There's few traits more annoying than passive aggressiveness

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I meet passive aggression with direct aggression everytime, just reflex to me.

I don't really know too many nikkas that be on that passive aggressive shyt, so it's usually on other groups of people like Mexicans, Asians, and Indians (they're some of the worst when it comes to that shyt)

Yeah, passive aggressiveness is rarely a black thing.

I agree it's more whites,Mexicans, etc who do it,but alot of black guys do it as well
 

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I dont let them get away with it. No slick talk, backhanded compliments, or "I was just joking". If you cant deal w me straight, it doesnt matter because i will. I check them on it, call them out on it every time, make them clarify what they mean, or just simply ignore them and not be around them. That's how they get you, death by a thousand paper cuts.
 

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My mom and her sisters are pretty bad w/ this ... I basically can't deal with them all together anymore
 

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I dont let them get away with it. No slick talk, backhanded compliments, or "I was just joking". If you cant deal w me straight, it doesnt matter because i will. I check them on it, call them out on it every time, make them clarify what they mean, or just simply ignore them and not be around them. That's how they get you, death by a thousand paper cuts.

Completely agree, it's a little harder when its someone you like though. Not necessarily a friend per se, but an acquaintance you'r cool with. But like I'm saying, I'm just one more slick comment way. Duke hasn't really said anything insulting, it's more of the tone (implication) that I don't like.
 

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It's customary for me to ignore these type of people and tune them out at this point. They're automatically bytches to me.

The sad thing is I'm not sure which gender is worse with it, women or these feminine dudes that think it's cool to avoid direct confrontation.
 

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Yo, my biggest problem is that I'm a nice guy so when I like people I'm hesitant to go in on them because I have a habit of spotting what someone is most sensitive about without them even knowing. There's an acquaintance of mine who is one slick comment away from getting put on the summer jam screen
Oh so u just pretend to be a tough guy online. Good to know :ehh:
 

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That's a white thing....wp are PA....
 

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I'm passive aggressive because if I'm direct with people they often cry or lose their shyt. I don't have time to manage temper tantrums so I'm indirect about confrontation unless I don't care about hurting someone's feelings.

At work I made a grown ass man cry and snitch on me. This nikka was balling like a infant at 50 years old. Talking about his family and kids. I almost slapped him while he was sniffling. I didn't yell or call him outside of his name. I'm insensitive so being direct is never a good option. If I'm indirect I always get what I want and I don't have to deal with people's feelings which upsets me.
 

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What is being passive aggressive and what are examples of that. Maybe I suffer from that. I'm the type of person who is very sensitive to criticism and any slight or perceived slight from a person I won't deal with them(or deal with them from a distance) or even a person apologizes I never forget shyt. It's just who I am :yeshrug:. I don't like criticism.
 
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