there is not a deadbeat problem in the black community

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it goes both ways. Some women have a warped idea of what a man is so they date or mess with the wrong men.

And some men will talk a good game to a naive female only to leave her hanging. Its sad but it be like that sometimes:manny:
Alot of simpish dudes come from women who been left hanging.

this is a real life catch 22
 

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At the beginning of mean streets
Maybe nikkas should stop being deadbeats in the first place?

Also raising a womans self esteem so they don't become hoes attracted to deadbeats. But that's a whole 'nother beast.

She'll be considered damaged goods. :ld:

This is a real problem in our community but it's taboo for some reason, which keeps us unable to move forward.
 

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She'll be considered damaged goods. :ld:

This is a real problem in our community but it's taboo for some reason, which keeps us unable to move forward.

Growing up, the goal was always p*ssy, money, weed, cars, bling, etc.

However, for those who acknowledge the 1st World its food, water, shelter, a 2story house, cars and kids.

I don't think a lot of black children grow up with those goals in their minds. We get to an age where we don't know or care what we do. Its only until we see the cycle coming full circle in 9 months that we realize its too late.

And we run. Cause its not the life we wanted, but the one we failed to plan.
 
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