bond with her that actually plays right into his insecurities.

I don't see the logic.


Most of the time when you're young and a baby is born it "usually" wasn't intentional.

And when you gettin p*ssy. Alotta times child birth isn't really a thought until you get that Phone Call.
 
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