These chicks AREN'T checking for me AT ALL...

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I've always been relatively successful with women but it's slowly hit me that these chicks just aren't checking for me AT ALL.

THE BIGGEST REASON is I'm a really low key person I don't take a lot of pictures and I don't do enough on social media as far as taking trips and pictures go.

I'm 34 and I don't really feel like trying to be my own hype man in order to attract women in 2017. I think the only thing I can change that I want to change is to get really really fit.

I live in a city of starving wolves and being a flashy mf would just be stupid.

It's just a weird feeling.
I just got some ass 2 nights ago but it's just bothering me that I've got like a 10% success rate now with talking to women in 2017.

Man when I look at my inbox.
There are so many women who read my shyt and don't even reply.
shyt has changed.
Social media really fukked me.


Bruh....just know you are not the only one feeling JUST like this word for word..
 
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Shouldn't you be way past banging random chicks after a certain age?

That shyt gotta feel empty after a certain age.

I'd hate to be that 40 year old nikka who is still chasing women while my peers are out here building empires.

when-if you live to be 40 please let me know when smashing some strange on a big booty, perky breasted woman gets old. :camby:

also when u get 30 and 40 if you're CHASING WOMEN you lll quickly realize your friends arent "building empires" they're building an ikea table. for their basic house, in their basic neighborhood, doing basic shyt:mjlol:


"SETTLING DOWN" is a trap and its exactly the road you on. talking bout building empires, you mean like Trump? :hhh: How ge got it out tha mud with no help but a tiny lil million dollar handout :francis:



















hint: when u DO get tired of pvssi...congrats you've been promoted to a phaggot :mjlol:
 
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This is true, really it's for nikkas in their early 20s and nikkas who are immature in their mid 20s. By late 20s and early 30s, you need to have your shyt together.

i have my shyt together now in my 30s. thats MORE REASON to be HOH because I have to screen out bytches who havent done shyt themselves , I'm not looking to raise or sponsor a chick, nd im not your retirement plan


HOH aint all thirsty angry duded, its those if us who doing good and tryna keep it that way.

simping is never the answer. only a simp thinks it is
 
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also lets be 100% women don't care if you're "successful" don't beleive me? go tell these thots youre TOP PLUMBER in the country, or #1 electrician in the southeast---

not success just POWER OR MONEY. You either git enuff money for them to retire on the housewive alimony child support finesses, or you got enough power for her fruends to be jealous and to enable her ti uss your power to her benefit.

i say this as a man with no problems getting laid right now, women really are users and in it for them.. all you can do us know that, and use her for what you can too
There are women who would be very attracted to that. Being successful in a business usually means local and regional accolades. That means you are a face in a community. A lot of women would love a part of that.

Now just being a decent employee isn't appealing but being one of the better plumbers in the area is very appealing. That always have a successful business and always make six figures with their own business.

You guys need to be honest, you haven't achieved shyt and are trying to get easy p*ssy from Insecure girls and it's not working as well as it used to because women regardless of age is getting supreme attention
 

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Damn. I dont want to be you in 10 years.
I been at my peak in my 30ths. Can't say that I wanna settle down also 34.:

I could with the right person but I'm not stressing it. My girls keep getting hotter and younger. I'm a dog out here 100%

Most these new age women want attention not love. Any woman that is entertaining all that attention will be confused and unavailable. Best thing to do is date people who are grounded in themselves. If she's social media heavy don't invest any effort into it.
 

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I've always been relatively successful with women but it's slowly hit me that these chicks just aren't checking for me AT ALL.

THE BIGGEST REASON is I'm a really low key person I don't take a lot of pictures and I don't do enough on social media as far as taking trips and pictures go.

I'm 34 and I don't really feel like trying to be my own hype man in order to attract women in 2017. I think the only thing I can change that I want to change is to get really really fit.

I live in a city of starving wolves and being a flashy mf would just be stupid.

It's just a weird feeling.
I just got some ass 2 nights ago but it's just bothering me that I've got like a 10% success rate now with talking to women in 2017.

Man when I look at my inbox.
There are so many women who read my shyt and don't even reply.
shyt has changed.
Social media really fukked me.


depends on your city

you'd be hitting your prime in NY, LA, Miami, and I'm sure others.

if you're in some country mid to small size city, you'd be put to the pastures...

people saying "no one is checking for an old negro" is a damn lie - my boy is 40+ (still looks early 30s) and be pulling chics every night from all age ranges. And He don't even spend alot and he could do much more but he turns down puzzy all the time.
 
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You're overthinking it man.

It's 2017

You have to LIVE in 2017, by that I don't mean start taking shirtless selfies and shyt unless that's really who you are.

Whatever you actually are in real life you need to be portraying it online and that includes social media because like it or not social media is a reflection of real life and it's not going away.

Being the realest dude of 2007 like a lot of folks are doing is just letting the world pass you by in 2017.

the same fraudulent stuff you see people do online to look or seem cooler/richer than they are
(buying shyt they don't even want/can't afford to try to impress) people have always done, it's just with social media they can curate it to look like that's them ALL the time. You're buying stock into people's highlight reels snd letting it make you feel some type of way. Stop that shyt. Now. See through it and move accordingly


Authenticity still matters and still wins trust me.

If you're an older head and knew how to pick your shots and talk to women before social media became a part of real life then if you slow down and pay attention you can still do that on social media, so many women are on "fitness journeys" on Instagram under fitness related hashtags (it's January remember) for instance and are very open to convo/encouragement/wherever you wanna take it. That's just one example
 

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Agreed but HOH isn't either. Simping as a grown man is very dangerous but so is HOH.
HOH is the way breh. Works like a charm on some reverse psychology. Women respond to it.

Take this example. I have a female friend and we talk about relationships. At one point she was dating two guys at the same time. One dude clearly was just fukking her. He showed no interest beyond that and she knew it. The other guy was simping hard tryna lock her down. She comes to me with a problem.. she likes both guys of course but is concerned about why the one dude isn't in to her plus she says he gives her better dikk than the simp. Herein lies the problem with a lot of women, they always do the what if with guys. If she could have locked down other other guy she would have. Don't be the good dude that gets a pass cuz the nikka she really wanted just wanna fukk her. You're a place holder. That never works out and you are easily replaceable. Always match the power dynamic in the relationship. Don't be chasing for the duration of it.

As a man your gonna learn how women view you in life at some point. I've pretty much come to realize that I'm the nikka they like to fukk but not introduce to the folks. I have no problem with that. I see women that I've slept with first night on these dating apps with a list of requirements for a simp but she came over here with a bag of weed to smoke and slept over 2 nights :heh:. Meanwhile she's got you walking thru all the proper steps to hit it. I don't buy into the bullshyt anymore. Most women are hoes bend their moral rules to suit their current interest.
 

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I'd hate to be that 40 year old nikka who is still chasing women while my peers are out here building empires.
You don't need a woman to build an empire

And as for all the nikkas talking about social media is the only way to get at women these days.... :camby: I hang out with a lot of kids in their early to mid 20s.... they all meet women the regular way. Unless you know how to finesse it the internet dating game is a wasteland for dudes. Plus women primarily exist offline. I'm tired of nikkas crying about the internet.
 

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I've always been relatively successful with women but it's slowly hit me that these chicks just aren't checking for me AT ALL.

THE BIGGEST REASON is I'm a really low key person I don't take a lot of pictures and I don't do enough on social media as far as taking trips and pictures go.

I'm 34 and I don't really feel like trying to be my own hype man in order to attract women in 2017. I think the only thing I can change that I want to change is to get really really fit.

I live in a city of starving wolves and being a flashy mf would just be stupid.

It's just a weird feeling.
I just got some ass 2 nights ago but it's just bothering me that I've got like a 10% success rate now with talking to women in 2017.

Man when I look at my inbox.
There are so many women who read my shyt and don't even reply.
shyt has changed.
Social media really fukked me.
so you know the problem... you are unwilling to change it

you only speak of social media and no outside interaction... again... i see no willingness to change that

but you just got some p*ssy so you still eating..........



nikka what you want us to say :gucci:
 
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