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[Gold]

come on man. Clearly my hair isn't a weave. That's just offensive. That's all me up top from root to tip.

Lol omg man. They're just clothes. Settle down. He picks his clothes. His favorite colors. He decides what music he likes. His brother is a total jock. Which is a shocker because he's surrounded by artists and nerds.

They're being raised the exact same way. Yes I could have forced them to be me but I don't believe in that. I allowed them to be what they are. One is a jock who's obsessed with soccer.

And the other likes doing girly stuff from time to time. If your theory held any weight both children would behave the same and they don't.

I'm not sure if you are being purposefully obtuse or if you just honestly can't understand what i'm saying so i'll try a thrid time.

Clothes are the primary way we represent ourselves to other people and the primary way we express ourselves. I'm not going to get in a social debate with you over the importance of clothing. You acting like clothes don't matter doesn't change the fact that they do.

Regardless of what you think of clothes, the fact that remains that an 8 year old doesn't work or have money. You purchase clothes for your son, so regardless of how "hands off" you think your parenting approach is, you are still making decisions for him.

So when your son leaves the house in uggs and a tiara, that's you.

I"ll leave it at that, I really dont feel like arguing with you over your son. Its not like it affects me personally.

 

[Tropical Fantasy]

I sense another tranny gate coming

 

[Neuromancer]

@Still Ill FC is your son Ill? ( You said he has a number of doctors) no disrespect.

I'm not gonna sit here and tell you how to raise your seed. I'm not going to shame you for how you do it. But please don't try to shame folks who wouldn't raise their child the same way, breh. And that's what some of your posts are doing. If you're truly tolerant you accept opinions that differ from your own. Now I don't agree with the people attacking you or your son because I ain't living your life. For all we know your son could grow up straight as an arrow. But you gotta realize that shaming language isn't cool on either side.
You still seem like a decent person to hang out with.

Also how's it going with that girl you were with?

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

I'm not sure if you are being purposefully obtuse or if you just honestly can't understand what i'm saying so i'll try a thrid time.

Clothes are the primary way we represent ourselves to other people and the primary way we express ourselves. I'm going to get in a social debate with you over the importance of clothing.

Regardless of what you think of clothes, the fact that remains that an 8 year old doesn't work or have money. You purchase clothes for your son, so regardless of how "hands off" you think your parenting approach is, you are still making decisions for him.

So when your son leaves the house in uggs and a tiara, that's you.

I"ll leave it at that, I really dont feel like arguing with you over your son. Its not like it affects me personally.

Exactly. It doesn't affect you personally. You finally understand me. And I'd never wear women's clothing. now you're ignorong that his brother is a jock? Lmao. That's me too though, right? Come on man. This is silly.

His older brother is a classic boy. He will not leave the house in anything he can't get filthy playing outside. So if I'm this negative influence on the kids why didn't the older son, who spent way more time with me because I coached his soccer team turn out like his little brother.

His older brother is so similar to me it's odd. We love the same music, food, sports, and cars. I treated both boys exactly the same way. Explain that.

 

[Gold]

Exactly. It doesn't affect you personally. You finally understand me. And I'd never wear women's clothing. now you're ignorong that his brother is a jock? Lmao. That's me too though, right? Come on man. This is silly.

His older brother is a classic boy. He will not leave the house in anything he can't get filthy playing outside. So if I'm this negative influence on the kids why didn't the older son, who spent way more time with me because I coached his soccer team turn out like his little brother.

His older brother is so similar to me it's odd. We love the same music, food, sports, and cars. I treated both boys exactly the same way. Explain that.

Because you coached one's soccer team while dressing the other up in tiaras and uggs

 

[Taharqa]

Raise your sons brehs

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

This round of banter has taken quite the peculiar turn...

 

[Capitol]

I kinda understand where you are coming from after reading more of your posts @Still Ill FC

 

[Colicat]

You have ten thousand posts on this forum and has been on here in a shorter time then me, and yet has not added not one decent fukking thing accept stories of getting knots upside your head...and the way you carry yourself on here, I think it's for the best

Stop slurping @Poitier & @Always-Right Liggins nutz and come up with an original lie.

 

[BocaRear]

@Still Ill FC seems like a good dude and he seems to mean well but breh is too indoctrinated by this progressive "everyone should do what they want" school of thought which is simply not practical nor possible in the world we live in.

there are things that make human beings seperate from animals and that is our rules.

sure you can be transgender if you want, I don't think anyone truly cares, but what people are against is the assertion that not agreeing fully with the idea of transgender makes you hateful, it doesn't.

Also, children aren't capable of rationalising why they do things or coming to the decision that they're "gender fluid" by themselves.

It is the role of the parent to be the moral authority figure and guide them breh, if your son wants to be gender fluid once he reaches a legal age and is therefore able to come to his own conclusion then that's a completely different matter but until he's 18 it's your responsibility to give him the skills which will allow him to do well in society and letting him wear a tiara and uggs is not helping him.

 

[NatiboyB]

He actually has a son... He's raising the breh gender fluid. Those two words together should not even be in a black mans vocabulary. The cycle continues.

Yeah that is umm unique

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

Because you coached one's soccer team while dressing the other up in tiaras and uggs

Naw you're not getting off the hook. You said I'm projecting myself onto him which is why he's gender fluid.

Don't back down now. You said, and I can quote you if you'd like. That kids are dough. And parent mold them. You're implying cause and affect, yeah?

My argument is he was born that way. Yours is I made him that way.

Don't back down from your Crack pot theory now. So @thewave explain to me how his older brother, who has been alive longer than he has, and spent much more time around me is a classic American boy.

You can't using your theory because it's nonsense. Lol I coaches both of their soccer teams bro, lmao. Your theory you fought and died for that I'm projecting myself onto the boys isn't true. Furthermore you said I've removed myself from parenting. Lmao, but somehow I'm still influencing two boys to behave two completely different ways.

I'm just reviewing your theory for you. You can give an answer. Collect your daps. The judges will agree with you because they assumed I was guilty before I went to trial.

But know your theory doesn't apply to the boys I'm discussing. I would never allow you anywhere near my kids or any kids at all. Because you'll clearly try to "fix" whatever doesn't align with your narrow archaic view of the world.

Take your non scientific position and go lead the blind. At least my position is supported by science. His doctors told us he's gender fluid. Real doctors. At a real hospital. The only thing supporting your non scientific babble are coli homophobes.

If we debated publicly you'd get torched. You're safe here amongst teenage posters and old guard males but the real world doesn't fukk with you.

I'm tempted to let you meet him and see if you could be this hateful to his adorable fukking face. You couldn't. You care and that's why you're fighting hard for your position. But I care too man. And I'm going to fight hard for my position.

Can we agree we both care about kids and want them to be happy and healthy? I'll meet you in the middle.

 

[ThugLife]

That's not today's youth we dont claim dat nikka

 

[Sccit]

He doesn't see a difference in men and women. To him it's all the same thing. I'm not going to condemn him because of how he views the world. That wouldn't be fair.

Man. This comment isn't nice at all. The slander is out of control. I smoke weed from time to time but I don't do drugs. There was a time in my life when I did a lot of cocaine but that was years ago.

I've never claimed to be Mongolian or Arab. I did air out islanders for not considering mass migration and acting shocked about natural disasters that they should expect. I used my Mongolian and Iranian friends as examples of people who migrated across the world to escape the harsh environments they lived in.

I've never been a fiend in my life. I did top shelf cocaine in my fukking Mercedes while wearing tailored handmade clothing and fukking bad bytches. I was weekending with girls in the gourmet ghetto and running a business with over 40 clients in four cities and with employees. If you were me you would have been doing whatever the fukk you wanted too. Tell my whole story mama. Not just the parts you remember.

AS HIS FATHER, YOURE SUPPOSED TO SHAPE HIS VIEWS

 

[Sccit]

You realize you're sexualizing a child in this post? He's 8 man. He has no concept of sexuality. Of course he understands gender. I'm not raising him to be anything. I'm allowing him to express himself as he chooses to.

And if he wants to wear fairy wings and uggs then I support that because I support him. I'm not going to make any assumptions about who he chooses to love when the time comes. As long as hes happy I support that shyt.

It's funny. One day I said I was black. And he said, "still ill nobody is a color." You probably don't undrstand how powerful that is coming from a child's mouth. He really views people as equal. That's beautiful.

Again, that's my little man and I'm not going to condemn him and I'm not going to entertain any of you bullies or your supporters low key dissing him.

It's easy to dap a post you didn't submit. And it's easy to slander people anonymously. But it takes courage to be gentle and kind.

At the end of the day if any of you had any class you wouldn't continue this because at the root of the issue is an 8yo child who doesn't have a hateful bone in his body.

LAUGH AT HIM FOR WANTING TO WEAR UGGS AND SEE IF HE WANTS TO WEAR THAT SHIIT AGAIN.


YALL WASNT READY TO BE PARENTS