The Vanishing Family: Crisis in Black America (1986)

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Darren was an 18 year old HS dropout who lived at home with his mama. He had no job and was a murder suspect at one point. It's clear he wasn't fit to be a parent. It's clear his mind wasn't evolved enough to function in society.

Yet, Clarenda gave birth to one of his children because she liked his legs and got knocked up by him a second time, after he'd demonstrated an inability to take care of the first.

Black men hold Black men accountable all the time.

It's the Black woman who needs to do likewise.


fukk you mean "it's clear"...Both of those individuals weren't capable of making proper adult decisions...
Clarenda was a 15 year old girl who was raised by a woman who had her at 15....Abnormal was her normal...
fukk out of here trying to blame all Black women for the idiocy of a 15 year old child...

I swear I wish I was off 30s
 

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a big percentage of black folks must deep down even though they wont admit enjoy poverty and take pride in the "struggle" as poor ppl like to say hence the lack of real urgency to Rise From Lower Rungs of society economically unfortunately
 

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I didn't know people you occasionally catch up with are considered friends. Plus I could care less if someone is a loser, as long as I'm not. Keep being bytchmade,ho.
I never said that but use whatever you want to feel better. You are you hang around them and know them bytch. Nobody grilling no chick about waiting to have a kid until see ready unless its low life's period fukk everything else you talking about. Maybe that's the only way you can get money so they maybe another way but regardless your circle janky bytch so bytchmade that ho.
 

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That's the truth even today...

But nikkas will continue to make excuses....

Listening to sharpton down to the preachers blaming everyone else except for blaming the black women with there choices and black men who scared of responsibility...

shyt is getting worst especially with welfare
 
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Yet I'm seen as weird and stuck-up for wanting to wait until I'm married(or wealthy) to have kids.

Why lie for

You're seen as a weirdo because you have awfully shyt expectations
(such as your little erm bf having to propose within a year of dating)

Liars catch the neg
 

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Moyers: Would you have had these (six) kids if you'd thought about it in advance? :ld:

Timothy: No

Moyers: All were an accident

Timothy: Yeah, you can say that. :francis:

Imagine being one of that nikkas seeds and watching this video!
This would be hilarious if it weren't so sad.


Black people, RAISE YOUR fukkING KIDS!!!
 

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fukk you mean "it's clear"...Both of those individuals weren't capable of making proper adult decisions...
Clarenda was a 15 year old girl who was raised by a woman who had her at 15....Abnormal was her normal...
fukk out of here trying to blame all Black women for the idiocy of a 15 year old child...

I swear I wish I was off 30s
The problem is that there are far too many of these "15 year old children making poor decisions" in the black community. The dumb men are usually thrown in jail around this time, forever destined to be a slave in the Presidential industrial complex, while the women are left to procreate with as many micsreants as possilbe. Its sad and a HUGE reason for the dysfunction in the black community, whether you want to believe it or not.
 

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The problem is that there are far too many of these "15 year old children making poor decisions" in the black community. The dumb men are usually thrown in jail around this time, forever destined to be a slave in the Presidential industrial complex, while the women are left to procreate with as many micsreants as possilbe. Its sad and a HUGE reason for the dysfunction in the black community, whether you want to believe it or not.

What does any of this have to do with developed minds? Mamba was trying to conclude that Black women as a whole possess brains that are undeveloped because those in the lowest economic rungs of our community are socially conditioned to fail...

If we want to address the impact of poverty and racism on our community, lets do it... I am down for healthy conversations on those issues... Don't try to diminish a Black woman's importance and intelligence by dismissively stating we are underdeveloped... no one is hearing that bullshyt
 
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