this is a lot of dudes problem here.
Water doesnt want to settle on its own level
There are TWICE as many single men than women - Black men are impacted the hardest - Ages 18 - 29
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this is a lot of dudes problem here.
Water doesnt want to settle on its own level
Define average ?
Iverson_64
Superstar
To be fair, single can also mean unmarried and, sadly, Black men have the lowest rate of marriage even if we do have partners and children.I believe it.
Black Men whose ethier broke, socially awkward, dusty or ugly you're probably starving out here
I just want to say Black Men who are doing well in life or handsome gang can FEAST out here.
Nikkas on here say Black Men are the most desired men on the planet, yea HANDSOME gang Black Men are, not average ones.
Otherwise, I kinda agree even though you'll get backlash from it. That's why I think some of the PAWGers on TLR who claim that non-Black dimes give Black men more play/attention than the average Black woman are
or have a weird definition for what a "dime" is.Black men still largely have to be tall, handsome, and have some level of status to eat well with quality non-Black women for dating and especially marriage. 5'7 chubby blerds aren't bagging gorgeous White/Asian women left and right while getting ignored by Black women for not being a "thug" or "Pookie" lol. That's a fantasy that TLR likes to say.
Dudes who write off Black women for having "high standards" for Black men are in for a rude awakening if they think attractive looking non-Black women are going to lower their standards for us. There was even an online dating survey that showed that White women ranked Black men very low, equal to East Asian men and barely above Indian men.
Cornershooter
Banned
they want the women on their explore page
But zero courage to talk to the women they encounter
That’s why tinder has 80 percent men user base…they stay home and swipe on everything and then will blame women being selective
number21
Strive for rulership not equality, black man.
Man, you cats need to get your mouthpiece and swag up.
Do that, and it doesn't matter if women today are raised to view men as their adversaries, view them with contempt, and weren't raised to be wives that love and respect a man, etc.
Mouthpiece and swag will have your back brehs.
Do that, and it doesn't matter if women today are raised to view men as their adversaries, view them with contempt, and weren't raised to be wives that love and respect a man, etc.
Mouthpiece and swag will have your back brehs.
Y’all don’t want the women in your lane
Keep it 100
Here y'all go again turning this into a race issue, Like that comment section isn't white dudes parroting the same talking points.
Most of the talking points y'all black pillers parrot on here originated from 4-cac.
Why non-white black pillers keep scapegoating their race for their lack of success with women is beyond me.
A lot of people have internalized anti-Blackness.
And, I am not an elitist, but the people that speak that way shouldn't be around Black folk anyway. The last book they read was probably "Owl Babies" (1992). I doubt they read any books on Black history or are even interested in Black people outside of the stereotypes whites force-feed them on a daily basis.
If a Black person (man in this case) is working an honest job, making a decent wage, and taking care of his health, he cannot be average by any metric. You must take the society we live into account, if you don't, you end up with a poor perception of reality.
The only way for a Black man who has a decent job, etc..., to be average is if you kept all else equal and he was white. Only then would he be average.
This society constantly works against Black people. We are born behind the 8 ball, and we have to crawl and scratch our way into normalcy or the "average" when compared to other groups.
Dance_Like_A_Fiend
All Star
White supremacy is a problem everywhere, I don't see why we have to pretend like it doesn't exist in the dating world.
RickyDiBiase
aka Hash Brown Hands
Except I been in a relationship for almost seven years now stop projecting your irrational fears onto me breh
Nowadays, its the rappers in your local neighborhood dimepiece's DMs. They want to get their Genghis Khan on.
Cornershooter
Banned
If you in a happy 7 year relationship why you telling brehs about the dating market today like you know shyt . Your basically married that’s a whole decade but telling single men that they wrong
Magic Mulatto
Here Today, Gone Tomorrow. . .
When bytches is like I love black men you have to understand they have some built up character in their head of what a black man is and if you don’t check those boxes