RickyDiBiase
aka Hash Brown Hands
Just to re-inforce why they don't date/mess with black women. Them divestors scallywags do the same shyt with black men. It's obvious after awhile
“The Weakest Men Become Step Fathers.”
- Thread starter ThrobbingHood
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Just to re-inforce why they don't date/mess with black women. Them divestors scallywags do the same shyt with black men. It's obvious after awhile
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I believe anyone that says that never had a father that was in their life.
Everyone deserves the love and support from both parents
Everyone deserves the love and support from both parents
Biblical Goon
Banned
I’m will to bet my life savings that the people saying this was raised by a step father lol
I have a Child and wifed a chick with a kid a few years ago. Definitely not the same at all
I personally felt that was below my pay grade, but to each his own. I ain't no sucka
she was beautiful tho
Rev Leon Lonnie Love
damned mine eyes, DAMNED mine eyes!!
Contemplated it before, but ultimately @CouldntBeMeTho . She gotta find a way to work it out with the daddy... 
Ozymandeas
Veteran
at raising some other man's kids only for them to turn 20 and tell you you not their dad and to STFU 
O.T.I.S.
The Monk & The Mercenary
You mean its not the same for a man than a woman in regards to dating someone with kids?I have a Child and wifed a chick with a kid a few years ago. Definitely not the same at all
I personally felt that was below my pay grade, but to each his own. I ain't no sucka
I never said it was though, I said at least they have something in common. Like women don't deal with baby momma bullshyt either
Na, I'm saying whether the man had kids of his own or not.. dating a single mother is still the same. Because in most cases the man is dependant free.
People that try and split it like "it's okay I have kids too" are lying to themselves
Peruvian Connect
Superstar
Cuz biological kids don't grow up to be ingrates.
Agreed...aint no one turning it down if its there
But that R&B, 90s style tender love, that old-school romance? That shyt long gone bruh...in the age of social media everyone wants to do the least and get the most
Ozymandeas
Veteran
Having absolute domain in your household >>> Having a kid that's not yours and his momma questioning your authority because you're not the dad
O.T.I.S.
The Monk & The Mercenary
Yeah but technically you're a parent… and single.
But I get what you mean. Most men not walking around their kids all day like the mother… unfortunately. Men supposed to be busy but some of this shyt be on females too.
Basically, logically speaking, a single man without ANY kids shouldn't be getting with single mothers in general but life doesn't work that way.
I dont think step-fathers are simps but you must be really desperate or really into the chick (vice versa) and the family dynamic works. Kids REALLY got to rock with you though. Still no guarantee but wont work otherwise long term. Those aint shyt women really feel and act that way sometimes.
Now I have seen it work before..
Peruvian Connect
Superstar
Cuz wives don't challenge husbands about the rearing of their biological kids.....
Ngl I view the men that do it as desperate with no options.
No man gns chose a woman with kids over a woman with no kids.
Tell the truth, the same single.mother wouldn't even tell her son to do that dumb shyt if she was honest with herself.
The Kids will never rock with you unless their fathers dead
Peruvian Connect
Superstar
False.
False
True. I know a woman like that. She got total disdain for single moms and men who dates them despite being one. The weirdest shiit I ever saw. Persona;;y I beive she hung up on the baby daddy and don't want to give no one else a realistic chance.
