TheColi doesn't want to see nerds win

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I am of the mindset that if you improve yourself you can get a women. Nerds who have no game just have to improve their game and mouthpiece. Also if you have any sticking insecurity figure out a way to deal with it. For example if you overweight or broke figure out a way to fix those things. Women can sense insecurity and when they sense it that turns them off. Improve yourself and everything follows. If you are a lame there is a way to fix that. As Rafe from Money and Violence once said "The only hands that hold you back is you own."
this is facts. i was tired of being broke, i got a job now. im still overweight, but the weight is coming off. improvement is not hard if you have discipline.
 

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I have social anxiety and I've tried everything's okay feel comfortable around people, it's gotten worse, I'm doomed.
 

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better to just have fun with it. If flirting isn't fun to you, the other party can easily read it on your face.

That's all you can really do. There's no game to be taught, if you're not a pushover, yet respectful, these are traits that you need in all facets of your life.
Me :francis:
The coli is definitely full of people in their older 20's-30's+. I wish there was a poll
There was one once before and yeah most were 28-40.
 

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There is no affirmative action or handicap in dating. You get out exactly what you put in

That is what OP is stressing. But he's offering pointers and advice on how guys can level up. Not quick fixes, but long term improvements that will help get better opportunities to get with your desired partner.

Nothing wrong with the message OP is relaying. It may fall on deaf ears for the most part, but if it encourages 1 person to work harder, it was worth saying.
 

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Idk how some posters don't see it

If you're a nerd, ignore 99.99% of thecoli's advice. Nerds can potentially get women but if you want a realistic shot, becoming comfortable around women and not being a stereotypical awkward nerd is what you should do.

  • Practice flirting with women
  • Get something about yourself that women can always be ":gladbron:" over and brag to their friends about. It doesn't matter what as long as it wows them.
  • Learn to be multi-faceted. You can still have your nerdy side, but don't let that be your primary around women. Talking to a chick about how Crocodile in one piece is a fukk nikka all day instead of as a male-female interaction is going to have her :keefnah: and you CAN'T tell me otherwise.
  • Speak to a huge variety of social groups to become comfortable in various situations
  • Work on your emotional intelligence and understanding other people's feelings
^Those are GOOD things to tell nerds aka the OPPOSITE of what thecoli says.



This is what TLR tell them:
  • Women LOVE nerds. You will have more women than your favorite celebrity just because you're a nerd
  • If you can't get women as a nerd, it's because you are a lame.If you are a lame, continue to be a lame and don't mention that you aren't getting women because you are a stereotypical lame nerd
  • Get a girl on your level meaning another nerd. If she's a nerd too that means that you 2 will be a match made in heaven no matter what because it's destiny
  • Stop chasing dimes as if nerds approach dimes ever

If you have weak social skills and that holds you back, talk to people and WORK on that shyt. It's a life skill even outside of p*ssy and is arguably the most important one to have.

If a group of people are failing at something because of a perceived reason, shytting on them and then coddling them to continue to be the exact same doesn't help them. It doesn't even make sense

We have to do better theColi:snoop:

I think you're attributing malice to ignorance when in truth most Coli members are just stupid and don't know how to give dating advice for nerds.
 

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I think you're attributing malice to ignorance when in truth most Coli members are just stupid and don't know how to give dating advice for nerds.

Or some people hold back info that can make one less Kent in existence.
 
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