The common denominator in those relationships is a shared contempt for black men.This is why if I see a chic with a white boy, she's dead to me. I've seen many black men with white women, not excusing it cause I hate that too, but I don't see too many of them coming off like they just absolutely hate and disrespect black ppl. I mean, there's Clarence Thomas types out there, I'm sure but not many. Most black men that's with white chics might like white women but they still see themselves as black (Jordan, Byron Allen, etc).
These aunt Jemima types of black women are always on some sellout foolishness. I've never seen one with a white man who didn't harbor ill will for black ppl. And if you can make jokes about what our ancestors experienced in slavery, then as far as I'm concerned you harbor ill will towards us and you hate us.
It's the same mentality like how white dudes will date Asian women but will still call Asian men all sorts of slurs and dehumanizing things.
Lately here in Denver all I see here are black women dating white men. And they're all the same type too they distance themselves from black people and go out of their way to surround themselves with white folks.
The younger I was I would let it slide but now I just look at any black person who goes out of their way to surround themselves with white people like that kind of weird knowing how racist they are.