They mostly just don't like squares or "sweet" dudes. Sometimes you gotta be an a$$hole. When you do mean/tough/etc type shyt they'll wonder why they put up with you but if you're a good person and they really fukk with you they'll always remember that's the reason they fukk with you. Just like i don't want no woman that only knows how to say yes and doesn't question anything.
I feel like volatility is needed in a relationship, otherwise things will get stale. A woman doesn't want someone to bow down to them. That's the opposite of their genetic code. The outliers typically end up being dykes or plain lesbians