i hear this a lot, as a way of trying to guilt black men out of being colorist, or to shame them for perpetuating white supremacy against their female counterparts. And it's become clear to me that collectively, black men don't value their mothers. So can we please quit reminding them that their mothers are black? Surely we must recognize that they resent black women for birthing them. They don't appreciate how you struggled as a single parent to raise them without their fathers help. Yes, they think their moms are fat, too dark, and loud mouthed, full of attitude, and ugly and obviously not worthy of love, since they've never seen their moms in happy loving relationships. All of those attributes they project onto their black female peers are the same adjectives they REALLY feel about their own moms. Just accept it ladies, and quit telling these degenerates "but ya momma black" as if that shyt means anything to them. These fools cannot be saved, so quit trying.