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This isn't anything to be concerned with. They need to see opposing views and more importantly the life experiences that lead to someone not fukking with them.

The central problem that a lot of internet feminists seem unprepared to deal with is the bad actors in their own community. They consistently fail to answer questions like:

are men allowed to be victims of intimate partner violence and seek restitution against a woman?

Are men allowed to have safe spaces where they talk about women with the same anger that hurt women talk about the men that have done them wrong?

Are men allowed to be as discriminating in their dating requirements as women are?

Are men allowed to opt out of marriage if they see the ways that it benefits women over them?

Are men allowed to keep their emotions in when women punish them for being vulnerable?

Are men allowed to be happy if they've been rejected/abused by black women in one city but got love in another city or country or appreciation from non black women?

Without going into hyper Juelz mode, because the answer to any of these questions can put women who may themselves be abusive in a negative light. Its like people glossing over the physical and psychological abuse that amber heard levied on Johnny depp by saying 'she's not a perfect victim' that's a very funny way of saying 'abuser'
 

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1. History is not a mere "defense", it's the truth. I'm supposed to ignore the truth for bullshyt you're peddling?
2. The rappers who do that bullshyt make up a small portion of the entirety of black men. There are more to black men than rappers, even more so, since not all rappers are the type to "degrade" women. Treating rappers as the main thinkers and leaders of our community says more about the people upset by them than the rappers themselves.
3. The very business and entertainment avenues that some black women use were made by men. That said, some of the biggest rappers out there are signed to labels currently headed by black women. They are allowing the very filth you deride.
4. The idea of this era being less toxic is a farce in the face of divestors who literally collude with white supremacists and fuel the gender divide.
5. The sad part is, some idiots will dap this, showing how driven by their own biases and anger they are as opposed to actual logic.


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This post shows a bias perspective.

1. I have no problem with using history. Just your vagueness originally.

2. Are we going to be disingenious and say there wasn't a predominant player/pimp culture among black men?And actually still is today. And that we didnt use our most influential platform of music to degrade and sexualize the image of the black woman for the world to see?

3. Fair enough,black men did open doors and amplify the platforms which our women now use to degrade us. Your argument here is I guess they should be more grateful. I would argue what makes you think they arent grateful. And push music that degrades themselves because they now identify with it after years of programming from us. These women dont see a problem with their behavior,black men do. After years of making music and media highlighting these types of oversexualized "boss bytches".

4. Rappers make up a small group but not divestors:mjlol:? The player/pimp culture among black men is 100000% more prevelant than a divestor culture.

5. They understand#TheChildOfMan:wow:



Im not here to sway anyone. A man cant be swayed til hes ready to humble himself,take accountability,stop pointing the finger and understand the black woman is the child of the black man truly. Most likely black women and men will be extinct in this country 30 years from now anyway. Dont worry,you will live through those of us who left and healed outside of white supremacy
 
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This isn't anything to be concerned with. They need to see opposing views and more importantly the life experiences that lead to someone not fukking with them.

The central problem that a lot of internet feminists seem unprepared to deal with is the bad actors in their own community. They consistently fail to answer questions like:

are men allowed to be victims of intimate partner violence and seek restitution against a woman?

Are men allowed to have safe spaces where they talk about women with the same anger that hurt women talk about the men that have done them wrong?

Are men allowed to be as discriminating in their dating requirements as women are?

Are men allowed to opt out of marriage if they see the ways that it benefits women over them?

Are men allowed to keep their emotions in when women punish them for being vulnerable?

Are men allowed to be happy if they've been rejected/abused by black women in one city but got love in another city or country or appreciation from non black women?

Without going into hyper Juelz mode, because the answer to any of these questions can put women who may themselves be abusive in a negative light. Its like people glossing over the physical and psychological abuse that amber heard levied on Johnny depp by saying 'she's not a perfect victim' that's a very funny way of saying 'abuser'
I’m actually equipped to answer these questions into one because of my time in both women and queer spaces.

Before anyone starts bytching, I’m simply telling you what a lot of them think of Cis Black men from my experience.

“They do believe Cis men should have a spaces to speak to one another but they should do it away from women and women shouldn’t be the ones to correct it either . A lot of men’s societally problems are caused by men themselves, so they should be the ones to fix it”
 
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Already a couple threads on the same topic. And the search function is even easier
 

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This post shows a bias perspective.

1. I have no problem with using history. Just your vagueness originally.

2. Are we going to be disingenious and say there wasn't a predominant player/pimp culture among black men?And actually still is today. And that we didnt use our most influential platform of music to degrade and sexualize the image of the black woman for the world to see?

3. Fair enough,black men did open doors and amplify the platforms which our women now use to degrade us. Your argument here is I guess they should be more grateful. I would argue what makes you think they arent grateful. And push music that degrades themselves because they now identify with it after years of programming from us. These women dont see a problem with their behavior,black men do. After years of making music and media highlighting these types of oversexualized "boss bytches".

4. Rappers make up a small group but not divestors:mjlol:? The player/pimp culture among black men is 100000% more prevelant than a divestor culture.

5. They understand#TheChildOfMan:wow:



Im not here to sway anyone. A man cant be swayed til hes ready to humble himself,take accountability,stop pointing the finger and understand the black woman is the child of the black man truly.
1. Then you'd understand that history shows that black men have gone to bat for their women than most.

2. It's not disingenuous, it's the truth. Most forms of music black men took part in or created were not meant to degrade black women. If anything, black women had a part in the creation of said music or a part in its proliferation.

3. I'm not asking anyone to be more grateful, just pointing out that black men have done a good deal of positive things and have done a good deal of positive things for black women. This is what you are overlooking.

4. Divestors also make a small group but unlike rappers, who is calling them out? Rappers have politicians, activists, and random people angry at them, blaming them for this or that, and so on. Even more so, not all rappers are terrible while the same cannot be said for divestors. In trying to link them together, you're running cover for them while they collude with white supremacists. This is what I'm talking about. It's annoying. I don't put the divestor shyt on all black women so it is stupid to put the worst parts of any culture on all black men or even more so, call out one part and ignore the other.

5. Or they might be afraid of that gun you keep on your nightstand.
 
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