The whole GMB thing is ridiculous

[ThaRealness]

Yeah, Im not going to go so far as to call it "toxic"... but monogamy is definitely a pure form of happiness. Ive seen it work properly.

My lil bro only been with one woman ever. He is still with his girlfriend from high school. Hes 25.

The whole gender wars, never-trust-a-woman bullshyt never resonated with him. And he's happy

 

[ThaRealness]

What do men get from marriage serious question...
Especially a man who is not afraid of being alone

Being alone isn't that great, dude. Truly being alone. Thats not something to play with. I could glorify it in the past...

Yeah, that's unbelievably toxic. That's black mamba venom.

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

What?

Because the stats say so breh and the marrying the wrong person copout is just nonsense.

The stats say that marrying the 'wrong person' isn't nonsense. What is meant by 'wrong', however is dependent on many factors: age, employment, education, upbringing, etc. The bigger the disparities a couple has in those areas with one-another and their sphere of influence, the more likely their marriage will fail. That's why a pair of high-school dropouts don't usually last more than 5 years while a couple that possess an Associate's or better is usually united in-excess of 30 years......

Marriage and divorce: patterns by gender, race, and educational attainment : Monthly Labor Review: U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics​

 

[International Playa]

listen breh. I'm a black man that have had extremely well off women in china, canada, LA, and even here in the Philippines (1 lawyer and 2 real estate agents with cars and bigger homes than you and me)

It just aint for me? ask around town, there's people that know me in person here. One of my exes who used to cry for me is with a big time chinese tyc00n who controls a lot of real estate in china. some are hilarious and very beautiful but.....

guess what? I'm still GMB.

its funny cause I ask you goofies why you want me to be married so bad...and never seem to get an answer.

Successful black marriages leads to having healthy successful black families that will lead to successful black communities & black legacies.

To build successful communities,it starts with the family first. It's not a coincidence that the black family unit is in shyt same as the black community. It's all intertwined

Why do you think the slave owners were so adamant on destroying the black family? It would destroy the chance of a successful black communities

 

[Tommy Knocks]

Successful black marriages leads to having healthy successful black families that will lead to successful black communities & black legacies.

To build successful communities,it starts with the family first. It's not a coincidence that the black family unit is in shyt same as the black community. It's all intertwined

That sounds like something you should work on then

again, what does that have to do with me. I have claimed to be a renegade and a vagrant through and through since the beginning

you do you, i do me. and thats just how it is.

 

[number21]

..

Utter nonsense. Don't quote me again.

 

[HARLEM AL]

These nikkas think women like that shyt. They even know he on some superman shyt. Women love men who speak their mind and stick to it. A lot of them are envious of single dudes. Your ability to move around and not placate to anyone(especially those with a vigina) despite their harsh criticisms is a admirable and a turn on to some.

 

[HARLEM AL]

Yeah, Im not going to go so far as to call it "toxic"... but monogamy is definitely a pure form of happiness. Ive seen it work properly.

My lil bro only been with one woman ever. He is still with his girlfriend from high school. Hes 25.

The whole gender wars, never-trust-a-woman bullshyt never resonated with him. And he's happy

How old is she?

 

[Mensch Fontana]

they ain't telling y'all to not get married....
#gmb

 

[ThaRealness]

How old is she?

25

 

[Jigganaut]

It was a compliment

Sorry

 

[HARLEM AL]

25

Are they married, Do they have a kid together.

I asked this because most women change after a certain age. If they didn't grow up in a stable home they don't know what stability is. If they don't thy get "Bored". so i'm assuming(and Hoping) she had a strong man around her.

 

[rbksNgirbauds]

Oh I know how deep it is, I used to be a jehovahs witness so don't make me go theology on your ass. religion is a rabbit whole, not my belief.

pull yourself out of it before its too late.

Oh I kno it does, that’s why I don’t adhere to any of them....their rooted in the same wickedness as wateva pantheistic gods u prescribe to...they’re all in veneration of the same few characters alluded to in the scriptures. Each god is really just a different manifestation/characteristic of, in some cases, one person

Get off that while u can my man

 

[Youseenmywork]

Yeah, Im not going to go so far as to call it "toxic"... but monogamy is definitely a pure form of happiness. Ive seen it work properly.

My lil bro only been with one woman ever. He is still with his girlfriend from high school. Hes 25.

The whole gender wars, never-trust-a-woman bullshyt never resonated with him. And he's happy

The only way he is going to know if that women's loves him or not is to leave . She could be with him just out of habit . As fukked as it sounds you don't know a black women love you until you leave a couple of times . You know a women's loves by what she is willing to SACRIFICE for you ....

 

[THE MACHINE]

Your entire posts hinges on this idea that men don't "try" when most us are atleast 25 years old with a few relationships under our belts.

Men, for the most part, aren't Don Juan's putting women up and down like Lays.

So, you're outlook is null because it's narrow minded and baseless.

This is a website where people let off steam.

This is the Locker Room buddy. I don't get expecting a bunch of men in 2020 to fantasize about marriage

Where do you get the notion that I dont think men try? Im saying that commitment needs to be both ways. I responded to a post saying "women arent trained to be wives" I dont disagree but brothas are to blame in instances too

All I advocate is if two people are in love and committed, make the ultimate commitment to each other and the family and get married. And nobody should get married if there are alarming red flags. I get this is a mostly bachelor site but im just offering a different perspective. Marriage isnt all doom and gloom.

Is that some crazy idea?